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Quads and homeless

162 replies

viques · 10/05/2017 23:13

homeless, alcoholic,on benefits , two rounds of IVF and FOUR fertilised eggs implanted. honestly, I have checked and I do not have a big enough pair of judgey pants.

He already has three adult children , and says he wil give up alcohol "when the children come home." OMG.

OP posts:
RJnomore1 · 10/05/2017 23:14

Eh? You what now?

ijustwannadance · 10/05/2017 23:18

How the fuck were they allowed IVF?!

FelixtheMouse · 10/05/2017 23:18
Hmm
shineon · 10/05/2017 23:18

I watched it. Jesus it was grim. Poor kids haven't a hope.

EachandEveryone · 10/05/2017 23:19

Im guessing went to Turkey where shes from?

Ellisandra · 10/05/2017 23:20

You don't have fertilised eggs implanted.
You have embryos transferred.

As anyone who has nervously waited to find out if their transferred embryos will implant or not will tell you.

Given that you got that wrong, I'm not sure about the rest.

Very unusual to find a clinic in the UK that will transfer 4 embryos at a time, too.

HarrietKettleWasHere · 10/05/2017 23:22

I perplexed as to how SS weren't involved. I wondered if they agreeed with them that they lived with family?

HarrietKettleWasHere · 10/05/2017 23:23

I mean, iI wonder if SS said they had to live with family to keep the children with them. He just had a tiny bedsit.

Crankycunt · 10/05/2017 23:23

What show?

HarrietKettleWasHere · 10/05/2017 23:24

C4, 'Quadruplets and Homeless'.

viques · 10/05/2017 23:24

Given that they are both on long term benefits I doubt they could afford two rounds of IVF privately even in Turkey, could be wrong though. apologies about the egg/embryo error.

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TrinityTaylor · 10/05/2017 23:24

I believe the procedure was done overseas so uk regulations not followed?

WayfaringStranger · 10/05/2017 23:28

He has children from a previous marriage, so IVF must have been overseas. I only watched a bit of it but I didn't feel judgy at all. I just felt very sorry and sad for the poor mum who was clearly torn between loving this man and her parents. She looked very sad and I can't imagine what it must be like to care for 4 newborns. She also looked very thin and tired. I know it's likely from caring for the babies but I thought she looked down.

HarrietKettleWasHere · 10/05/2017 23:29

Her mum left her on an abusive arranged marriage abroad when she was 16 though. That is shocking.

HelenaDove · 10/05/2017 23:30

Only saw the trailer but i bet he doesnt stick around.

EachandEveryone · 10/05/2017 23:34

I wonder if that was the parents own house and if it was in London? Maybe the grandparents paid for the treatment abroad?

CricketRuntAndRashers · 10/05/2017 23:34

Oh gosh, that sounds horrible! But what are you talking about? Is this a show or...?

EachandEveryone · 10/05/2017 23:35

Its on channel four plus one now

TrinityTaylor · 10/05/2017 23:35

Yes cricket on c4

highinthesky · 10/05/2017 23:36

Bloody hell, time for some late night 4OD!

There's nothing like a train-wreck life story to make you feel grateful for your own blessings Hmm

UrsulaPandress · 10/05/2017 23:39

Misunderstood quads in the title.

Realise I spend too much time in the countryside.

CricketRuntAndRashers · 10/05/2017 23:41

Thanks! At least it isn't somebody the op actually knows... Having to deal with that cockup would be horrible. Poor children!

SciFiFan2015 · 10/05/2017 23:42

Misunderstood title too. Thought it was going to be about roller skates (quads) and perhaps a roller Derby team needing a new home. Now I don't know what to think.

CricketRuntAndRashers · 10/05/2017 23:42

Ursula
The same happened to me initally... :D

raspberrysuicide · 10/05/2017 23:45

I thought it meant Quadriplegic!

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