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- men coming on MN?

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iwantedaSindywardrobe · 15/04/2017 01:17

Now I have no problem with men coming on here and declaring that they are men but seeking a female perspective on something. But there seem to be men who lurk and men who post pretending to be women on here.

I've read a few posts recently where there have been quite a lot of misogynistic comments (not saying women can't be like that) and some of those posters are clearly men. Mostly posts about how how women and girls are subject to sexually inappropriate or manipulative behaviour by males.

Why are men coming on here and doing this? It's a public forum, I get that, but it would never cross my mind to go on a DadsNet or equivalent forum pretending to be a man just to slate men and their particular experiences.

Is it just me who finds this odd and creepy?

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BIWI · 16/04/2017 19:05

I had a company that started in '98. We used to say to each other 'have you checked the email this week?' Grin

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JustAnotherSilentOldNumber · 16/04/2017 19:15

There was a way to get on bulleten boards back on the ZX spectrum. Imagine being able to load up a page over a modem and bringing up a place which has posts from other people..... On pages which look like teletext.

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Lweji · 16/04/2017 19:16

I had email and the internet when I started my Post-grad from 1995.
I still have a truly ancient (think fossil level) personal email address.

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DixieFlatline · 16/04/2017 21:42

Neopets was launched in '99. Now I feel old.

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LouKout · 16/04/2017 22:18

Theres a distinct influx of men at moment with misogynist views (women must please their men even if not in mood etc). Has anyone else noticed? Wonder where they are coming from.

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WankingMonkey · 17/04/2017 00:05

I still play neopets Blush

If anyone has an old account with decent items on it, please send me them lol

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DixieFlatline · 17/04/2017 00:25

Theres a distinct influx of men at moment with misogynist views (women must please their men even if not in mood etc). Has anyone else noticed? Wonder where they are coming from.

Reddit? 4chan? Could be anywhere with young-ish men with too much time on their hands, really.

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DixieFlatline · 17/04/2017 00:28

WankingMonkey Alas, it's been many years since I could access my old account. Check out Kingdom of Loathing though if you haven't, that's pretty entertaining. I've seen a KoL-themed MN username recently, that was fun!

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WorraLiberty · 17/04/2017 00:55

Theres a distinct influx of men at moment with misogynist views (women must please their men even if not in mood etc). Has anyone else noticed? Wonder where they are coming from.

You don't know they're men though.

I often think a lot of them are female trolls/PBPs because they know the boards inside out and exactly which buttons to press.

For example, most PBPs will start threads about using disabled toilets/BF versus FF/Parent and child parking spaces/kids with SN doing 'wrong' to their NT kids etc...etc...

It's all attention seeking shit to get the highest numbers of posts before MNHQ ban them yet again.

So there's no reason why the same attention seeking PBPs wouldn't pretend to by a misogynistic man.

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WankingMonkey · 17/04/2017 01:16

I cannot get into any other online game. I have been playing neopets since I was like 13 years old. I feel so ridiculous still being pretty addicted to it now but it seems most of the members are about my age and play for nostalgic reasons. I was pretty happy to find out the average age seems to be about 25-27 as I did think for a long time that I was really weird and playing with teens for hours a day Blush

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LouKout · 17/04/2017 06:03

Yes, sorry, i should have said misogynistic "men".

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