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Couples who Hold Hands

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MrCranky · 05/09/2026 05:05

I’m interested in other people’s views on couples who walk around holding hands.

Do you and your partner do this?

We do, but I’ve noticed that I don’t really see others doing it and wondered if we’re perceived as a bit weird.

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Kevinbaconsrealwife · 06/09/2026 19:31

ithinkilikethislittlelife · 05/09/2026 06:40

Always hold hands. Even when we are sat next to each other we hold hands. And I still reach for his bum, and no not newly together, been together for over 16 years he’s just my favourite person.

Yep same here my lovely….19 years and love him to bits x

MrCranky · 06/09/2026 20:02

DeeferDogg · 06/09/2026 19:29

Thos thread has got so weird ...

Hasn’t it?!

Not what I intended at all. it was just a genuine lighthearted question.

I don’t actually care if people think we’re weird.

OP posts:
Threat28 · 06/09/2026 20:24

OneKeenPeachRaven · 06/09/2026 19:20

Why would my husband not be able to peruse the underwear with me? If - as a assume - you mean 'looking at it on the hangers', which I don't really see as any different from me perusing the menswear section with him? Is he allowed in swimwear? Can I emerge from the changing room in a bikini or swimsuit to get his view? Just testing where the boundary lies 😉

As to peering into the changing rooms. Well yes, if one is in Primark or M&S I'd quite agree. On the other hand a lot of boutique lingerie stores fully expect this is one of the things that might happen. My own local one has two curtains with a chair in between for whoever is accompanying you if wanted. I fail to see what's weird about this tbh.

But yeah, more than 20 years here and we are hand holders so make of that what you will 😂

Because they block up the space! It drives me mad. A tiny space for the underwear section and it’s full of bored men who don’t need to be there. Queues for the changing rooms because women are coming out to show their husbands. I feel the same about whole families clogging up the aisles at supermarkets or who walk four abreast down the High Street preventing anyone from overtaking.

I also feel quite strongly the dogs should not be allowed in John Lewis too, that is a joke.

Men and dogs should be banned from women’s clothes sections, families from supermarkets (kids are fine), and some sort of overtake lane introduced on High Streets.

Loghabit · 06/09/2026 21:10

Threat28 · 06/09/2026 19:07

It was entirely worth it, and it was still odd that a couple had to sit and hold hands every second that they weren’t eating. I don’t think you know what poking the bear means and you seem to becoming strange again in your replies. This is a thread about holding hands, so people are replying with their opinions. It isn’t even a controversial subject.

You are responding in a way that suggests you are annoyed - that’s what’s making it controversial- maybe you lack self awareness?

Threat28 · 06/09/2026 21:33

Loghabit · 06/09/2026 21:10

You are responding in a way that suggests you are annoyed - that’s what’s making it controversial- maybe you lack self awareness?

Maybe you’re reading it wrong.

Loghabit · 06/09/2026 21:39

Threat28 · 06/09/2026 21:33

Maybe you’re reading it wrong.

Whatever you think, it's too boring now - I'm done. Love and kisses😘

Screamingabdabz · 06/09/2026 21:48

I didn’t really notice couples ‘til Harry and Megan seemed obsessive about never not being joined at the hip. It looks a bit icky like he’s clinging on to his mummy.

Otherwise I couldn’t give a flying shit about what other couples do as long as they don’t expect me to get in the gutter because holding hands makes them moronically unable to walk single file when an individual pedestrian is walking the other way.

HeyThereDelilah1 · 06/09/2026 21:51

Not weird!

OhForTheWeekend · 06/09/2026 21:52

Threat28 · 06/09/2026 17:56

I don’t know if you’re pissed or have maybe got some other issues, but you don’t sound stable. I think I’ll leave it here with my firm view in place that holding hands in bed or on the sofa is lovely, and holding hands in public places is ridiculous and unnecessary unless you are a teenager.

when me & DP are in a restaurant, we don't hold hands, we play footsie instead..

Sbmpp · 06/09/2026 21:56

@MrCranky My dh and I still do and we’re in our late 60’s early 70’s. I can’t imagine not 🤷🏻‍♀️.

Threat28 · 06/09/2026 21:59

OhForTheWeekend · 06/09/2026 21:52

when me & DP are in a restaurant, we don't hold hands, we play footsie instead..

That is 100% acceptable! Much better.

DeeferDogg · 06/09/2026 22:02

when me & DP are in a restaurant, we don't hold hands, we play footsie instead.

For the avoidance of doubt ... are your feet under the table or on it?

OhForTheWeekend · 06/09/2026 22:05

DeeferDogg · 06/09/2026 22:02

when me & DP are in a restaurant, we don't hold hands, we play footsie instead.

For the avoidance of doubt ... are your feet under the table or on it?

ha ha! we are not yoga experts.

TheAmberKoala · 07/09/2026 10:40

Depends where. On the beach fine, on a busy footpath where its blocking others getting past, not fine.

marbIehalls · 07/09/2026 20:49

Threat28 · 06/09/2026 15:55

Well I’m pleased you’ve calm down and all is well.

Bless your heart 😂 I’m so pleased you’ve managed to contain your anger.

I was getting a little worried about you there! Its only mumsnet after all

DarkForces · 07/09/2026 22:19

Threat28 · 06/09/2026 20:24

Because they block up the space! It drives me mad. A tiny space for the underwear section and it’s full of bored men who don’t need to be there. Queues for the changing rooms because women are coming out to show their husbands. I feel the same about whole families clogging up the aisles at supermarkets or who walk four abreast down the High Street preventing anyone from overtaking.

I also feel quite strongly the dogs should not be allowed in John Lewis too, that is a joke.

Men and dogs should be banned from women’s clothes sections, families from supermarkets (kids are fine), and some sort of overtake lane introduced on High Streets.

You must go through public spaces in a high state of irritation.

Threat28 · 07/09/2026 22:23

DarkForces · 07/09/2026 22:19

You must go through public spaces in a high state of irritation.

I never go shopping if I can at all avoid it. Miserable places.

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