I have 4 kids what does he expect?

[Busybeesbum]

Grrr. Ive been seeing a new man for a few weeks and last night we had sex. Afterwards he was basically moaning but trying to be polite! His words were 'youve got a great body for a mum of 4 but down below yikes!' Wtf?

[KimMumsnet]

Hi, all. As this thread is four years old, we're going to close it to new replies now.

[HotToddyColdSauvignon]

@Shunter350

It's amazing what one comes across on MN!
It's also amazing what utter pricks some men can be.
I'm Speechless.

It’s amazing how you can resurrect something from 5 years ago

[TwoBigNoisyBoys]

Another zombie thread! 🧟‍♀️

[GertrudePerkinsPaperyThing]

Glad you did the right thing and got rid.

You probably don’t even! I would think it was a deliberate neg to put you in your place - glad you didn’t fall for it

[scorpiogirly]

You should have told him his penis is just too small!

[Shunter350]

It's amazing what one comes across on MN!
It's also amazing what utter pricks some men can be.
I'm Speechless.

[Busybeesbum]

Lol I should have done but I'm not quick enough! He's a loser

[NotTheDroidYoureLookingFor]

Did you tell him, "Well, with a dick as tiny as yours, I guess any V looks big?

[xStefx]

Wow im so glad he showed you his true colours early on, shame he didn't show before you slept with him though. Screams Narcissist to me. Yes a perfect response would have been "its because you have a small dick! what a dick head. Sorry OP that you had to come across a twat like that. Please please take no notice.

[ShebaShimmyShake]

I hope the door hit his arse on the way out. Did you tell him what a useless loser he is?

[Busybeesbum]

Lol my thread has been reignited. I would definitely not date someone for 4 to 6 months before sex what a waste of time! He's definitely gone and won't be coming back!

[VeryBitchyRestingFace]

My old mantra about not having sex with a guy till you've been seeing him at least 4 - 6 months!

Not at all. Far better she finds out what a complete douchebag he is after only a few weeks than waste 4-6 months of your life on him.

[EdmundCleverClogs]

Also know this is a zombie- but wait 4-6 months for sex? I'd go mad! If a guy is an asshole, he'll be one regardless. Might as well get a shag out of it before dumping his man-pig self.

[LittlePaintBox]

if DP had wanted to wait 4-6 months just to have sec

Is 'sec' the singular of 'sex'?

(Which is all this loser got, I hope!)

[Iwasjustabouttosaythat]

Honestly, if DP had wanted to wait 4-6 months just to have sec I would have dumped his arse. As it goes we've been together 18 years.

[ChishandFips33]

text him back that it was his talking that showed him the door!

block him and forget about him - he's not one of nature's best example of the species

[Klaphat]

My old mantra about not having sex with a guy till you've been seeing him at least 4 - 6 months!

Christ. Imagine you held out all that time (to whose benefit?), and then he revealed that he was into wearing adult nappies in the bedroom. Nah.

[PollyBanana]

For future reference, a useful retort is "the only useless ugly twat around here is YOU. My twat is perfect"

[Janey50]

KingJoffrey - . Seriously though,men like this piss me right off. Any man who says that you are too big/too loose 'down there' deserves to be told that they are too small 'down there'. And to fuck off as well.

[AcrossthePond55]

The opposite of a 'keeper' is, of course, a 'loser'.

Sorry, zombie thread I know, but I couldn't resist.

[LittlePaintBox]

He sounds like a real charmer! What's the opposite of a 'keeper'?

[PyongyangKipperbang]

Yes I know it is a Zombie, but I feel I must respond to Wdigin

How on earth was it humiliating?! He was rude, the OP kicked him to the kerb. No humiliation that I can see.

God forbid that a woman has sex just because she feels like and breaks the "rules" of making a man wait just to prove himself

[Wdigin2this]

Haven't read the whole thread, but I would say;
A) My old mantra about not having sex with a guy till you've been seeing him at least 4 - 6 months! Because,
B) By then he would have shown just what a wanker he obviously is, and you would have got rid. Leading me to,
C) You'd never have had to endured this humiliating experience in the first place!!!!!
But there again, what do I know?!

[Iggi999]

Well let's hope the OP kicked him to the kerb before Christmas then.

[riceuten]

I hope you replied with "Well, your appendage isn't exactly Robert Redford either"