How old were you when you lost your virginity?

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And if you have children old enough, how old were they?

I keep hearing about how kids are losing their virginity younger and younger now so I was curious to know how old you were, compared to your children.

I was 17. Dh was 13.

DD is 10 and still at the age where anything sexual grosses her out (thank god). They are currently doing sex education at school at the moment and she comes home horrified every time

14 but it was abusive with an adult.

DD 16 and no interest in losing it whatsoever.

I was 17, DH was 17 (and it was to each other 😂) but we had a long break after that.

My DD was just turned 17 with a long-term boyfriend that she is still with.

I was around 15, never asked DH. I believe DS was 16 but don’t know for sure. DD11 so hoping a way off yet.

14 - it took me a lot of years to realise I was peer pressured into it too. I thought I was just nervous.
The words “I promise I won’t go under your underwear” remain forever ingrained into my brain.

I have a daughter and I hope to be completely open with her, there will be no ounce of judgment or criticism from me when it comes to talk about boy, relationships, sex. I’m not going to tell her what she can’t or can’t do. I’ll be there to listen, if she asks for my opinion I’ll give her that. I just want her to be safe and know she has options and a choice.

16, with my boyfriend who was 19 (and not a virgin).

Absolutely no regrets, and I’m not in the camp of hoping my children do it differently.

I’m more amazed that parents share share this information about their children if they do know. Weird thread really asking this about people’s kids. Pervs have been all over these sorts of threads previously. It may be ‘anonymous’ but I just don’t know why people would share this.

Haha I'm exactly the same... 18 to now DH and it makes me cringe 😂 DH was 13 which alarmed me when he told me. Kids are only 5 and 3 so thankfully a long way to go but I hope they'll be well into their 30's 👀

17, and glad to say that, unlike my prior sexual assault and subsequent rapes, he asked if I was sure and insisted on condoms. He was a compulsive liar and generally shit bf but he was really good about consent and sexual safety, I suspect purely because he didn't want fatherhood or rape charges!

I was 18 and lost it to my DH. He was 21 when he lost his to someone else.

Mine is a bit tricky because I was 'techically' 11 as I was raped but I class it as 17 when I first had consensual sex.

A pity my boyfriend at the time didn't see it that way when I finally felt comfortable to tell him... instead he told me that I'd lied to him about being a virgin 🙃

16, yr 12. I felt like quite a late starter, compared to others.
Thanks to imbibing the message from just 17 from age 12 (well meaning) that you should only have sex with someone you love, I convinced myself I loved the lad after 6 weeks, then wasted 2 years with him. I would have had much more fun if I'd taken it as:"have sex when you're ready and make sure it's enjoyable, but don't feel like you have to stick to one person. "

I’m so sorry. What an utter piece of shit to say that to you.

The po-faced posts of "my first and only" like it makes them somehow morally superior also make me want to barf, so I like your style.

I was 11 ( it was not consensual I was groomed by my older brother). It's so difficult to write this down even after 40 years.

My first consensual experience was with my DH at 19.

I was 18, but the last out of all of my mates. DH was around 21 I think and also years after all but one of his friends (this was before we met).

I'm so sorry

I was 15, too young if I’m honest. My DS (nearly 18) hasn’t had sex, I’d know and he’s comfortable talking to me.

17, to my now husband (we’ll leave out that part where we only met each other properly that same night).

I wasn’t the first in my group but was probably one of the first.

I was 14 with a 18 year old boy.... makes me feel sick still.

Good points.

17

my children were (or will be) all over 18

I was 18. DH the same.

DS was 16

14. Both my DC were a couple of years older.

18, one of my dc was 20, the other 16 (possibly 15 she had opportunity but she admits to 16)

Again, really sorry these were your experiences with shitty people.