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Thread 4 Burnham: Be alert, the world needs more lerts

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DuncinToffee · 16/08/2026 11:57

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Notonthestairs · 25/08/2026 10:51

BIossomtoes · 25/08/2026 09:30

I can see why you’re tempted to give up but please don’t. I’ve noticed comments on various threads that the “lefties” aren’t posting and they know they’re beaten. It never occurs to them that some threads are such cesspits that you feel dirty just reading them. The pig wrestling analogy is very apt. Apart from this thread I now post on S&B and a lovely thread quite similar to this one about Binface.

I think a lot of those threads are intended to be provocative because they desperately want the engagement. Monitoring & plopping is part of the same thinking. A desire to be seen and noticed.

Notonthestairs · 25/08/2026 10:52

5128gap · 25/08/2026 10:34

And the people who see an invitation to a wedding, or God forbid, a hen do, as a personal affront. That they're being asked to do the B&G a huge inconvenient honour by attending, for which the couple must pay by ensuring every aspect of their wedding, from location, to menu to evening entertainment is arranged to the OPs preferences.
If you can't travel to Dunny on the Wold, or tolerate a meat free buffet, or go three hours without being well fed, or think an evening only invitation from Shirley at work is an insult, whatever happened to just politely making excuses, rather than seething with rage and calling your hosts names?

No fun in politely making excuses and moving on.

5128gap · 25/08/2026 10:53

LizzieW1969 · 25/08/2026 10:42

It certainly is a very apt nickname for Kemi in view of some of the things she herself says. As well as her support for a neo Nazi. And she’s the one who mocks people for taking offence at ‘hurty words’.

In fairness, I've not heard her comment on the nickname. It's her supporters who never lose an opportunity to frame left wing people as racist, anti semites, misogynists etc so they can accuse us of being 'just as bad' and hypocrites to boot. Unfortunately for them, the pickings are slim given these things are far more embedded in their own ideology. So they do the best they can with what they've got.

Notonthestairs · 25/08/2026 10:53

Piggywaspushed · 25/08/2026 10:30

DH got cold water shock in Cornwall.

To be fair, there were signs at a hut as you entered the beach about the water being especially cold but he figured they were going in to throw a ball about and splash about at armpit depth.

He got out and then went into full on shock. He has a heart defect and it was terrifying.

One of my cousins died in a swimming pool on the day his family moved into a new house. I think he was about 10 at the time. Don't know if anyone read the thread about the uncovered pond yesterday. That smacked my gob.

I’m so sorry to read that Piggy. What an awful loss.

PickAChew · 25/08/2026 11:10

TemperanceWest · 25/08/2026 09:28

I am however starting to feel uncomfortable that the whole platform is ok with the far right and racism, and other isms - I mean free speech yes, but these are getting so widespread

I feel the same @MsJinks . But as you say there are other parts of MN that are helpful and fun, so maybe the answer is just to ignore the hateful threads. No point trying to counteract the lies. Just leave the bigots to keep winding each other up into a state of fury.

It's probably also helpful not to give those threads page views, which is where the money is made.

Efacsen · 25/08/2026 11:43

Wholeheartedly agree with almost all of the discussion above - sometimes feel like I need an extra shower after spending too much time on political mumsnet threads

For quite a while now I've been reducing my 'engagement'

dontcallmelen · 25/08/2026 11:44

Also very sorry Piggy such an awful tragedy.
im another one who remembers the public safety adverts some were actually quite terrifying but they hit home, the loss of lives this summer is horrific.

Piggywaspushed · 25/08/2026 11:45

Just to add re my cousin - it is indeed a trauma within the family but he died before I was born so I , personally, have no grief to carry.

placemats · 25/08/2026 11:53

Piggywaspushed · 25/08/2026 11:45

Just to add re my cousin - it is indeed a trauma within the family but he died before I was born so I , personally, have no grief to carry.

My uncle died from childhood leukemia when he was 14. It's now a curable disease but the grief regarding his death, a lovely happy boy, carried on. Obviously I never knew him.

LizzieW1969 · 25/08/2026 12:06

5128gap · 25/08/2026 10:53

In fairness, I've not heard her comment on the nickname. It's her supporters who never lose an opportunity to frame left wing people as racist, anti semites, misogynists etc so they can accuse us of being 'just as bad' and hypocrites to boot. Unfortunately for them, the pickings are slim given these things are far more embedded in their own ideology. So they do the best they can with what they've got.

That’s true actually. They’re desperate for any ammunition they can throw at ‘lefties’. They appear to be getting ever more desperate as well.

For me, what stands out is how angry they all are on these threads.

TemperanceWest · 25/08/2026 12:10

LizzieW1969 · 25/08/2026 12:06

That’s true actually. They’re desperate for any ammunition they can throw at ‘lefties’. They appear to be getting ever more desperate as well.

For me, what stands out is how angry they all are on these threads.

Yes. With a fair dollop of paranoia mixed in at times, too. It is quite odd.

DuncinToffee · 25/08/2026 12:33

Badenoch is mentioned in this article

https://www.independent.co.uk/news/uk/politics/kemi-badenoch-rishi-sunak-anthony-seldon-book-b3037222.html

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5128gap · 25/08/2026 12:53

LizzieW1969 · 25/08/2026 12:06

That’s true actually. They’re desperate for any ammunition they can throw at ‘lefties’. They appear to be getting ever more desperate as well.

For me, what stands out is how angry they all are on these threads.

Yes, I've noticed that too. I'm really interested in personality types and the psychology linked to politics.
I've seen a shift in my lifetime from a time where being 'of the right' was associated with stereotypes of respectability, small c conservatism, decent, sensible, middle class do goodery; while the left were the angry, shouty, bring on the revolution working class.
Now being on the left is linked with higher education, tolerance and the very values that were instilled in us as children, consideration for others, generosity, sharing and (the dreaded) kindness.
While the right have become the ranty, bitter, grabby, furious bullies of the vulnerable.
They really hate this stereotype because they want to still be the superior good guys, while embracing ideas that are objectively harmful.
This involves DARVO where they frame themselves as victims of the left. "You call us stupid. You call us racists. You silence us. You are anti semetic. You hate us because we work hard.." They've cobbled together a blue haired folk devil called 'the left' and are furious with it.

pointythings · 25/08/2026 12:58

5128gap · 25/08/2026 12:53

Yes, I've noticed that too. I'm really interested in personality types and the psychology linked to politics.
I've seen a shift in my lifetime from a time where being 'of the right' was associated with stereotypes of respectability, small c conservatism, decent, sensible, middle class do goodery; while the left were the angry, shouty, bring on the revolution working class.
Now being on the left is linked with higher education, tolerance and the very values that were instilled in us as children, consideration for others, generosity, sharing and (the dreaded) kindness.
While the right have become the ranty, bitter, grabby, furious bullies of the vulnerable.
They really hate this stereotype because they want to still be the superior good guys, while embracing ideas that are objectively harmful.
This involves DARVO where they frame themselves as victims of the left. "You call us stupid. You call us racists. You silence us. You are anti semetic. You hate us because we work hard.." They've cobbled together a blue haired folk devil called 'the left' and are furious with it.

I have blue hair and I quite fancy the idea of being a folk devil. Will there be Morris dancing and where do I apply?

MsJinks · 25/08/2026 13:03

LizzieW1969 · 25/08/2026 12:06

That’s true actually. They’re desperate for any ammunition they can throw at ‘lefties’. They appear to be getting ever more desperate as well.

For me, what stands out is how angry they all are on these threads.

They are angry in person as well - those on protests are literally seething and struggle to contain outright violence at times - it’s very obvious (I mean some actually don’t contain these urges despite Tommeh always providing the advice to stay calm 👀 and posters saying local stuff is family friendly fun 👀👀). Random racists who comment in the street to me - most annoying they assume I will share their views - also seem pretty angry.

We do music and positivity and fun on counter protests and events. I’d choose my side whatever I think - it’s nicer and better for my soul lol!

5128gap · 25/08/2026 13:06

pointythings · 25/08/2026 12:58

I have blue hair and I quite fancy the idea of being a folk devil. Will there be Morris dancing and where do I apply?

Do you have a pair of red horns and at least one Steeleye span album?

dontcallmelen · 25/08/2026 13:27

Agree with the random angry racists you meet in the street/shops/bus stop feels as though it’s becoming increasingly common unfortunately I do find it fascinating that they feel so right & entitled to spew such hate but they can’t deal with any pushback apart from shouting louder.

pointythings · 25/08/2026 13:34

5128gap · 25/08/2026 13:06

Do you have a pair of red horns and at least one Steeleye span album?

My hair covers the horns and no. But I do listen to them on Spotify.

5128gap · 25/08/2026 13:38

pointythings · 25/08/2026 13:34

My hair covers the horns and no. But I do listen to them on Spotify.

I'll bear you in mind then.

LizzieW1969 · 25/08/2026 14:23

5128gap · 25/08/2026 12:53

Yes, I've noticed that too. I'm really interested in personality types and the psychology linked to politics.
I've seen a shift in my lifetime from a time where being 'of the right' was associated with stereotypes of respectability, small c conservatism, decent, sensible, middle class do goodery; while the left were the angry, shouty, bring on the revolution working class.
Now being on the left is linked with higher education, tolerance and the very values that were instilled in us as children, consideration for others, generosity, sharing and (the dreaded) kindness.
While the right have become the ranty, bitter, grabby, furious bullies of the vulnerable.
They really hate this stereotype because they want to still be the superior good guys, while embracing ideas that are objectively harmful.
This involves DARVO where they frame themselves as victims of the left. "You call us stupid. You call us racists. You silence us. You are anti semetic. You hate us because we work hard.." They've cobbled together a blue haired folk devil called 'the left' and are furious with it.

I would say that the majority in our church are left of centre and we definitely don’t fit that stereotype.

Llttledrummergirl · 25/08/2026 14:30

I haven't engaged in those threads for a while now for a couple of reasons. First, I noticed that a while back there were only a few voices pushing, now there are many more, meaning readers are still seeing some pushback.

Second, the right wing parties are stagnant in the polls, they are failing and walking away from local government. Despite little pushback from mainstream parties and their lies being allowed to stand and given air to, they are dropping back.

Thirdly, I am saving my energy. At the moment they are just background noise, it's slightly too loud, but certainly not impacting on the important decisions being taken for the country. If and when they need stopping (general election) then I will make my voice heard. Let them blow hot air for now.

placemats · 25/08/2026 14:39

Have noticed since the catastrophe that was the Clacton by-election, there's less calls for a general election.

TemperanceWest · 25/08/2026 15:53

placemats · 25/08/2026 14:39

Have noticed since the catastrophe that was the Clacton by-election, there's less calls for a general election.

They are now all pretending they are "glad of the break" from elections.🤭

DuncinToffee · 25/08/2026 16:06

They got what they wanted, Starmer and Reeves are out.

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