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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

What's the deal guys?

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shadesOfTeal · 17/02/2026 21:23

I don't think this post is going to last long but what's the deal with hating trans women so much? I've been a women for 13 years of my life since 18 and it's never been a problem. Suddenly I'm not only talk of the town but also an evil man stealing everyone's rights away from them? I wasn't much of a boy as a kid anyway but. I just wanted to ask like what's the deal? Why do you hate the idea of me existing so much? What have I personally done to you that's been so bad? I feel like I need to be careful with my words because it'll be easy to accuse me of all sorts but I've done no harm to anyone. If you want to ask a trans woman some honest questions then please do, I don't usually talk about it in my day to day life and that, I'm pretty down to earth and will help you understand as much as possible. But I'd like to ask the people that hate me so much, can we ever get along? Please don't assume I'm what the internet and the media says I am though, I'm not like that at all! I just want us all to get on and I'm sick of having my life debated every 5 minutes.

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onepostwonder · 19/02/2026 22:56

callmeLoretta1 · 19/02/2026 22:53

It's not violent to defend our rights any way we can. Suffragettes did the same thing. Bombs even (I'd never promote that). I will not apologise for taking any necessary steps to protect female spaces, not now, not ever.

There are innumerable examples from history that support the overwheming violence against minorities by a power-preserving majority class. Your threats against trans people are unsurprising and based on my early, visually trans life, expected.

callmeLoretta1 · 19/02/2026 22:56

AuntieMsDamsonCrumble · 19/02/2026 22:53

Maybe they learned by watching the TRAs hunting down sex realists and disrupting their meetings.

True. What's good for the goose...

At least we don't smash up buildings or wield guns, knives and wire-covered baseball bats though, unlike the TRAs.

onepostwonder · 19/02/2026 22:57

callmeLoretta1 · 19/02/2026 22:53

It's not violent to defend our rights any way we can. Suffragettes did the same thing. Bombs even (I'd never promote that). I will not apologise for taking any necessary steps to protect female spaces, not now, not ever.

Okay Valerie Solanas. Moving on.

callmeLoretta1 · 19/02/2026 22:58

onepostwonder · 19/02/2026 22:56

There are innumerable examples from history that support the overwheming violence against minorities by a power-preserving majority class. Your threats against trans people are unsurprising and based on my early, visually trans life, expected.

Males are not a minority. You are 50% of the population and you are the oppressor sex class.

The threat is from your oppressor sex, to females. Not the other way around. The male TRAs at womens rallies brandishing knives and wire-covered baseball bats prove this.

Hedgehogforshort · 19/02/2026 22:59

callmeLoretta1 · 19/02/2026 22:58

Males are not a minority. You are 50% of the population and you are the oppressor sex class.

The threat is from your oppressor sex, to females. Not the other way around. The male TRAs at womens rallies brandishing knives and wire-covered baseball bats prove this.

I agree with you there and i am not against you

Hedgehogforshort · 19/02/2026 23:00

I am up for shouting things and shaming trans invasions

RapidOnsetGenderCritic · 19/02/2026 23:01

onepostwonder · 19/02/2026 22:35

Oh, I don't want to talk with you about your child. I was just taken aback by your transphobic and misogynistic statement.

I was quoting the delightful transwoman Andrea Long Chu. As someone who has experienced the doctor's finger up the bum, I think sarcastically quoting a transwoman, in other words a fellow man, is neither transphobic nor misogynistic. But I apologise for offending you by quoting a transwoman.

lifeturnsonadime · 19/02/2026 23:01

Goodness me is the merail STILL happening!

He doesn't bore easy does he?

The womanly existence isn't interesting unless he gets to mansplain!

Hedgehogforshort · 19/02/2026 23:02

ah da da da ah doo doo doo is all i want say to you.

lifeturnsonadime · 19/02/2026 23:02

Man I feel like a woman!

onepostwonder · 19/02/2026 23:02

callmeLoretta1 · 19/02/2026 22:58

Males are not a minority. You are 50% of the population and you are the oppressor sex class.

The threat is from your oppressor sex, to females. Not the other way around. The male TRAs at womens rallies brandishing knives and wire-covered baseball bats prove this.

Trans people are very much a minority. One that has been hunted, disparaged and hidden by many cultures throughout history.

onepostwonder · 19/02/2026 23:03

RapidOnsetGenderCritic · 19/02/2026 23:01

I was quoting the delightful transwoman Andrea Long Chu. As someone who has experienced the doctor's finger up the bum, I think sarcastically quoting a transwoman, in other words a fellow man, is neither transphobic nor misogynistic. But I apologise for offending you by quoting a transwoman.

I've never heard of her, or those words.

Hedgehogforshort · 19/02/2026 23:04

onepostwonder · 19/02/2026 23:02

Trans people are very much a minority. One that has been hunted, disparaged and hidden by many cultures throughout history.

😂hunted,well that is a bit of an exaggeration.

FlirtsWithRhinos · 19/02/2026 23:06

onepostwonder · 19/02/2026 23:03

I've never heard of her, or those words.

Perhaps if you had, you would understand why your beliefs about what makes you a "woman" are so offsensive to so many people who are women.

Educate yourself. It's a good thing to learn and grow.

Hedgehogforshort · 19/02/2026 23:06

I we nearly there?

onepostwonder · 19/02/2026 23:06

Ten more, we can do it.

lifeturnsonadime · 19/02/2026 23:07
real disney GIF

am i a real boy?

AmaryllisNightAndDay · 19/02/2026 23:07

Hate you? Nah. Just don't try to make me pretend I think you are a woman when I am sure you're a man, and do keep yourself out of women-only spaces as per the Supreme Court clarifications; and we'll get along fine.

Cheery-bye!

callmeLoretta1 · 19/02/2026 23:07

onepostwonder · 19/02/2026 23:02

Trans people are very much a minority. One that has been hunted, disparaged and hidden by many cultures throughout history.

Lesbians are a minority, too. That's not relevant.

The fact is males are throughout history the predator and oppressor sex. That doesn't change just because you put on a dress. The fact is males are the ruling and oppressor sex and the female sex are the vulnerable sex. You're not a minority just because you can't as a male access female spaces. You don't get to make that claim.

WearyAuldWumman · 19/02/2026 23:08

So far as violence is concerned, the one case that I'm aware of in Fife is where a 10 yr old girl punched Katie Dolatowski in the nuts. The court seemed to take the view that the girl's action was justified.

www.thecourier.co.uk/fp/news/courts/819644/mum-of-supermarket-toilet-sex-assault-victim-warns-freed-attacker-could-strike-again/

lifeturnsonadime · 19/02/2026 23:08
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bro

onepostwonder · 19/02/2026 23:08

callmeLoretta1 · 19/02/2026 23:07

Lesbians are a minority, too. That's not relevant.

The fact is males are throughout history the predator and oppressor sex. That doesn't change just because you put on a dress. The fact is males are the ruling and oppressor sex and the female sex are the vulnerable sex. You're not a minority just because you can't as a male access female spaces. You don't get to make that claim.

Can't is doing a lot of heavy lifting.

lifeturnsonadime · 19/02/2026 23:09

small boys are not girls.

RapidOnsetGenderCritic · 19/02/2026 23:09

onepostwonder · 19/02/2026 23:03

I've never heard of her, or those words.

Then you haven't bothered reading all the recent posts on this thread. Mine was the second to quote him. The first quote gave a lot more context.

callmeLoretta1 · 19/02/2026 23:10

onepostwonder · 19/02/2026 23:08

Can't is doing a lot of heavy lifting.

Trans woman is the heavy lifting.

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