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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Do we have a thread for the DC Rachel Fletcher misconduct hearing?

175 replies

DoneByTheFuckingRainbowUnit · 31/07/2026 08:06

I've had a search and I can't find one. She's the chair of Police SEEN, and is up for gross misconduct, for making the following comments in the police station where she was based:

  1. all men should be on a curfew
  2. see, that wouldn’t have happened if men were on a curfew (in response to a reported rape)
  3. all men are rapists
  4. I hate men
  5. trans women are all cocks in frocks.

The tribunal tweets coverage is here:
tribunaltweets.substack.com/p/police-misconduct-hearing-dc-fletcher

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ElenOfTheWays · 04/08/2026 14:56

TheignT · 04/08/2026 14:33

So the women who get raped by their husband or partner during curfew aren't really raped are they because rapes don't happen if there's a curfew. Maybe we could give it a new catchy name like non consensual sex with a live in partner. Surely a thought experiment should actually work.

What about women who get raped during the non curfew hours, are they raped?

You're totally missing the point. It's just an answer to all the men saying that women should stay at home, not be out alone late at night, take myraid precautions after dark etc. or it's their own fault if they are assaulted.

Its reversing the victim blaming.

TheignT · 04/08/2026 15:04

Ereshkigalangcleg · 04/08/2026 14:36

Is that a reason for DC Fletcher to be sacked then, you think her logic is faulty?

I think her logic is wrong if she thinks a curfew stops rape. You could say a curfew stops night time stranger rape or night time street rape but it doesn't stop rape. That's just a fact.

TheignT · 04/08/2026 15:07

ElenOfTheWays · 04/08/2026 14:56

You're totally missing the point. It's just an answer to all the men saying that women should stay at home, not be out alone late at night, take myraid precautions after dark etc. or it's their own fault if they are assaulted.

Its reversing the victim blaming.

So saying something that is clearly wrong is going to convince people that something else that is clearly wrong is wrong. Brilliant. Why not point out that their argument is wrong because women who stay at home can still get raped.

TheignT · 04/08/2026 15:08

ElenOfTheWays · 04/08/2026 14:56

You're totally missing the point. It's just an answer to all the men saying that women should stay at home, not be out alone late at night, take myraid precautions after dark etc. or it's their own fault if they are assaulted.

Its reversing the victim blaming.

It's reversing an incorrect statement with an incorrect statement.

JudeyJudey · 04/08/2026 15:17

@TheignT I agree, not all rapes are committed by strangers out on the street. We know that we are more at risk from our partners, exes, relatives and colleagues. The "men should have a curfew" suggestion is about addressing the former, not the latter. It's a challenge to the idea that women would be perfectly safe from men raping them, if only they didn't go out at night.

Datun · 04/08/2026 15:24

TheignT · 04/08/2026 14:33

So the women who get raped by their husband or partner during curfew aren't really raped are they because rapes don't happen if there's a curfew. Maybe we could give it a new catchy name like non consensual sex with a live in partner. Surely a thought experiment should actually work.

What about women who get raped during the non curfew hours, are they raped?

True, we could of course, just castrate all males at birth. Except for one or two to propagate the species.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 04/08/2026 15:36

TheignT · 04/08/2026 15:04

I think her logic is wrong if she thinks a curfew stops rape. You could say a curfew stops night time stranger rape or night time street rape but it doesn't stop rape. That's just a fact.

It’s a thought experiment 🙄

ElenOfTheWays · 04/08/2026 15:36

TheignT · 04/08/2026 15:07

So saying something that is clearly wrong is going to convince people that something else that is clearly wrong is wrong. Brilliant. Why not point out that their argument is wrong because women who stay at home can still get raped.

Ah. Their answer to to that is saying women need to pick better men. Another lovely victim blaming argument they like to propound.

Whatever men do to women, it's always our own fault somehow.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 04/08/2026 15:36

Datun · 04/08/2026 15:24

True, we could of course, just castrate all males at birth. Except for one or two to propagate the species.

Yes, there could be a ballot.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 04/08/2026 15:39

This thread is about the sacking of a female police officer. Not whether pp think the thought experiment first pithily quipped by Golda Meir and proposed in a tongue in cheek way by hundreds of other feminists is logically sound in every single possible way.

lcakethereforeIam · 04/08/2026 15:42

Julie Bindel has written about this in Unherd, don't read it unless you want to get angry all over again

https://archive.ph/AsAuz

https://unherd.com/2026/08/does-the-force-fear-feminists/?edition=us

Regarding curfews, this article from the Sun is linked in the above

Sarah Everard missing: Cops warn women ‘be careful going out alone’ after 33-year-old vanishes off London streets https://share.google/d5NGKHw5spE0hlg6F

Despite the source it's worth a reading as a reminder of the usual lots of words, including from the Police, about women keeping themselves safe. Something that women take on board because we know expecting anything from men, about men will never be forthcoming. In fact it'll get you sacked.

Does the force fear feminists?

https://unherd.com/2026/08/does-the-force-fear-feminists/?edition=us

TheignT · 04/08/2026 16:15

Ereshkigalangcleg · 04/08/2026 15:39

This thread is about the sacking of a female police officer. Not whether pp think the thought experiment first pithily quipped by Golda Meir and proposed in a tongue in cheek way by hundreds of other feminists is logically sound in every single possible way.

Funny that I wasn't the one who brought it up but you had no objections to that. Almost like you can't deny what I'm saying is true.

TheignT · 04/08/2026 16:16

Datun · 04/08/2026 15:24

True, we could of course, just castrate all males at birth. Except for one or two to propagate the species.

I think the inbreeding would cause quite serious issues. Another ridiculous idea.

borntobequiet · 04/08/2026 16:17

TheignT · 04/08/2026 14:33

So the women who get raped by their husband or partner during curfew aren't really raped are they because rapes don't happen if there's a curfew. Maybe we could give it a new catchy name like non consensual sex with a live in partner. Surely a thought experiment should actually work.

What about women who get raped during the non curfew hours, are they raped?

Tip: when indulging in whataboutery , don’t spoil the fun by actually using the words “what about”.

TheignT · 04/08/2026 16:18

JudeyJudey · 04/08/2026 15:17

@TheignT I agree, not all rapes are committed by strangers out on the street. We know that we are more at risk from our partners, exes, relatives and colleagues. The "men should have a curfew" suggestion is about addressing the former, not the latter. It's a challenge to the idea that women would be perfectly safe from men raping them, if only they didn't go out at night.

So you agree the idea is wrong. Honestly it would be so much more straightforward if people said what 5eu meant.

TheignT · 04/08/2026 16:20

ElenOfTheWays · 04/08/2026 15:36

Ah. Their answer to to that is saying women need to pick better men. Another lovely victim blaming argument they like to propound.

Whatever men do to women, it's always our own fault somehow.

Worked in a police station for 20 years and never heard anyone say that at work or outside work

ElenOfTheWays · 04/08/2026 16:25

TheignT · 04/08/2026 16:20

Worked in a police station for 20 years and never heard anyone say that at work or outside work

I don't recall attributing that particular argument to the police -although I wouldn't be at all surprised to hear them say it as well as myriad men in general all over SM and IRL. It's a pretty common trope.

Edit - I just worked out who you are (your former username on here I mean)

Datun · 04/08/2026 16:36

TheignT · 04/08/2026 16:16

I think the inbreeding would cause quite serious issues. Another ridiculous idea.

Damn (chews pencil).

Ok, so not castrated, but imprisoned. Job done.

That way, we can also see what they look like, to pick which one gets to donate their seed.

No mingers, obvs (shudders).

lcakethereforeIam · 04/08/2026 16:39

We don't need that many to prevent in-breeding. Certainly not millions. Perhaps a few thousand. Many genetic diseases can be screened out too.

Datun · 04/08/2026 16:46

lcakethereforeIam · 04/08/2026 16:39

We don't need that many to prevent in-breeding. Certainly not millions. Perhaps a few thousand. Many genetic diseases can be screened out too.

There you go. All it takes is a little bleeding creativity, ffs.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 04/08/2026 17:24

🤣

Ereshkigalangcleg · 04/08/2026 17:30

lcakethereforeIam · 04/08/2026 15:42

Julie Bindel has written about this in Unherd, don't read it unless you want to get angry all over again

https://archive.ph/AsAuz

https://unherd.com/2026/08/does-the-force-fear-feminists/?edition=us

Regarding curfews, this article from the Sun is linked in the above

Sarah Everard missing: Cops warn women ‘be careful going out alone’ after 33-year-old vanishes off London streets https://share.google/d5NGKHw5spE0hlg6F

Despite the source it's worth a reading as a reminder of the usual lots of words, including from the Police, about women keeping themselves safe. Something that women take on board because we know expecting anything from men, about men will never be forthcoming. In fact it'll get you sacked.

Thank you for this. Great article. Fucking awful.

MrsOvertonsWindow · 04/08/2026 17:46

That article's very enlightening about why they wanted her out. Opposing self ID and male police officers intimately assaulting women prisoners.

Hope the crowd funder's doing well.

MarieDeGournay · 04/08/2026 17:57

A curfew on men was the theme of a play by an English lesbian theatre company in.. I think it was the mid 1980s?

It's quite a widely used phrase, but only an eejit would take it as a serious, workable proposal.

A humane alternative to castration would be to have a ceremony shortly after birth where all baby boys are bound over to keep the peace.

Less drastic, and less likely to be taken as a serious suggestion by posters here or Elsewhere🙄

Do we have a thread for the DC Rachel Fletcher misconduct hearing?
FellOutTheLoft · 04/08/2026 18:00

TheignT · 04/08/2026 15:04

I think her logic is wrong if she thinks a curfew stops rape. You could say a curfew stops night time stranger rape or night time street rape but it doesn't stop rape. That's just a fact.

Thanks for your comment. Next time I’m having a casual, private conversation with a colleague at work about how women’s movements are restricted I’ll be sure to include every possible caveat to insure my comments against the most microscopic possible scrutiny.