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Cringe Phrases

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Musntapplecrumble · 29/08/2026 09:18

In and of itself
Why do people use that phrase, isn't "in itself" enough?
See also
At This Moment In Time
Er...now?
🤔😂

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Wookyhole · 30/08/2026 15:15

Wait! I have another, not sure if anyone has said this yet but the phrase
“Living his / her best life” drives me insane!
”aww look at him living his little best life, bless!”
Agghhh!

Palomiino · 30/08/2026 15:23

‘Low-key’

Cotopaxi · 30/08/2026 15:29

JastinityChan · 30/08/2026 11:14

Words that try to make ordinary everyday activities sound fancier than they are:

"Sourced" instead of "bought"

"Curated" instead of "bought a few things and put them together"

"Upcycled" instead of "painted and changed the handles"

I also cringe at verbs which make everyday activities sound much more dramatic than they were:
"Flung open the windows" instead of just "opened the windows"

"Shoved it in the bin" instead of just "put it in the bin"

People who speak in these ways make me cringe myself inside out. I just think - calm the fuck down and accept your life is pretty ordinary.

In a novel, for instance, you wouldn't like to read 'she flung open the windows in a rage' but would much prefer 'she opened the windows in a rage' instead? Doesn't convey quite the same meaning, does it?

Mydogisagentleman · 30/08/2026 15:33

Super.
Super excited. Super scared. Super happy.
Making memories.
Said. Said bottle of squash.

Lifestooshort71 · 30/08/2026 15:36

Can I get a latte?
It's to die for
Pop (as in pop it in the oven)

Wookyhole · 30/08/2026 15:38

Lifestooshort71 · 30/08/2026 15:36

Can I get a latte?
It's to die for
Pop (as in pop it in the oven)

What about “a pop of colour” where do you stand on that?!

Lifestooshort71 · 30/08/2026 15:39

Wookyhole · 30/08/2026 15:38

What about “a pop of colour” where do you stand on that?!

Hmmm. That's OK, quite descriptive really.

Idontjetwashthefucker · 30/08/2026 15:41

Basically
Legit
Myself/yourself

Knickerbockermisery · 30/08/2026 15:41

“in my heart of hearts”. What? Shut the hell up.

”she’s” when referring to inanimate objects. Especially when used with “giving”. Example, about a dress “she’s giving autumn”

”girlies” “running girlies, what we wearing?”
fuck off again

littlebilliie · 30/08/2026 15:41

I don’t miss “ blue sky thinking” that’s died a death

PistachioTiramisu · 30/08/2026 15:42

'Autumn fashions just dropped in M&S' makes me think they have been discontinued, rather than being something new!

'At the minute' seems universal now - whatever happened to 'at the moment' which I have always said?

'Get xxx for free when you buy xxx' - it's either 'get xxx free' or 'get xxx for nothing'.

Rfriendselectric · 30/08/2026 15:51

“Too be fair…”. It’s ok, I’ll just assume you are being fair, you don’t need to prefix it onto sentences (or just tell me when you are being unfair!

It’s my/his/her tism! No you/he/she doesn’t have autism and it’s insulting to autistic people to talk like you’ve got a bit of the ‘tism. Ditto OCD!

EstoyRobandoSuCasa · 30/08/2026 16:04

“Waiting on” to mean “waiting for”.

When Madonna used to sing, “I’m tired of waiting on you”, I’d automatically picture her in a French maid’s uniform, carrying a tray.

ItsPickleRick · 30/08/2026 16:06

Not sure if this counts as it’s not a phrase, but it boils my piss when a grown adult adds “much” at the end of a word. You see it on here all the time - “entitled much?” “controlling much?” Fuck offffff!

People who say/type “nom nom”.

muddyford · 30/08/2026 16:09

sugarandcyanide · 30/08/2026 14:09

Yes! And people who call clothes or items of furniture 'pieces'. It's a polyester top from Zara, not vintage Dolce and Gabbana.

And the potential housebuyers on tellie saying 'space' instead of 'room'. It's a light bedroom not a nice space. Every single time.

Wookyhole · 30/08/2026 16:09

I’ve developed a bad habit of starting an opinion with “To be honest”
I make myself cringe! 😂

MagpiePi · 30/08/2026 16:23

Squirrelblanket · 30/08/2026 12:08

'a red lip'. What, just one?

It goes with ‘a trouser’ and ‘a shoe’

Nereidd · 30/08/2026 16:25

"Two things can be true at the same time" blah blah blah. Been seeing this a lot lately. Aaaaarrgghhh!

sammylady37 · 30/08/2026 16:27

MagpiePi · 30/08/2026 16:23

It goes with ‘a trouser’ and ‘a shoe’

Edited

I heard a shop owner say ‘a dungaree’ once… I haven’t shopped there since in protest!!

MagpiePi · 30/08/2026 16:30

‘Watch it back’ for when you watch something again, and things being ‘lit on fire’; they are set on fire or set alight or even just ‘lit’ as in, ‘I lit a candle’.
Adults using the words poo and tummy, especially GPs.

SmallDFartyCarNRG · 30/08/2026 16:33

110%
The over use recently of "at pace" (what pace?)
Having/going for a munch

JudyTeeny · 30/08/2026 16:34

bobbybigbollocks · 30/08/2026 11:41

‘In myself’ or ‘In His/herself’
”I feel okay in myself”
what the fuck does that mean?

My nan used to say that. No matter what disaster had befallen someone, she'd ask "But how is she in herself?" when it was obvious that so-and-so would most likely be as miserable as hell!

JudyTeeny · 30/08/2026 16:36

Wookyhole · 30/08/2026 16:09

I’ve developed a bad habit of starting an opinion with “To be honest”
I make myself cringe! 😂

I used to do that, until a Spanish lady looked surprised and asked if I wasn't always honest. That cured me! 😂

stample · 30/08/2026 16:38

“Moving forward”
“two two’s”

MeAndMyGhost · 30/08/2026 16:39

"It is what it is" - so passive aggressive.
"Stealing your sandwiches" - when on a work call somebody in another team overlaps with someone else to deliver their news, just fuck off.

Ugh.

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