None of this makes you a woman. You are male and you are therefore not a woman.
You keep forgetting that you also went through at least a partial testosterone puberty. You never went through the puberty of a female. You went through a male puberty that was partially testosterone driven and then estrogen driven. But it was always a male puberty just using exogenous estrogen as well as your naturally produced testosterone.
That you passively allowed others to place you with female people also doesn't mean you are in any way a 'woman'. That is where you have ignored the situations where female people may not have consented to being with you in these situations. But, you failed to show any respect for those female people and continued to passively allow others to miscategorise you as being female because it suited your individual wishes.
And in medical situations, if the staff knew, then you were being treated for who you were - a male who had chosen to undergo extreme body modification and to take hormones in quantities that would normally be found in female body. While they might have used female language for you and some of them will observe your request to be treated as if you were female, they will not have been 'treating you as if you were female'.
Your statement is not one outlining a female experience. It does highlight though your lack of respect for female people.