Honestly @RobinHobb I don't think you need to stop being annoyed. In fact I think you should be more angry! This myth perpetuated (by men) that it's only proper work if a salary is attached to it is bollox. I can't remember now if you've said before that you work or are a SAHM mum but either way you're both working, you both get tired and you both deserve the chance to catch up on rest. He might have been working long hours at the moment but I bet he spends more time relaxing in the evening and at the weekend than you do?
How on earth does your DH think it's fair that you've not slept past 6:30 in 5 years? Ok, work is busy and stressful for him right now. Snoozing on the sofa actually doesn't help with that, he would be better off getting outside into the fresh air for some exercise - oh, and take his kids with him whilst he's at it! My DH worked away Mon-Thurs for most of my DT's life (they're 19 now). We used to do things like share lie ins, nights out etc. He was brilliant at the weekend because he acknowledged that I did the lion's share in the week - and he had the bliss of a full nights sleep in a hotel bed!
I realise we've strayed quite far from normal AD territory right now but this has upset me because I feel 'one of our own' is having a hard time from someone she should be in an equal partnership with.
Remember though he has no reason to change the current status quo, why on earth would he? You need to recognise that you're allowing him to behave like this, so no, don't stop being annoyed! xx