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to want to know if DogsBestFriend has been banned from mumsnet?

999 replies

GetOrf · 07/11/2011 19:43

Because if she has been I would like to know why.

OP posts:
Kayano · 07/11/2011 21:08

JUSTINE PLEASE CAN WE HAVE A BUNFIGHTS AND DRAMA TOPIC - or most rediculous trolls or
Something so we can easily compare posting styles etc !!

Please

Elibean · 07/11/2011 21:09

Delete posts by all means.

Banning people risks bordering on dodgy - where do you draw the lines?!

LeBOF · 07/11/2011 21:09

The personal attacks on that thread where made by non-doghouse regulars, in the main, looking for a pile-on. The comment about personal hygiene from Apocalypse etc slid the thread from straight-talking to abusive.

If that sentence from DBF about being foolish and a disgrace etc had been aimed at a newbie honestly seeking help, Justine, then it would be unacceptable. But it wasn't. It was fair comment directed at a poster who has been here for years, and has been economical with the truth for that entire period. And her selfishness on this occasion will probably end with a dog being put to sleep, because she ignored excellent doghouse advice in the first place.

Please please reconsider the ban on DBF- I feel awful about it, and coupled with the reluctance to ban MRA trolls who do far more damage, I dont know if I want to continue to post in this topsy-turvey situation Sad

SecretNutellaFix · 07/11/2011 21:09

So do a time-out!

24 hours for first offence, 3 days for second and a week for a third with anything subsequent being a permanent exclusion.

Honeydragon · 07/11/2011 21:09

Ah, have been alerted that a couple of trolls have come out to join in the bunfight

reelingintheyears · 07/11/2011 21:10

GuidoFawkestooearlymustdache

Wine
JustineMumsnet · 07/11/2011 21:10

@catgirl1976

Justine - please could she come back?

There is a lot of support for her and she has helped a lot of people.

Even my cats want her back......

Well, maybe, if she's prepared to be nice. But things have gotta change round here (the doghouse that is) you here? We need more understanding and a lovely board Ambassador like what Hully says.

SacreLao · 07/11/2011 21:11

Love the idea of a time out as punishment :)

ItsonlymeMrsDB · 07/11/2011 21:11

Proud

Sorry had to put DCs to bed....I need a bottle of Wine please ! Just pass me a straw. Grin

YankNCock · 07/11/2011 21:11

Wait, DBF = Valhalla?

Add my name to the petition, her advice has helped me, and someone does need to show the world that side of dog ownership that says they are not accessories to be discarded at will! There are so many unwanted dogs in the world, we really need someone who will tell people they are being idiots for backyard breeding or taking on dogs with no idea what they are doing. If those sort of people don't get a warm reception, perhaps they should think about WHY rather than bitching about unfriendliness.

Kormachameleon · 07/11/2011 21:11

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DandyLioness · 07/11/2011 21:11

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JustineMumsnet · 07/11/2011 21:12

@SecretNutellaFix

So do a time-out!

24 hours for first offence, 3 days for second and a week for a third with anything subsequent being a permanent exclusion.

This is a good idea too but I do promise in this case we didn't just pull the trigger.
(I'd like a sin bin)

SacreLao · 07/11/2011 21:12

Justine I know you say things have got to change and fair enough but PLEASE tell me your not going to stop people pulling up those who are clearly doing wrong?

We'll be over-run with trolls and backyard breeders!

ThierryHenryismyBoyfriend · 07/11/2011 21:12

I think it would be a disgrace to ban her. She talks a lot of sense and she has helped many people. I find it ironic when I see some of the other crap that is allowed to stand when her forthright opinions mean she gets banned.

She always took time to respond to people's pleas for help and spent considerable time sending me a personal message when I asked for help, she might be to the point at times but she always comes from the point of view of caring.

Another example of why MNHQ get it wrong again.

mummynoseynora · 07/11/2011 21:12

lets do this then justine! Re-enable her and pick a hall monitor for doghouse!

Toplistmaker · 07/11/2011 21:13

have no idea what you're talking about but am V nosy so am joining sit in.. might knit some yoghurt while I'm here..

GrimmaTheNome · 07/11/2011 21:13

Nutella, DBF had had a temporary ban not long before..

I reckon DBF should be allowed back (and others just as 'assertive' allowed to stay) but that other doghouse posters should (a)

JeremyVile · 07/11/2011 21:13

I dont really know DBF one way or another, i have seen mention of the tone of the doghouse being quiteextreme and unsupportive and from the little i have read on ther DBF does stand out as being top dog [wunk] of the topic.

I have respect for mnhq's decisions, i dont tend to think they go overboard...even when i got banned! I bloody deserved it.

I just feel i want to be clear that my reporting of the thread was not prompted by DBF's posts.

Elibean · 07/11/2011 21:13

Ah. Growth, change.....far, far better than bans.

ItsonlymeMrsDB · 07/11/2011 21:13

Can we have a naughty step too ?

Maybe involve a webcam ? Grin

HeresTheThingBooyhoo · 07/11/2011 21:13

justine have you made DBF aware that there is a chance of her coming back under your condition of her being nice?

SacreLao · 07/11/2011 21:13

I vote DBF to be the monitor for the doghouse Grin

StewieGriffinsMom · 07/11/2011 21:13

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Honeydragon · 07/11/2011 21:13

Like Hullys idea of a monitor, so why not get Vall to be it? Liase with her what you want from the doghouse and see if she'd be willing to take the role?

Ask her to use her knowledge to moderate the bunfights rather than cause them?

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