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When people disappear

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JoonT · 27/01/2023 22:10

Have you ever known someone who just disappeared? I was talking to someone today whose father recently died. He has been trying to contact his dad's brother, who vanished about 30 years ago, leaving no trace. They've put appeals out on social media, but no luck. The journalist AA Gill's brother also disappeared like this and was never seen again.

It made me think of a neighbor I had years ago. When I first moved in with my ex, I got to know a woman who lived opposite. Her husband was ten years older than her and a bit of a bully/control freak. We saw each other almost every day for years and became quite close, then she vanished. She'd told me that she was saving money and planned to leave him one day, but it still came as a shock. I never saw or heard of her again.

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Wetblanket78 · 04/02/2023 14:27

She might have gone into a refuge if he was abusive. Which would mean a whole new life for her cutting off contact with everyone so he couldn't track her down.

When I was in first year infants we had a new girl start just after the start of the year. I was friends with her we were in the same class the next year as well. We moved up to the same junior school and we were in the same class. About a week after starting junior school though she just suddenly stopped coming to school. Nobody told us why even though we asked. I still wonder what happened to her and hope she's living her best life.

Hooveslikejagger · 04/02/2023 22:17

Inhibitor · 01/02/2023 16:40

@Hooveslikejagger it’s Looking for Mike

Ohhh, very intriguing and interesting. Thanks so much for the link. @Inhibitor

Alphabetasoul · 05/02/2023 23:09

Many years ago I was told by a colleague that her mother left her at a train station as a baby and fucked off with a bloke . Fast forward many years later so called mother arranged a meeting . Colleague turned up go find mother in a wheelchair on her own with no one . Colleague just turned and walked away and I don't blame her

Daydre4mer · 07/02/2023 22:02

@Fluffleupagus sorry to hear this. You say you think he could have drowned. Going along this theory have you ever checked Unidentified Bodies data?? I only mention this as I work in this field.

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