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Cringe Phrases

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Musntapplecrumble · 29/08/2026 09:18

In and of itself
Why do people use that phrase, isn't "in itself" enough?
See also
At This Moment In Time
Er...now?
🤔😂

OP posts:
BrezhnevsLuxuriantEyebrows · 31/08/2026 10:04

Is this thread still going? Surely we must have parked the macro by now, and it's time to sunset it?!

Mycatisreal · 31/08/2026 10:44

BanjoKnockers · 30/08/2026 17:11

From a current bad-tempered, migrant-bashing thread

People literally just talk out of their arse.

Grin

My case in point.

snurtifier · 31/08/2026 12:18

I agree with most of these but the example I hate above all others is that no musical artist today ever releases a second album. It's always their sophomore album. Why have we imported that expression from the States? No-one in the UK calls their second year at uni their sophomore year. And why is it never applied to anything else? No-one has a sophomore pint of lager or a sophomore dog walk or a sophomore poo.

Musntapplecrumble · 31/08/2026 12:56

sophomore poo! 😂😅

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Greentigershoo · 31/08/2026 13:03

When someone says, "[insert occupation] here!" at the start of a post.
'Teacher here'
'Childcare worker here'

I always picture how it would come across if someone said this face-to-face.

Coldwetlettuce · 01/09/2026 08:24

Words · 31/08/2026 08:59

Can I get ….eeewwww
Owareyahallry?
Make a roast. No. You make a roast dinner. You cook steak and chips, you don’t make them.
Come over to mine
work colleague (tautology)
works do
All the corporate nonsense. ‘ Are you sighted on this red button issue?’ Eh? ‘Reach out’ is also a particular abomination. I used to run courses teaching people not to use this sort of silly language.
So very many of these now.
I also agree with the over inflation of language - I suppose it is meant to impart a sense of urgency and importance when it actually just sounds daft. Grabbed, ( picked up, collected) smashed, ( won, got drunk) blown up ( developed a minor fault) and so on.
Emails beginning ‘ I hope you are well’ . Those ones usually end with ‘ if I can be of any further assistance, please do not hesitate to reach out to me.’

lol I definitely use the ones that make me sound like I’m going to do something much more quickly than I am. “Just going to run into the cafe and grab a quick coffee on the way”. There’s never any running or grabbing or even quickness involved!!

Whats Owareyahallry? And what’s wrong with can I get? In Scotland everyone says this when ordering a coffee or something. What else would you say? Can I have? Isn’t it just much of a muchness?

Words · 01/09/2026 08:32

It’s how are you, all right?

The can I get issue has been on here many times. can = am I able to. Get = to fetch something, with the implication that you are asking permission to find the item for yourself. It’s an Americanism, and makes me cringe every time I hear it. Pure pedantry on my part, of course.

Better would be may I have, or may I please have.

Sorry for lack of punctuation. Keyboard issues.

@coldwetlettuce

Warmlight1 · 01/09/2026 08:51

Coldwetlettuce · 01/09/2026 08:24

lol I definitely use the ones that make me sound like I’m going to do something much more quickly than I am. “Just going to run into the cafe and grab a quick coffee on the way”. There’s never any running or grabbing or even quickness involved!!

Whats Owareyahallry? And what’s wrong with can I get? In Scotland everyone says this when ordering a coffee or something. What else would you say? Can I have? Isn’t it just much of a muchness?

There was a whole thread once from an American lady who said Can I get to a waiter in her post and it was incidental but she was not forgiven for many pages.

Coldwetlettuce · 01/09/2026 08:54

Warmlight1 · 01/09/2026 08:51

There was a whole thread once from an American lady who said Can I get to a waiter in her post and it was incidental but she was not forgiven for many pages.

Only on Mumsnet 🤣

HatStickBoots · 01/09/2026 09:07

Big of boob and large of nork

I cringe a little at these descriptions because I then see party balloons blowing on a door or missiles with several people in military uniform fussing around them.

DontyMon · 01/09/2026 09:09

Trouser as a singular.

Marellain · 01/09/2026 11:12

What about ‘ there’s no coming back from that’…. It sounds like gobbledygook to me. Took me a while to realise it means irreparable.

Mookie81 · 01/09/2026 18:08

emuloc · 29/08/2026 09:25

Picky tea, and pack up.

I absolutely hate the term 'pack up'- it's a bloody packed lunch!😂

Warmlight1 · 01/09/2026 19:01

DontyMon · 01/09/2026 09:09

Trouser as a singular.

Yes it makes it sound like one leg only

70isaLimitNotaTarget · 02/09/2026 16:39

Warmlight1 · 01/09/2026 19:01

Yes it makes it sound like one leg only

I think ( don't quote me I could be lying) that it originated when a jacket was sold with two pairs of trousers in a suit as you'd likely remove the jacket indoors but the trousers got more wear . So having a pair ofk trousers was two 'pairs'

70isaLimitNotaTarget · 02/09/2026 20:43

I have another one :
Much as I love watched Sorted Food , I do wish they'd just use the proper words.
They say
Spal bol ( which I think is quite a known abbreviation)
Crem Pat ( for Creme patisserie)
Worst one is " Butts" for " butter"'
How much more effort to use the whole name ?
I'm sure there's more

Sam1000 · 02/09/2026 20:44

Stunning…. For any old shit

Musntapplecrumble · 02/09/2026 21:57

Worst one is " Butts" for " butter"'
Now, that's just lazy!

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CreativeGreen · 02/09/2026 22:02

Not sure “a roast dinner” is any worse than “a roast” unless you are roasting all components of the dinner?

I have an irrational dislike of “this part of the world”

rivalsbinge · 02/09/2026 22:04

I’ve seen “my flabbers were Gasted” maybe amusing first time it was written but now… so awful.

AsTheAutumnCrowFlies · 02/09/2026 23:21

Greentigershoo · 31/08/2026 13:03

When someone says, "[insert occupation] here!" at the start of a post.
'Teacher here'
'Childcare worker here'

I always picture how it would come across if someone said this face-to-face.

The funniest one I read just went on and on.

’Specialist clinical support in third year of training at a central medical hub aligned to a top university research centre here’.

I think everyone had fallen asleep by the end of the actual post.

sammylady37 · 03/09/2026 08:32

CreativeGreen · 02/09/2026 22:02

Not sure “a roast dinner” is any worse than “a roast” unless you are roasting all components of the dinner?

I have an irrational dislike of “this part of the world”

When talking about roast dinners, the phrase ‘with all the trimmings’ really irritates me

Boodahh · 03/09/2026 08:53

Lived experience. Means the same as personal experience, what's wrong with saying just that?

70isaLimitNotaTarget · 04/09/2026 15:30

When a fully grown adult says : " I want to be xyz when I grow up"

Infantile not cute

WonderWeeksArentReal · 04/09/2026 15:34

Zaforcap · 30/08/2026 13:30

I think of reacharound when I hear that.

The phrase “what am I like?!”

ffs now I'm going to be thinking reacharound next time someone says 'reaching out' in a meeting (which is fairly often where I work) 😂

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