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He said my sister's name

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Zebrabottle · 28/04/2026 07:43

I can't believe that this happened. It's like a bad film cliche. But last night when DH and I were having sex, he said my sister's name!
I know it sounds like something out of EastEnders but it genuinely happened, and I have had a sleepless night as a result.
I challenged him on it, and then that made it worse because at first he denied it and then said it was a joke.
I thought our marriage was fine. I love my sister. I have a good relationship with her (I think). There has never been any suspicion of my DH in any way let alone with her.

I have changed my name for this thread because I know she uses Mumsnet sometimes. I don't know what to do. It could genuinely have been a joke of his. Or, horribly, a fantasy of some kind. Or obviously the worst possible scenario (which would ruin my life).

Should I mention it to my sister? Mention it to him again? Let it drop?

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SpryTaupeTurtle · Today 12:58

Beachtastic · Today 12:44

I didn't realise you were following my every post. I don't blame you, they are really good! 🌞🌞🌞🌞🌞

Im not following your every post. Don't flatter yourself

Beachtastic · Today 13:14

SpryTaupeTurtle · Today 12:58

Im not following your every post. Don't flatter yourself

Never say never!!!!! There is always time to learn and grow 😆

SpryTaupeTurtle · Today 13:26

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