I'm horrified by the trafficking.
You'd have to be made of stone not to be.
However the traffickers give not one once of a shit if those who get on the boats die.
Not one care. None.
So by punishing those people you aren't preventing the trafficking.
I agree about the fact we need a processing centre in Calais or somewhere around there to stop people needing to use the small boats. If people could do the journey without risking their lives I'm sure they would.
I don't believe any parent who gets on that boat with their child believes there is another option for them. Who risks their child's (or their own?) life for kicks?