My girlfriend ditches my hen to go with husband to stag do: AIBU to consider dis-inviting them to the wedding?

[Restlessandwild]

Still trying to process but there it is. Last night was my hen do. Same time as my DHTB stag. All arranged long ago in my home town. Said friend invited to hen do, her DH to stag. They don't know my DHTB well but we have been friends since late teens (am 30yrs old). Her husband confirmed stag do attendance straight away. She made excuses (kids, etc) reg my hen. Today I find from other stags, etc that she actually tagged along with her DH with the stags?!? The only one there not a stripper and a wife, etc. Feel terrible, since they are essentially MY friends, but I had no idea. Just feel like picking up the phone and telling them to get lost and not bother coming to the wedding now... AIBU?

I can just see my husbands face if i said i was going to go out with him and his mates on a stag do! What kind of person does that!

W.71

I can just see my husbands face if i said i was going to go out with him and his mates on a stag do! What kind of person does that!

W.71

I don't understand how she had childcare issues prior to the hen, but her dh accepted the invite to the stag? If she's your friend and he is only friends with your df because of her relationship with you, why was he not staying home with the kids? Are they not his kids? If they are, that speaks volumes about their relationship.

I hope we will still get to hear the outcome of this despite the daily fail sticking their shitty noses in.

I fail to see why you would dis-invite her? Would she not just rock up uninvited anyway.