I have 4 kids what does he expect?

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Grrr. Ive been seeing a new man for a few weeks and last night we had sex. Afterwards he was basically moaning but trying to be polite! His words were 'youve got a great body for a mum of 4 but down below yikes!' Wtf?

Well that has saved you some time - bin him! What a dickhead

He sounds a charmer, a real prince among men
Wouldn't be seeing him again but that's me...

Stop seeing him.

I hope you dumped him!

Tell him to drop dead and don't contact him again!
You don't need someone like that in your life.

Charming.

I know then he started trying to back track frigging loser!

He said 'yikes'? About your vagina? Just show him the door. YANBU

If only all blokes were like him. The time we'd save...

He can fuck off.

Pisses me off when men make comments about women's genitals but aren't ashamed of the mess they have hanging there. Looks like something that should be hanging out of a shark's mouth.

Maybe he's insecure about his size?

He really wasnt all that either. He actually told me i had a huge V

How rude of him!
Don't speak to him again

Tell him it probably just feels that way because his penis is so small.

Sounds like you've had a lucky escape tbh.

Please tell me you dumped him immediately?

My last baby was almost 10lb but come on! You dont say stuff like that

How did you respond?

Omg, that actually made me open my mouth in shock. Bin him immediately, what a loser.

Wow what a fucknugget. Show him the door op you can do better than that!

Yes i told him hes not staying for breakfast and to lose my number

He's rude.

You don't want to date someone rude.

Therefore you don't want to date him.

If you date him, he'll be rude some more. To you, and to other people you don't want him being rude to.

That's just so nasty. Don't ever see him again and thank god he showed himself up. I think a lot of us are insecure about our down belows after having kids, even if you do a lot of kegel there is still scarring and whatever.

He's an arsehole get rid.

Please dump him by text saying that you're not doing it face to face as it will save his embarrassment but he's not all that in the trouser department and you're used to a far more generous lover.

For what it's worth, please don't let it get you down or make you self conscious.
Vaginas are super stretchy, and they shrink back pretty well after even multiple births, especially if you do kegels/toning exercises with or without the aid of a toning machine or implement. Ok you won't be virgin tight, but you'll be far from gaping. No matter how experienced people are, first times with new partners are like first times in general, you have different preferences, and it takes time to get to know them and work together. He sounds really very childish, and i'm amazed if anyone would be willing to sleep with him a second time.

You should have told him your previous partners haven't had any concerns but then they've all been bigger

I'd have asked him what his excuse for the tiny penis was and told him to get the feck out!