I am asexual - AMA!

[YouAreNotBatman]

Hello!👋🏻
Feel free to ask me questions.

[America12]

@AnneLovesGilbert

This really has been done to death on the off chance you haven’t seen the many previous threads.

Maybe she hasn't , I haven't. I'm not fascinated but slightly curious otherwise I'd scroll past.

[YouAreNotBatman]

@MisschiefMaker

I'm still not understanding this concept of horny asexuals masturbating. Can someone kindly explain it? What do asexuals think about when they're horny if they aren't attracted to other people?

As a heterosexual if my sex drive is high I'll find myself checking out other men more or fantasising about having sex. I can't divorce this attraction to men from my sex drive.

Personally, I just move towards/in a way that is pleasurable.
It’s only physical to me.
No sexual thoughts, or imagining people or acts.

[YouAreNotBatman]

@Papergirl1968

Could I just clarify, Op, if you're a virgin. I get the impression you are from your posts, but you haven't actually said so, unless I missed it?
I used to think I just needed to meet the right man but have realised for a while that I'm probably asexual. Thank to you and the other posters for making me realise I'm not that unusual and certainly not a freak.

Yes, I am.

There is nothing wrong with you, you beautiful human.

Also, sorry fot the late reply @Papergirl1968

[MisschiefMaker]

@YouAreNotBatman but how do you know when you're horny if you don't have sexual thoughts?

[slashlover]

Because being horny is libido and comes from hormones etc.

[Papergirl1968]

Thank you, YouAreNotBatman. Much appreciated.

[YouAreNotBatman]

@MisschiefMaker

@YouAreNotBatman but how do you know when you're horny if you don't have sexual thoughts?

It’s just the libido, like slashlover said.
It’s just physiology, nothing more.