I am a Black male stripper and naked cleaner/butler in London working almost exclusively for white women. AMA

[OliverMartins]

As the title says. Happy to answer any questions you might have.

What led you to this line of work and are you gay?

Do you get sexually harassed at work?

Do you feel vulnerable being alone and naked in a stranger's house?

I like performing, I like money and I am not gay

No to both questions. There is no harassment as there is a strong sexual dimension to the work anyway.

How is you being black part of the experience? 🤔

So there no white men that do this?

Can you recommended something to get red wine stains out of my carpet?

Why for white women? Is it because they are the ones who hire you? If a black woman wanted to hire you, would you take the job?

you're ignoring a lot of the questions, so its not really 'AMA' is it?

Can you put up an IKEA flat pack?

Asking for a friend.

OliverMartins · Today 11:59
Meepsh · Today 11:56

Why did you feel the need to pinpoint your race and that of your clients in your title?
“
Because it is part of the experience for my clients”

How does that make you feel, being objectified?

Are you super fit? Do you have to exercise often to keep in shape?
Would you have gay men clients?

How would you sort a smelly washing machine? I've tried the Dr Beckman stuff but it seems worse.

Do you ever feel weird about about profiting from the sexualisation/fetishisation of black men? Or do you feel like you may as well benefit from it?

Of course I would. But it is not something that happens very often

Do you wear an apron or ppe, some cleaning products can be harsh if they splash on your skin.

2 x tablespoons of washing soda crystals, hot wash.
Better than any Dr Beckmann stuff.

I had a conversation once about hiring a naked butler, but it seemed he wanted me to kick him in the balls as part of the service so I declined 🤣

Do you find your jobs relaxing or have to "prepare" yourself in advance? 😉

I am doing my best to keep up with them all. Ignoring questions about stain removal and limescale though.

Why?

Do you feel respect towards these women who hire you?

Limescale - Viakal spray. It's the best.

Do you think they're paying for this service as a way of subjugating you?

Why are you ignoring the cleaning questions? You are a cleaner.

I don't feel objectified. Any "objectification" is part of the performance and my client relationships are by and large based on mutual respect.