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He took a dump...

165 replies

StinkerBoyfriend · 26/02/2023 17:58

Just met sister's new boyfriend (both in 50s so not kids) for the first time. She brought him to my house and within 20 mins he's upstairs having a dump in our only bathroom. Left soon after, leaving me to clean the skid marks and open the window.

I don't know why but I'm mad as hell. I know sometimes you have to go, so im probably being unfair but I feel really cheesed off. Like he's "marked his territory" my home somehow.

I'm being daft aren't I.

OP posts:
myveryownelectrickitten · 26/02/2023 17:59

If he had to go, he should have cleaned the loo and opened the window! So I’m with you OP!

AllOfThemWitches · 26/02/2023 17:59

Ugh could have at least cleaned the toilet.

MunchMunch · 26/02/2023 18:00

Yes you're being daft, well, apart from having to clean his skids of the pot. He should have made sure he left it clean.

CustardySergeant · 26/02/2023 18:00

Well he was an absolute pig to leave skid marks! There's no excuse for that at all. 😡

defi · 26/02/2023 18:00

Bowel movements are perfectly normal. Not cleaning up after yourself at adult age is gross

aurevoir · 26/02/2023 18:08

Assuming you have a loo brush (or MN-approved equivalent), there's no excuse for leaving skid marks in someone else's loo. A stink is less easy to disperse but a squirt of air freshener or a cracked open window help.

Is there something else in his behaviour which makes you think he's using his poo to 'make a point'?

OctaviaOwl · 26/02/2023 18:16

Absolutely gross

And you'll have lots of posters along soon to tell you how unreasonable you are and how everyone poos.

I can't think of any man I'd want to be with who does this. Just horrible

Spidey66 · 26/02/2023 18:20

When you've got to go, you've go to go. I don't get the MN prissiness about toilets.

Do you have a loo brush? If not it's hardly his fault about skid marks, but if you do, he should have used it.

Witsendwilly · 26/02/2023 18:20

“Marked his territory “ - wtf?? 😂😂
Hold the front page. “Man performs normal bodily function”

As for “I can't think of any man I'd want to be with who does this. Just horrible”. Again . WTF

This place is comedy gold sometimes

Cancankan · 26/02/2023 18:21

Gross and disgusting. It would put me off him and give me the ick if I was your sister.

Ceryneianhind · 26/02/2023 18:23

Unless he's a spaniel he's not "marked his territory" fgs

BrutusMcDogface · 26/02/2023 18:24

It’s disgusting to leave skids and to not open a window. Yuck yuck yuck.

HoleyShit · 26/02/2023 18:24

Not a great first impression is it? He sounds very uncouth.

MarshaMelrose · 26/02/2023 18:27

If he was desperate, it's not his fault but to leave the bathroom in that disgusting state is gross. I'd have to throw the toilet brush away. And hope she finishes with him very soon.

ShakespearesBlister · 26/02/2023 18:28

I know this is going to be a bit controversial but sometimes people poo. Shit happens. When you flush you don't always notice skid marks until after the flush finishes and although some of us put lots of paper down to avoid it, some people don't hang around waiting for the water to settle to check. But marking his territory? Seriously? You make it sound like he pissed up the side if your IKEA display cabinet.

GoodChat · 26/02/2023 18:28

He didn't piss on your front door. He's not marking his territory.

He should have cleaned up though.

SchoolTripDrama · 26/02/2023 18:28

OctaviaOwl · 26/02/2023 18:16

Absolutely gross

And you'll have lots of posters along soon to tell you how unreasonable you are and how everyone poos.

I can't think of any man I'd want to be with who does this. Just horrible

You won't be with a man who poos WTAF?!?!

PrinceHaz · 26/02/2023 18:30

He doesn’t know or care. As far as he’s concerned, he simply used the loo.
From my perspective though, that would put me right off him.
To add, it’s surprisingly common and with women. I work in a school. Teachers in my building regularly leave enormous skids and a vile stench. Cleaning staff had to put up a sign saying, “Please leave the toilet as you would like to find it.” Made no difference so there’s a sign under it now that says , “Please clean the toilet bowl after use.” That has made a slight difference. Incredible how people have to be told, in no uncertain terms, in order for them to have a modicum of respect for those around them.

Whydidimarryhim · 26/02/2023 18:31

He’s a bloody adult - if no toilet brush you take toilet roll and wipe it away. Dirty bastard. I text your sister and say he needs to clean up his own shit.

donquixotedelamancha · 26/02/2023 18:34

20 mins he's upstairs having a dump in our only bathroom.

I thought you were going to say someone had pooed in the garden. We always poo in the bathroom in our house.

BingleBongleBoo · 26/02/2023 18:37

Marked his territory?! He's not cocked his leg up your lounge wall for gods sake.

The bloke needed a poo so he had one.

supersop60 · 26/02/2023 18:38

Witsendwilly · 26/02/2023 18:20

“Marked his territory “ - wtf?? 😂😂
Hold the front page. “Man performs normal bodily function”

As for “I can't think of any man I'd want to be with who does this. Just horrible”. Again . WTF

This place is comedy gold sometimes

Nevertheless - extremely rude not to clean up after himself.

Trinity65 · 26/02/2023 18:39

He was rude for not opening the window a tad and for not cleaning it

However some of these replies 😆😆

piedbeauty · 26/02/2023 18:40

Cancankan · 26/02/2023 18:21

Gross and disgusting. It would put me off him and give me the ick if I was your sister.

Why is going to the loo gross and disgusting? Don't you ever have a shit?

Trinity65 · 26/02/2023 18:40

OctaviaOwl · 26/02/2023 18:16

Absolutely gross

And you'll have lots of posters along soon to tell you how unreasonable you are and how everyone poos.

I can't think of any man I'd want to be with who does this. Just horrible

THIS is my favourite so far
If a person has a butthole Octavia Owl, they are going to dump.

😆😆