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Found a positive pregnancy test in DSDs bedroom. DH will want her out. What the fuck do I do.

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K1092902 · 07/07/2017 22:21

I'm in actual genuine shock.

This isn't one of those "my teenage child is better behaved than your teenage child" because it isnt. She is far from perfect but She knows she can tell me anything and I will 100% support her decision on things.

Anyway- on to the topic.

DSD has been working hard all week and took DD out today as I was feeling unwell. She usually does her own laundry and ironing so I decided to do it for her today. Went to put some t shirts away in her drawers and found a positive pregnancy test. Thinking about it (and I know this sounds odd in a way) but I haven't cleaned out any sanitary products from her bathroom bin in the last 2 or 3 months. I know she has been sleeping with someone and she insisted she was taking precautions but as we all know accidents can happen. I assumed she was on the pill as my periods stopped when I was on it a couple of years ago

I was out when she came back with DD and she is now at work until half 12. I'm going to sit and have a chat with her and I know she is either going to be really upset because she doesn't know what to do or angry because she feels I have invaded her personal space- I genuinely didn't go looking for it. I opened the drawer and saw the end peaking out of a pair of slipper socks and knew straight away what it was.

DH is going to be fuming and will probably want to kick her out (can say this with 90% certainty). I will support her decision 100%.

She is 18 (just)

OP posts:
Notreallyarsed · 14/07/2017 12:29

@PeterReidFaePeterheid all that came into my head when I read your user name was "Volvo for sale" Grin

mycatloveslego · 14/07/2017 16:06

You are amazing OP. She is very lucky to have you. You obviously know your DH very well, you were right about his reaction. He stands to loose not only his daughter, but also his grandchild and his wife over his ridiculously outdated views. What a monumental prick.Flowers

CarefullyAirbrushedPotato · 03/08/2017 20:45

Been thinking of this thread, do hope OP DSD et al are ok ...

FrankieStein · 03/08/2017 21:56

To be fuming with DSIS???
http://www.mumsnet.com/Talk/amiibeingunreasonable/2992537-To-be-fuming-with-DSIS

Continuation thread xx

Loyly · 03/08/2017 22:01

Notreallyarsed and PeterReid

Same Grin Grin

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