I am a Black male stripper and naked cleaner/butler in London working almost exclusively for white women. AMA

[OliverMartins]

As the title says. Happy to answer any questions you might have.

To move away from the current (fascinating) tone of the thread, do you get aroused while you are working? Or am I being naive in thinking that would be a problem?

Is being in a relationship with one person the same as being "more attracted to people of colour" in general?

No. But my point was that what started as an attraction or preference has often ended in a long term relationship. As these things do.

Yet a preference for someone outside your race appears to be seen as inherently racist or questionable on this thread.

I'm just saying that the reason behind the "preference" is important in my opinion. Why might a white women have a sexual preference for black men? I'm not sure that can ever have an entirely innocent explanation, but I'm happy to be corrected.

Or they might perhaps not contemplate paying for a racially-objectifying fnar fnar sex service?

Your AMA is falling flat because your answers are too short with no detail. & you ignore too many questions so its boring

The OP is probably a bored, white sixtysomething long-distance lorrydriver in a lay-by in Norfolk having a giggle during a rest period.

Or because I am not glued to a laptop all day perhaps.

I think I have a much better idea of how a woman’s mind works than you do 😂

You were glued to your laptop for a good 3 hours today though.

OliverMartins
Or because I am not glued to a laptop all day perhaps

Well to be fair I saw your thread earlier before I went to work today, so asked a question. On train home after work I glanced again at thread and you were still on it. So you've been on here a good few hours.

AMA:
Why put up an AMA then answer in dry fashion, and then get shirty, too?

Not really😏, I dont want to know, just responded as you highlighted my name. AMA's work best when you put some personality into it so that its interesting. Or at least sound like who & what you claim to be🤔 .This one'll tail off shortly anyway.

Happy dreaming

Thank you for continuing the sexualisation of the black race. We will never be taken seriously until we open our eyes 👀

@DeeCeeCherry The OP is busy cleaning he's not got time for really detailed answers!

@OliverMartins If you're still about - if you're cleaning for a woman do you know if their husbands / partners know what's going on and have you ever had any backlash from them as a result

This is a really interesting AMA. I've never considered having a naked cleaner let alone a naked male cleaner

Racists will be racists. Black men and women do get fetishised. I’m conflicted on him getting paid for it. He probably gets fetishised anyway so might as well get paid for it?

A friend used to be taxi driver and got offers from a number of older, rich white women, offering him quite large sums of money if he’d come in and sleep with them because they’d never slept with a black man. He never took up the offer because it’s against his faith and has now stopped the taxi driving ( different reason).

Apologies for being late to the thread, but fair play to you OP. I'm jealous!

I’ve always wondered why a self-respecting black man would engage in race play, and I must say this has left me none the wiser (beyond the lucrative rate of pay), naturally.

I can see why your clients pay, as I personally find the black man a work of art, but this was an otherwise disappointing read 🤷🏽‍♀️.

What an odd thread about race that apparently isn’t about race.

“The black man a work of art “

JESUS NO

What are your prices?
you serve only white women, or prefer, or they are your main clients?
do you travel?
can we see photos before purchasing?

How on earth did you get into this job?

Do you plan on doing it forever?

What do your family think?

Why only female clients? A safety thing?

Hypersexualisation has been discussed, but not sure if the 'slave play' kink has been explicitly mentioned. That for me is the more distasteful. Scenarios where a black man (or woman) is stripped, chained and racially abused as part of a fetish. OPs work I'm sure doesnt involve those extremes, but it's on the same subordinating spectrum.

The discussion on this thread has been interesting. Just not with the OP.