My nanny and cleaner are very thin. The cleaner even has pictures of herself 10 years ago when she looks about size 18. It's an incredible achievement. But we're getting off the point a bit. Presumably second wives particularly in France are principally picked on looks grounds anyway. Englishmen have a different kind of view on looks than they do abroad. We have that kind of appreciation of the scruffy which is one of the nice things about England, the holes in the jumper being appealing sort of thing. More relaxed culture in a way.
On testosterone I will look and come back on here. Interesting recent study on menopause effects too - you lose the hormones which keep you compliant and accepting and tolerant of even difficult husbands at the menopause as your hormone balances change. That may be to the good or to the bad. Depends.