I am a Black male stripper and naked cleaner/butler in London working almost exclusively for white women. AMA

[OliverMartins]

As the title says. Happy to answer any questions you might have.

Were you employed in those environments purely because you were black, hot and naked then?
I suppose at least with this job nobody is pretending that they arent racist

The women do not masturbate while watching me. I am not sure why you think they would.

I'm asking genuinely here - if you're there for an hour say, do you actually get an hours worth of cleaning done?

Or is it all chatting and giggles? The cleaning bit is just a silly add on , right?

Thank you for your reply!
Would you say it is the case that the market for what you are currently providing is increasing?
And if so do you think this is an indication that the market for sex or sexual services (provided by straight men to straight women) in the narrow sense is now also likely to increase?

To an extent, but my ability to perform and entertain is vital too

Of course that is the usual expectation. Thank you for actually understanding what I do. (I do clean pretty well though if needed)

Definitely. Of course there may be individuals for whom it is just a preference, but there is absolutely a pattern of fetishising and sexualising black men by white women with a massive undercurrent of subjugation and racism. I'm sure there has been research on it, but to be honest this is just based on my personal observations.

I really don't know about the general market. It took me a while to build up a reputation and clientele. I am not involved in or interested in the escort market.

I don’t think they were sarcastic either! There’s an entire housekeeping forum on here, OP, where people actually discuss stain removal. It’s entirely likely those posters wanted actual answers on limescale.

i am interested in this too.

OP, do you have to hustle for new business? How many hours a week do you work? How do you market yourself?

People watching the purse strings tend not to hire me.

Are they allowed to touch you? Do you get groped or offer them a feel?

About 30 hours per week depending on evening/party bookings. Word of mouth has helped me build up my clientele.

Yes I do agree with that, and it would be a concern.

@OliverMartins what do you think about this? Is it that you think for most of your clients it is genuinely just a preference with no undercurrents, or that any undercurrents that are there just aren’t your concern?

"grope" is a very unpleasant word ...

OP, is the ‘naked cleaning’ service entirely different to the ‘stripping/naked butlering’ one? I would have imagined it would be incredibly irritating to be at your own hen party and being told to lift your feet by a naked man with a vacuum cleaner.

How did you discover this site and why are you doing this AMA?

Seems like being a cleaner/butler is an excuse to have some masculine, sexual and hopefully ( fun) company whilst very much staying in control of the situation. Rather than 'escort' which is a very heavily loaded term. You being naked obviously highly sexualises the situation. Beginning to get my head around it.

If there are undercurrents, then they are leanings that my clients are aware of. My clients tend to have far greater self-awareness in this regard than many white people I know.
Just to make clear, I do no tolerate or accept any physical ro verbal race play at all.

OP, do you devote much time to strength and conditioning, and what sort of regime/exercise modalities do you follow?

For the hen parties or group bookings surely there will sometimes be black or mixed race women there too. Does that concern you or make things any more awkward?

What do you do about drunk women getting hands or does that not happen as much with women?

A very astute and well-made observation

I think people are imagining it to be exactly the same as if a man was hiring a woman to clean naked - but from your description, it sounds very different to that scenario.

It doesn't concern me at all. I am happy to cater for everybody.
On the other point, people by and large instinctively know where the boundaries are.

Ah that old sex worker chestnut.

Yes it's so empowering as a black man to have a white woman stand over you as you do manual work, naked.

Just like it's so empowering for young women to dance naked for rich old men.

Pull the other one.