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How long into your relationship did you get engaged?

264 replies

Denn35 · 02/03/2021 17:56

Just that really! Interested to see when people decided to put a ring on it. I know no two relationships are the same but I am intrigued having a baby and coming up to our second year anniversary makes the question play in my mind more so as to when things like this follow?

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skippy67 · 02/03/2021 20:01

We got engaged after 11 years and 2 dc. Been married 18 years this year.

JackieweaverhasALLtheauthority · 02/03/2021 20:02

Met in 1992
He proposed in 1996
We married in 1997

Still married and in love. He is my rock.
First baby born in 2000

emeraldcity2000 · 02/03/2021 20:02

9 years. But we met at 20.
My parents got married 8 weeks after meeting. My mum said she knew she'd marry him when he sat down next to her on a train. Married for 43 years.

constantly · 02/03/2021 20:06

2 months. Married over 30 years and counting

nettytree · 02/03/2021 20:07

One week.

LividLoving · 02/03/2021 20:10

Four months and married nine weeks later.

Crabbypaddy · 02/03/2021 20:11

6 years and a baby before he proposed lol

User56677 · 02/03/2021 20:11

Nine we got together as teenagers though. I would imagine it would have been quicker if we had meet in our 20’s

Christmashope19 · 02/03/2021 20:14

Got together when I was 19, DH was 22
Engaged after 16 months
Married 5 years after meeting
1st baby when we had been together 7 years
2nd baby when we had been together 8 years
We have now been together 23 years

Petitmum · 02/03/2021 20:17

This was 17 years ago. Still together.

Met Jan 3rd
Engaged 28 Feb
Married in August
First child born in June the next year.

Denn35 · 02/03/2021 20:19

I must say it's quite refreshing and hopefully to hear about everyones marriage stories. I seem to always see threads on here about cheating and mistreatment so it's nice to read Smile

In terms of children I think they are both a commitment and responsibility. Whether or not the parents stay together they are committed to raising and bringing a child into the world.

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Spillanelle · 02/03/2021 20:21

6 years. I was very impatient by that point after watching all my friends get engaged after a couple of years. We had been living together for several years and went on holiday for my 30th birthday. I remember I was so annoyed that it had taken him so long to propose that I had prepared a speech for the flight back about commitment. Luckily he proposed during the trip!

Rillington · 02/03/2021 20:23

5 months
Bought a house after 2 years
Married after 4 years
Together 25 years this year

AlwaysLatte · 02/03/2021 20:25

Together about 6 months, proposal then married 5 months after that.

Kitfish · 02/03/2021 20:26

Got engaged 1 year after meeting. Married 2 years after meeting. Now been married over 15 years - together almost 18 years.

RuthW · 02/03/2021 20:29

Meet 1985
Engaged 1987
Married 1989
First child 1997
Divorced 2005

waterlilliess · 02/03/2021 20:32

5 years. Then had 2 kids and got married after a 7 year engagement!

glittereyelash · 02/03/2021 20:34

Engaged after 8 years married 5 years later. We are now together 18 years.

Crikeycroc · 02/03/2021 20:35

Five years between getting together and getting engaged. But we were in our early twenties when we met and didn’t have children so e we didn’t need to rush.

Walkingthedog46 · 02/03/2021 20:36

3 months, married at 6 months, married 38 years

LynetteScavo · 02/03/2021 20:36

He asked me after a few days...but bought me a ring after a year and we got married two years after meeting.

blackheartsgirl · 02/03/2021 20:37

2.5 years but we have no kids together although both have older ones

Also both older than 40. Getting married next year

StuntNun · 02/03/2021 20:38

Started going out 21 February 1996, got engaged 6 May 1996, got married in 1998; still together.

MacDuffsMuff · 02/03/2021 20:40

Got engaged after 5 months and married after 18 months. Been together 20 years now.

Cheesewiz · 02/03/2021 20:40

Engaged after 2 weeks, married after 6 months together, still together 10 years later