How many of these things do you have?

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What would you score out of 11?

• good health
• big (enough for your needs) house
• job you enjoy
• family and friends that care about you
• kids (if you wanted them)
• hobbies that you have time to enjoy
• enough money to be comfortable
• a loving marriage/partnership
• good self esteem
• mostly happy/content
• enough holidays to satisfy

Two

11....... I appreciate I'm fortunate!

I am lucky enough to have all of them - although I’d always like more holidays. Don’t be fooled though - I have survived a horrible tragedy and crawled from the wreckage to build a meaningful and eventually largely happy life.

5

9

2

6, ask me another day I might make an 8!

6 😅 but mainly the ones that I would consider to be the most important on the list, kids, good partner, generally happy etc!

6

I'm at at least 10, 11 on a good day
I recognize how lucky I am. Like pp said, I've been through it, so it makes it all the sweeter

8

I've just had a horrible 48 hours though so really enjoyed reading your post. I have a lot to be grateful for and had been having a pity party getting stressed over something that hasn’t even happened!!

9

11, I’m very fortunate

2

All of them.

9 didn't count the children as I didn't ever want them. I am very fortunate.

7

9, failed ivf and miscarriage means I’ll never now have my own kids.

10, but when I go my loved ones will be very well looked after financially. They have no idea really, but a very solid plan is in place.

9

One ish.

8/9

I'm overweight and worried about future health concerns if I don't lose some. -1 point
Before putting on the weight, we TTC 12yrs and have no living children, so I lost 1 point for that one too.

10 - the exception being a hobby, but that isn't something I miss/need.

8 or 9

I reckon 9