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Cringe Phrases

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Musntapplecrumble · 29/08/2026 09:18

In and of itself
Why do people use that phrase, isn't "in itself" enough?
See also
At This Moment In Time
Er...now?
🤔😂

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Waitingfordoggo · 30/08/2026 13:15

‘Hating on’
’Vibing’
‘It’s giving…’

They’re bad enough when the youth use them but even worse coming from middle aged people (of which I am one).

BanjoKnockers · 30/08/2026 13:17

Hoodle · 30/08/2026 12:31

The “red lip” nonsense is just one of the fashion writing horrors. Singular terms for things like sandals (“paired with an edgy sandal”) are laughable, as are stupid phrases like “pop of colour”.

But the words and phrases that really piss me off are cod psychology crap. They’re words that are purposely vague and usually either misleading or just voguish bullshit, but supposedly sound important and dramatic:

Gaslight
Narcissist
Toxic
Trauma (for minor upset)
Trigger
Sociopath
etc etc

... micro-agression

Being inappropriate

70isaLimitNotaTarget · 30/08/2026 13:21

Marellain · 30/08/2026 11:36

Grab. Nobody gets anything nowadays. Everything is grabbed. Ew.

I'll throw "Up For Grabs" in there , usually a competition in a magazine .

And "Run- don't walk" when a new item is in-store

Packofsix · 30/08/2026 13:23

TinDogTavern · 30/08/2026 12:47

Marry me.

Haha. Why thank you

forthelasttim · 30/08/2026 13:24

Daisywhatsyouranswer · 29/08/2026 09:52

I spat my tea out - no no you didn’t,
it’s lush - not for anything other than greenery
no is a complete sentence, - honestly just as you read it on here does not mean you need to copy it
baffled - everyone is baffled on here,

Honestly

Packofsix · 30/08/2026 13:27

Musntapplecrumble · 30/08/2026 11:56

To those who quoted me...
I'm not saying the phrases themselves are actually wrong, and please feel free to correct my English if it pleases you, but they are overused and often in the wrong context ... IMHO of course.
Ooh just remembered a new one: "leaning in" lol, always imagine people hingeing forward from the hips when they say that 🤣

Hmm. I would love to know when someone last said to you ‘in and of itself.’ Since you feel it is so ‘over used’. As most people, you included, have little to no grasp of the English language and would never use this in any context.

sanityisamyth · 30/08/2026 13:28

Cringe? Cringe is cringeworthy in itself.

Zaforcap · 30/08/2026 13:30

PuppyMonkey · 29/08/2026 09:25

Everybody seems to think “reaching out” is perfectly acceptable these days but it still makes me Grin

I think of reacharound when I hear that.

The phrase “what am I like?!”

bigplate · 30/08/2026 13:30

Referring to 'my partner', rather than simply 'my boyfriend' or 'my girlfriend', especially when it's someone they don't even live with. People in their twenties at work refer to their 'partner' and it just inwardly irritates me. Don't know why. I'm probably irrational!

70isaLimitNotaTarget · 30/08/2026 13:31

Not a phrase but a gesture
When someone eats a spoonful of food and they smile as they remove the spoon but it's accompanied by a raised shoulders, eyebrows raised, eyes closed, "mmmmm" gesture. Totally over the top.
It's a spoonful of trifle , FGS.
One of Megan Markles guests in the trailer for her cookery programme did the face.
A silent "OMG this is, like, the most de-licious thing I have EVER put in my mouth. EVER"
It was a bit of cake.

Lifelover16 · 30/08/2026 13:33

Fashion/ shopping phrases

the new autumn drop
the new autumn edit

RartyPings · 30/08/2026 13:50

Starting a sentence with “I mean…”

AsTheAutumnCrowFlies · 30/08/2026 13:51

70isaLimitNotaTarget · 30/08/2026 13:21

I'll throw "Up For Grabs" in there , usually a competition in a magazine .

And "Run- don't walk" when a new item is in-store

Oh god yes, ‘up for grabs’ used in the context of Olympic medals, say, I find infuriating, as if the elite athletes who have trained hard since childhood are just pulling prizes out of a lucky dip.

AsTheAutumnCrowFlies · 30/08/2026 13:53

70isaLimitNotaTarget · 30/08/2026 13:31

Not a phrase but a gesture
When someone eats a spoonful of food and they smile as they remove the spoon but it's accompanied by a raised shoulders, eyebrows raised, eyes closed, "mmmmm" gesture. Totally over the top.
It's a spoonful of trifle , FGS.
One of Megan Markles guests in the trailer for her cookery programme did the face.
A silent "OMG this is, like, the most de-licious thing I have EVER put in my mouth. EVER"
It was a bit of cake.

Was that Mindy Kaling’s hostage video?

Daniel was the one spouting ‘a red lip’ nonsense.

cherryicecreamisnice · 30/08/2026 14:04

Incorrect use of the word “even”. You could spend the money on a car, some clothes or EVEN a holiday.

sugarandcyanide · 30/08/2026 14:09

JastinityChan · 30/08/2026 11:14

Words that try to make ordinary everyday activities sound fancier than they are:

"Sourced" instead of "bought"

"Curated" instead of "bought a few things and put them together"

"Upcycled" instead of "painted and changed the handles"

I also cringe at verbs which make everyday activities sound much more dramatic than they were:
"Flung open the windows" instead of just "opened the windows"

"Shoved it in the bin" instead of just "put it in the bin"

People who speak in these ways make me cringe myself inside out. I just think - calm the fuck down and accept your life is pretty ordinary.

Yes! And people who call clothes or items of furniture 'pieces'. It's a polyester top from Zara, not vintage Dolce and Gabbana.

Musntapplecrumble · 30/08/2026 14:29

Packofsix · 30/08/2026 13:27

Hmm. I would love to know when someone last said to you ‘in and of itself.’ Since you feel it is so ‘over used’. As most people, you included, have little to no grasp of the English language and would never use this in any context.

Actually, I have heard it said and seen it written several times lately, the last time being at the weekend, which inspired me to open this lighthearted thread using the word 'cringe' very ironically...hope it's not getting you too wound up, luv.

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Musntapplecrumble · 30/08/2026 14:34

One more...worst one ever - scuse my French:
Piece of piss
Eww...like it's solid

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CremeEggsForBreakfast · 30/08/2026 15:02

I can't stand parents posting on social media that their children are "smashing" things e.g Little Timmy had a lovely first day at school and he "absolutely smashed it" or Little Olivia has started football and "is totally smashing it".

It's supposed to mean they're doing really well but I just think it sounds like they're destroying stuff which is the opposite of success, really.

Conversely, I think we should bring back "smashing" as an exclamation.

namechange269 · 30/08/2026 15:04

when someone agrees with a comment you make and says only “100 percent”

Wookyhole · 30/08/2026 15:08

My boss asks “Do you have capacity?” instead of are you free / busy when another task comes in.

SilkorSatin · 30/08/2026 15:10

Musntapplecrumble · 30/08/2026 14:34

One more...worst one ever - scuse my French:
Piece of piss
Eww...like it's solid

Yes! I can’t cope with the grim depictions of
shit show
when the shit hits the fan
tits up

Grim!

VioletSeagull · 30/08/2026 15:11

“Play stupid games, win stupid prizes.”

It may have been clever the first 50 times, but it’s so overused now.

sammylady37 · 30/08/2026 15:13

SilkorSatin · 30/08/2026 15:10

Yes! I can’t cope with the grim depictions of
shit show
when the shit hits the fan
tits up

Grim!

Two phrases I see on here a lot and hate are ‘boils my piss’ and ‘lost my shit’. They’re so vulgar and horrible.

lincoln75 · 30/08/2026 15:13

Happy place

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