Daughter has spoiled Christmas evening and I don't know where to go from here

[anothernamejeeves]

She's 15 and is just beyond spoilt and nasty. I run around after her like mad and try and make Christmas a happy time for her and my other two.
She was sat in the living room playing a video really loud. I told her I wanted to sit and watch tv in peace and asked her to either put headphones in or go upstairs. She gave me a complete gobful saying I always spoil Christmas and called me a slag
I really don't know where to go from here I'm utterly appalled

Zero hypocrisy here hun

Oh fgs. This is silly.

OP - how has dd been in the last few days?

Not happy as grounded. She did apologise but very half heartedly

Have you spoken to her about it since?

Yes. She said I made her 'angry'
I've always suspected she has some asd traits with expressing emotions/feelings which also go hand in hand with her friendship issues so will be speaking a bit more in depth with school/early help when they go back. I've advised her I am seeking further support

Hopefully another chat or two and maybe some time out with her (take her for a coffee maybe?) will help too. I really hope she is able to apologise graciously and accept how unkind she was being.