All these seem quite mild to me given the context of a police station. Since when did the police have a reputation for moderate language?
This is a quote from a BBC investigation less than a year ago:
'Serving Metropolitan Police officers called for immigrants to be shot, revelled in the use of force and were dismissive of rape claims in footage captured by a Panorama undercover reporter.
'The evidence of misogyny and racism challenges the Met's promise to have tackled what it calls "toxic behaviours" after the murder of Sarah Everard by a serving police officer.
'Panorama's secret filming shows officers making sexualised comments to colleagues and sharing racist views about immigrants and Muslims.'
https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/cvgq06d44jyo
The idea that DC Fletcher's alleged comments were offensive enough to amount to gross misconduct is absolutely absurd. Police officers spend their days dealing with the most grotesque manifestations of male abuse: rape, sexual assault, domestic abuse, paedophilia. Of course any woman who has to deal with that is going to have strong opinions about male failings, and who can blame her for expressing them robustly?
Here's a thought - why not deal with real harm caused by police officers? The Met alone had the murderer Wayne Couzens and the rapists David Carrick and Cliff Mitchell.
For 14 years, the Scottish police employed Alan Greer, a man who committed multiple instances of rape and attempted murder against women.
And instead of going after these violent sexual abusers, the police go after the woman who is angry about sexual abuser.
What a sick society we live in.