I have 4 kids what does he expect?

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Grrr. Ive been seeing a new man for a few weeks and last night we had sex. Afterwards he was basically moaning but trying to be polite! His words were 'youve got a great body for a mum of 4 but down below yikes!' Wtf?

I wasted a babysitter for that shite!

Bloody hell. What response was he expecting? An apology? A slap? Some people.

I would have had to have said to him it is not me that's the problem it is your small dick, your sagging balls and your halitosis.

OP - I have five dcs, and did the dating thing this year. My body is not perfect at all, and all dcs were vaginal births with no stitches
The way I look at it is - any man lucky enough to get near my lady garden is a lucky devil indeed

I have had some lovely fun this year, not a single complaint was made!
Have fun OP.
Do not waste a single moment on idiots that aren't worth a minutes thought. There are men out there who will cherish every single inch of your body.
Don't settle for anything less

It wasn't until I come on MN that I become aware this was even a problem for some men.

I would have said ..... Sorry my Ex was much bigger ... He didn't notice a difference !

Oh dear

W.T.A.F?! Well done OP!

It's not a problem for some men; it's that some men are a problem...

So he was a crap shag, he knows he was a crap shag, has probably been told previously that he's a crap shag and he's trying to blame it on you.

I don't think he's worthy of the title 'man'.

This reminds of a guy I dated that tried to "reassure" me that he'll know whether I slept with a lot of people or not once we have sex. When I asked what he meant,he asked me if I know the term "bucket".

This is one of those things that makes zero sense if you're even slightly capable of logical thinking. But they're not thinking, they're just mindlessly spouting out their 'keep the women down' bullshit.

I was with my ex for 11 years. We had sex on average 3 or 4 times a week. If a single woman during that same time period managed to rack up the same amount of sex but with different men, why on earth would her vagina become a 'bucket' but not mine? And anyway, given that the vagina is made of muscle, I'd imagine regular exercise would keep it toned, not make it go lax

I'd have said yes I know what you mean and I'm sorry your Penis is to Small!

What a revolting piece of shit.

What a vile man!

I've just read this out to dh who is next to me on the sofa and equally horrified.

Repent What actually pissed me off more than his skewed "logic" was the assumption we will have sex. Not if,but when.

Still think Joff is right!

Bloody hell - what a total arsehole. Well done for ditching that utter tube.

Oh my god, what a fucking prick, I'm sure there is nothing wrong with u, tell him he's got a tiny micro penis and he hasn't produced 4 human beings, so what's his excuse?! Sounds like u had a lucky escape, what an absolute ass hat, I'm outraged on your behalf!!

Jesus. You could have a chuff like a wizard's sleeve and it would still be incredibly rude for him to mention it. I hope you told him where to go!

Im better single

I sometimes think that this will always be the last bastion of inequality between the sexes. If a guy likes small breasts/big breasts, small hips/big hips, small bum/big bum etc, he can pretty much tell just by looking at a fully dressed woman what her size is.

Not for us women. We have to wait until we're right down to the wire to find out whether a man's 'physique' is what we're after. You never hear "It's not the size that matters, it's what you do with it the counts" about vaginas, do you?!!!! Grrr. Glad I'm single.

It's all shite. I have scars down below and they all think I've had cesarean sections for my three children. I did not. I gave birth to all of them vaginally. The men I've been with post divorce have remarked how tight I am. I bin them. Straight into the bin. The men you meet should like you for you as a person.

He's not a very nice man. Is he? You deserve better.

Disgusting pig. I hope he falls off a cliff.

I kinda think you should ask him what he has to say for himself, just so you can share it with us.

And then block him.

Oh for the love of God.

I've got a dick between my legs and while I'm no lothario, I've been with enough women to know that the number of children they've had really doesn't make a discernable difference in how things feel in the sack.

The best sex I ever had was a woman who'd had 5 kids.

What a prize prick. I'm sure your lady garden is just fine so please don't let that idiot knock your confidence!