Polly,
I wish I had not found these threads. The talk of breakfast at five star hotels, spa days and shopping as a leisure activity, coupled with the resentment of those going on them that they might have to mitigate their normal behaviour to protect others is, to me, beyond selfish.
And no I have not ‘misunderstood’, I just disagree. They are not the same thing.
To me, they are incredibly similar to anti vaxer threads, although most here cannot see it.
Supportive threads are great if they involve no cost to others. I feel that these threads do have a cost to others.
Again, IMO, these threads are all about prioritising the poster’s leisure over the safety of teachers, doctors and nurses etc.
I won’t post again, as I am pissing in the wind. It is like posting on a 5litre Range Rover appreciation thread that I don’t feel that they are suitable for London streets or environmentally friendly. It does not make my view invalid, though, especially on a parenting website.
And that is my parting shot on these threads...