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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Watch in real time as Trans Reddit turns on one of it's own for suggesting that maybe they are biological men and arguing they are not makes them look unstable.

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SingleSexSpacesInSchools · 01/05/2026 14:56

www.reddit.com/r/transgenderUK/comments/1t0t604/trans_girl_says_were_all_biological_males/

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GriseldaandMike · 06/05/2026 16:51

onepostwonder · 06/05/2026 16:45

You need to ask Oxford about that, then. I'm not in the definition business.

Good news (for me) they say not you.

Watch in real time as Trans Reddit turns on one of it's own for suggesting that maybe they are biological men and arguing they are not makes them look unstable.
alliumursinum · 06/05/2026 16:53

I do hope OPW has set up a keyboard short cut for “sex realist” I do worry about RSI possibilities…

SirChenjins · 06/05/2026 16:54

Sex realist is the equivalent of a non-flat earther - i.e. something to be proud of.

SirChenjins · 06/05/2026 16:55

onepostwonder · 06/05/2026 16:45

You need to ask Oxford about that, then. I'm not in the definition business.

So go on then - in your own words. What makes us all women?

ChimpanzeeThatMonkeyNews · 06/05/2026 16:55

onepostwonder · 06/05/2026 16:45

You need to ask Oxford about that, then. I'm not in the definition business.

It give me very little pleasure to be proven right, y’know, @onepostwonder

You’re a bit daft.
I know you’re trying desperately to convince yourself, but if you really were a woman, there’d be no need of the word salad.

There’d be no one to convince, in the first place, and the discussion about your (unwelcome and illegal) presence in women’s spaces wouldn’t even happen.

onepostwonder · 06/05/2026 16:57

Helleofabore · 06/05/2026 16:43

None of this makes you a woman. You are male and you are therefore not a woman.

You keep forgetting that you also went through at least a partial testosterone puberty. You never went through the puberty of a female. You went through a male puberty that was partially testosterone driven and then estrogen driven. But it was always a male puberty just using exogenous estrogen as well as your naturally produced testosterone.

That you passively allowed others to place you with female people also doesn't mean you are in any way a 'woman'. That is where you have ignored the situations where female people may not have consented to being with you in these situations. But, you failed to show any respect for those female people and continued to passively allow others to miscategorise you as being female because it suited your individual wishes.

And in medical situations, if the staff knew, then you were being treated for who you were - a male who had chosen to undergo extreme body modification and to take hormones in quantities that would normally be found in female body. While they might have used female language for you and some of them will observe your request to be treated as if you were female, they will not have been 'treating you as if you were female'.

Your statement is not one outlining a female experience. It does highlight though your lack of respect for female people.

The shoehorning here is stunning.

Yes, I'm sure the testosterone in my body was doing a bang-up job until puberty stalled out. The oestrogen I took quickly diminished testosterone to negligible levels in my body.

You are imposing upon me a motivation of 'passivity' and a lack of respect for women. The idea of 'consent' being ignored being a consideration is another imposed motivation as the sex realist concept of consent is not recognised by anyone but sex realists in such situations.

In reference to medical situations, you create this bizarre motivation scenario involving doctors humouring the poor fragile trans woman. I have previously shared details involving pre-surgical medication required for males due to very real physical issues present in >50 yr old men and not for females. But you do you.

SirChenjins · 06/05/2026 17:01

So what makes us all women @onepostwonder ?

onepostwonder · 06/05/2026 17:01

GriseldaandMike · 06/05/2026 16:46

So you know for certain you absolutely are something but you have no idea what that thing is?

Got it.

To be fair, this entire topic affects my life approximately never. I haven't given it a thought (until I found mumsnet). Sex realists spend more time thinking about trans women than trans women, I think.

GreyskySexRealistsky · 06/05/2026 17:03

onepostwonder · 06/05/2026 17:01

To be fair, this entire topic affects my life approximately never. I haven't given it a thought (until I found mumsnet). Sex realists spend more time thinking about trans women than trans women, I think.

Edited

So little does it affect your life that you actively found your way to the FWR board of mumsnet and post on it frequently at length

Okay then

SirChenjins · 06/05/2026 17:03

For someone who has never given his woman-ness a thought, you certainly seem to a lot to say on the matter @onepostwonder .

GreyskySexRealistsky · 06/05/2026 17:05

Mumsnet made me do it

BettyBooper · 06/05/2026 17:06

Every time OPW posts, the more I agree with Dr P that synthetic hormones damages brain function.

GriseldaandMike · 06/05/2026 17:07

GreyskySexRealistsky · 06/05/2026 17:05

Mumsnet made me do it

Then ran away 😉

TWETMIRF · 06/05/2026 17:08

I HAD MYSELF CASTRATED, WHY WON'T YOU MEANIES AGREE I AM A WOMAN?

Is what I'm hearing

GriseldaandMike · 06/05/2026 17:12

onepostwonder · 06/05/2026 17:01

To be fair, this entire topic affects my life approximately never. I haven't given it a thought (until I found mumsnet). Sex realists spend more time thinking about trans women than trans women, I think.

Edited

So you tripped and fell into a pile of HRT patches? You were just going about living your life (having been born male) and with no thought or consideration from you a mystical power decided you were actually supposed to be female? In order to transition you must have had some input into the whole process. Why did you think hang on I'm not a man/going to be a man I'll be a woman instead what did you think being a woman meant?

onepostwonder · 06/05/2026 17:12

TWETMIRF · 06/05/2026 17:08

I HAD MYSELF CASTRATED, WHY WON'T YOU MEANIES AGREE I AM A WOMAN?

Is what I'm hearing

I'm not shocked. Sex realists are really good at manufacturing motivations of other people.

What you individually believe has no impact on my life.

SirChenjins · 06/05/2026 17:12

You know sex is real and immutable - you big sex realist meanies the lot of you. I'm telling the teacher 🙋‍♂️

GriseldaandMike · 06/05/2026 17:14

onepostwonder · 06/05/2026 17:12

I'm not shocked. Sex realists are really good at manufacturing motivations of other people.

What you individually believe has no impact on my life.

So give us your motivation? What to you think feel believe a woman is if not an adult human female? What did you think would be different being a woman rather than being a man?

onepostwonder · 06/05/2026 17:15

GriseldaandMike · 06/05/2026 17:12

So you tripped and fell into a pile of HRT patches? You were just going about living your life (having been born male) and with no thought or consideration from you a mystical power decided you were actually supposed to be female? In order to transition you must have had some input into the whole process. Why did you think hang on I'm not a man/going to be a man I'll be a woman instead what did you think being a woman meant?

Yes. It happened exactly like you imagined. Or, not.

Take your pick.

Coatsoff42 · 06/05/2026 17:22

GriseldaandMike · 06/05/2026 17:12

So you tripped and fell into a pile of HRT patches? You were just going about living your life (having been born male) and with no thought or consideration from you a mystical power decided you were actually supposed to be female? In order to transition you must have had some input into the whole process. Why did you think hang on I'm not a man/going to be a man I'll be a woman instead what did you think being a woman meant?

I thought OPW didn’t take hormones for a long, long time due to having too much fun, and now has old lady level osteoporosis and goes to a lady hospital to have it managed? I might be remembering wrong though. I’m surprised ‘female puberty’ occurred.

SirChenjins · 06/05/2026 17:23

Or, you could use your grown up words and explain your non-thought process yourself @onepostwonder?

DeanElderberry · 06/05/2026 17:23

motivation scenario involving doctors humouring the poor fragile trans woman

versus

motivation scenario involving doctors humouring the extremely stubborn mentally unwell boy

I do not approve of any organisation castrating boys, whether the Catholic church trying to preserve beautiful voices, the Ottomans or the Chinese wanting bureaucrats who would not be tempted to put their children's interests over their employers', or the genderists and transhumanists wanting to negate the value of the human body and the family. Even if the boys want to preserve their high voices, or gain managerial careers, or just to play along.

Puberty is a human right, letting people have one (even if they're scared of it) is an obligation. It is not just the body that is stunted if puberty is denied.

ThatFairy · 06/05/2026 17:31

Well, I'm confused. If gender isn't real then we are exactly the same as men apart from our bodies. So why can't a 5'4 size 6 trans woman that went through female puberty use the toilet ?

Helleofabore · 06/05/2026 17:34

ThatFairy · 06/05/2026 17:31

Well, I'm confused. If gender isn't real then we are exactly the same as men apart from our bodies. So why can't a 5'4 size 6 trans woman that went through female puberty use the toilet ?

Because sex is real and our bodies are differentiated by our sex category.

And no male person goes through female puberty.

PeaceWhite · 06/05/2026 17:36

ThatFairy · 06/05/2026 17:31

Well, I'm confused. If gender isn't real then we are exactly the same as men apart from our bodies. So why can't a 5'4 size 6 trans woman that went through female puberty use the toilet ?

Because he didn't go through female puberty

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