Omg I shagged the vicar

[Lapdog78]

BC for this one!!

last summer I moved to a new village with my 2 teen DC’s following my divorce. I’ve made a real effort to integrate into village life and joined a cycling group which I love.

a couple of new members joined a few months ago, one of whom is the vicar from a nearby parish. He’s 39 single. I’m 43.

on Friday we all met for drinks snd I ended Ho inviting a group back to my house. Kids are away with their dad. We all had a few more drinks at my house before people started heading home. There’s been a little bit of flirtation between me and the vicar and it ended up just me and him- we had some more wine and he was being very complimentary and was clearly trying it on. We ended up kissing and I’m afraid that I ended up shagging him on my kitchen sofa. Very out of character for me.

im now mortified that I have to see him at cycle meet this week. My friends think it’s hilarious but im worried he’ll think I’m loose and common. 😲

Cdm - clergy discipline measure. They aren’t supposed to shag the parish. Obvs everybody makes mistakes but )like doctors) vicars are held to a higher standard.

Yes i must admit to being surprised that people think this is so funny.

OP can have sex with who she likes but if the vicar really goes round having sex with random women on their sofas then i think he is in the wrong job. Iwoukld have thought his alchol consumption was quite questionable as well.

You’re a grown woman.

Why would you be embarrassed about this.

Feck, Arse !

Lots of modern day Christian’s, and churches, have watered down sin to ‘all the stuff I didn’t want to do anyway’ and reframed all the stuff they do want to do as ‘not a sin after all’. 😁

They might as well accept they are secularists.

Loose and common people have open plan.

🤣

The only place I’ve had a kitchen sofa was a student flat in 2005, and it was mostly because we had an extra person using the living room as a bedroom 😅

I have a sofa in my kitchen to make my mum sit down with a cuppa and stop getting in my way when I’m cooking. It’s never seen this sort of action!

Not so far as l know!

He was probably relaxed about it all till you posted it on Mumsnet

Honestly, I think you’re worrying far more than you need to! You’re both single adults and it sounds like there was mutual attraction. Just go to the cycling meet, act normally and don’t make it awkward. And I doubt he’s sitting there thinking you’re “loose and common”!

Fornication, that’s a dusty, musty old word isn’t it. Haven’t come across that in a very long time.

The sofa is in the spare kitchen - next to the servant's living quarters

He’s gone down in my estimation

I wouldn't worry about it, no more 'loose and common' than he is - and he's the one with more to lose. Enjoy it 😁

In your estimation ? Is that a euphemism?😂

Maybe like a scullery?

With a sofa in it.

Most things that aren’t against the law can have a humorous side.

Hosanna in excelsis.

Hallelujah!

This made me laugh out loud!

I've laughed my socks off.

I'm a chorister and I've seen some dishty vicars.

I have to know was he wearing his cassock?
My barrister friend used to wear his wig and gown!

Good luck to you, he might want to offer you guidance 😁

😂

THOSE WOMEN WERE IN THE NIP! 😱

Helpfully precise though when PP thought catholic priests can’t shag but Protestant vicars can.