AIBU to think that 35 is too old...

[teeththief]

...have another baby?

If you are thinking for yourself then YANBU however if you are thinking for others yabu

Yes yabu
Unless it's you you're talking about and you feel too old

I had my dd at 37. Wish I'd have started a family slightly earlier. 35 is not even considered old mum these days.

Gosh no I dont think so- I know plenty of women having children in mid to late 30's

I don't think it is. I've had two babies since 35. If you think it's too old for you though, that's fine, don't have any after that.

I personally think its too old........for me.

But for others its up to them.

YABU.
Plenty of us have had babies (even first babies) at 35+.

I had one at18 I'm now 37 and expecting one. 35 is young

ha ha

no

so glad my 20s were child free, I know people that had children in their 20s don't know what they missed though.

I hope not, I'm 34 and want another 3! Bring on the triplets?

Yabu. Hadn't had my first at 35.

For yourself or for others?

First at 26, second at 35 currently 25 weeks with my third at41! So Yabu.

YABVU.

I only had my first at 34. My second, at 36, was easier, if anything.

My partner is 36 and I'm pregnant with our first.. I don't think he's too old. Yabu.

I hope not, I'm 34 and expecting my first. I plan to have another. I may be nearly 40 by then!

Thank you all! Will show this to DH tomorrow. I have DS (9) and DD(7). DD is so desperate for a younger sibling and I really want another one too. My parents had 6 children before they were 30 which is making me think 35 is old I guess

Yes.

Yabu. I felt perfectly young and able enough at 35 to have my 2nd. Unfortunately it didn't happen but I didn't feel old at all. I definitely do now in my mid 40s but know others who are mums of young babies at 40 plus.

Why is it too old?

Yanbu in relation to to yourself, but yabvu if you think the same for others.

I explained in my last pos taytocrisp

Well I'm 37 and do feel a bit old for another, have 8yo, 7yo and 3yo but to be fair if we could afford another (bigger house being main thing holding us back) I would probably have another anyway :-)...

Ha! Had first one at 36. Second one at 38. Am currently heavily pregnant with third, at 42. Stopping now, but je ne regrette rien! Or that's to say: I do slightly wish I had been a bit younger but I haven't felt "too old" with any of my pregnancies.

X-post!
I'm 40 and 28 weeks pregnant... My DH is very excited, it's not so bad! (had dd1 aged 36).

A personal judgment call to make.

For me personally it would be. But I left myself a very small personal choice window of opportunity for babies. Late 20s to early 30s . Fortunately it worked for me.

I didn't want to waste my 20s being tied down and having babies and I didn't want to have young children when I reached my 40s