Being nosey...How many people have you slept with?

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I've recently had my first ever one night stand after after breaking my virginity at 14 (young I know) and alot of short lived relationships with sex after a few weeks.
Just wrote my list and was surprised that I've slept with 16 men! That seems alot for someone who hadn't had a one night stand until a few months ago!

8 men and 2 women
Happily married for nearly 20 years to dh, still have sex dreams about women though. 👍

I don't remember it was more than 10 but less than 15, I think.

2 and been with DH 11 years, lost my virginity age 21

I recently deleted my list. I'm somewhere between 30 and 40 but not sure exactly any more. At one point it seemed vitally important that I knew, now not so much.

How many were really satisfying? For me 3 out of 15 them max.

1, DH, and we waited till we got married (relatively young!)

6 I think
4 ons
1 bf of 4 years
1 fwb
Over 8 years

No idea and no regrets keeping a tally is a bit odd really?

1. I'm 26.

Oh plus 3 slept in the same bed with a bit of fooling around but not actual sex

Too many.
I'm 43.
I've only slept with one person in the last 15 years though.

1. Most during when I was at uni.

I'm 50 now. 28 men, 1 woman. Half of them this year.

I would say that only 3 were any good at all until this year. This year they've been 90% good and about half of them absolutely awesome.

I've hit pause as I was getting tired, have got emotionally involved with one of them, and need to concentrate on other things. But I'd happily have another patch like this.

I’m 28 and my number is 5 and settled with 1 child and one on the way :)

Depends what we’re counting as ‘sleeping with’ I guess? Full penetration? But then I can’t count women... Ballpark? 25 maybe?

1. I wish sometimes I had been more experimental but casual sexual experiences were just not my thing.

1. I'm 32.

I honestly can’t remember? Without doing a torturous list, I think 20-30?

I’ve had some very excellent sex and a lot of average sex. A few were terrible - but the most memorable night was taking home a beautiful man I met on the night bus, drinking tea and eating biscuits, chatting and kissing until dawn then snatching a few hours sleep.

He left. I lost my phone and changed my number. I remember he smelt like verbena and blackcurrants and his name was Stu. He had an arrow tattooed on his arm.

Ive since been engaged, had a kid, separated from the father and moved back up north- but I still remember beautiful Stu- who didn’t put his dick anywhere near me- far more clearly than lots of men I shagged all weekend.

If anyone recognises this story- please don’t out me! If you know The Mysterious Stu drop me a line though

10 including my now DP. I feel like this is quite a lor

I lost count at 100- way back. I'm 57 and regret a few but not many. My body, my choice.

1
Have been with my husband since I was 16

Slept with 1 person, who is now my DH

12. I'm 27 and lost my virginity at 16. I'm comfortable with it and wouldn't care if it was higher or lower.

One, my husband, one for him too. Been together 13 years.

2 for me.

DP had slept with 20+ women before we got together.

Think it's a nurture thing. He's 2 years younger than me but we have has vastly different lives so far.