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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

What's the deal guys?

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shadesOfTeal · 17/02/2026 21:23

I don't think this post is going to last long but what's the deal with hating trans women so much? I've been a women for 13 years of my life since 18 and it's never been a problem. Suddenly I'm not only talk of the town but also an evil man stealing everyone's rights away from them? I wasn't much of a boy as a kid anyway but. I just wanted to ask like what's the deal? Why do you hate the idea of me existing so much? What have I personally done to you that's been so bad? I feel like I need to be careful with my words because it'll be easy to accuse me of all sorts but I've done no harm to anyone. If you want to ask a trans woman some honest questions then please do, I don't usually talk about it in my day to day life and that, I'm pretty down to earth and will help you understand as much as possible. But I'd like to ask the people that hate me so much, can we ever get along? Please don't assume I'm what the internet and the media says I am though, I'm not like that at all! I just want us all to get on and I'm sick of having my life debated every 5 minutes.

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onepostwonder · 19/02/2026 19:46

AnSolas · 19/02/2026 19:41

Another for the bingo card 🚩
Trite angry women trope

You know you are breaking the social contract by being in what should be female only single sex spaces.

You know and have made it verrrrrry clear that you see the women in them as less or service humans.

Until a few years ago sex realist concerns weren't raised to this national emergency level in the US and UK.

RedToothBrush · 19/02/2026 19:46

It's fascinating. I'm glad we have someone to demonstrate why women don't want men in their spaces and how they can see sex in many ways that men don't even realise.

onepostwonder · 19/02/2026 19:47

TwinklyWrinkly · 19/02/2026 19:44

What exactly IS a "sex realist" I've only heard the term for the first time tonight? But with regards to actual reality, I'm afraid that no matter how much you stamp your feet and hold your breath, you are a man in a gay relationship. And that's fine, I wish you every happiness as a gay man. Please don't try and tell the children you are a woman as that is a horrid, horrid thing to do to a child. It is a lie and they WILL hate you for it. Maybe not now, but in the future, you are damaging them by lying. You are NOT a mother, you cannot be, because you ARE a man, no matter what you look like and what you think, and what you want everyone else to think. That's just biological reality, no matter how many times you deny it and use word salad to try and prove otherwise.

This is your belief.

Pingponghavoc · 19/02/2026 19:48

Its strange, if anything you say is true, you are in your 60s, living with a partner and have a family. You claim to pass as a women and have never had an issue using womens services.

Yet you are on here insulting women you claim can't touch you?

Why? You dont even seem to be bragging, more trying to convince us the above is true.

I think youve just been told you cant use the ladies anymore at work.

onepostwonder · 19/02/2026 19:49

Brefugee · 19/02/2026 19:45

You'Re in the UK? you are a man. If you have no GRC that allows you the legal fiction of "female" under certain restricted circumstances - you are lying on official documentation. There is no SelfID in the UK

This is your belief.

Brefugee · 19/02/2026 19:50

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Brefugee · 19/02/2026 19:51

onepostwonder · 19/02/2026 19:46

Until a few years ago sex realist concerns weren't raised to this national emergency level in the US and UK.

you can blame your TRA mates for the fact that people are now realising the extent of your attempts to claim womanhood.

bad luck mate.

AnSolas · 19/02/2026 19:53

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onepostwonder · 19/02/2026 19:55

Pingponghavoc · 19/02/2026 19:48

Its strange, if anything you say is true, you are in your 60s, living with a partner and have a family. You claim to pass as a women and have never had an issue using womens services.

Yet you are on here insulting women you claim can't touch you?

Why? You dont even seem to be bragging, more trying to convince us the above is true.

I think youve just been told you cant use the ladies anymore at work.

50s. Our children are adults.

I don't need permission to live life. I haven't been told anything. My life; our life is wonderful.

There is no convincing sex realists, as they don't allow for anything other than gametes.

onepostwonder · 19/02/2026 19:56

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this is your belief.

onepostwonder · 19/02/2026 19:57

Brefugee · 19/02/2026 19:51

you can blame your TRA mates for the fact that people are now realising the extent of your attempts to claim womanhood.

bad luck mate.

I will be working to support trans people regain their rights.

callmeLoretta1 · 19/02/2026 19:57

onepostwonder · 19/02/2026 19:46

Until a few years ago sex realist concerns weren't raised to this national emergency level in the US and UK.

Until a few years ago, people weren't awake to the male infiltration of womens spaces and sports.

Trans militants are their own worst enemy.

FuzzyPuffling · 19/02/2026 19:58

Oh, do give over with your "This is your belief" nonsense.
It adds nothing.

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callmeLoretta1 · 19/02/2026 20:02

onepostwonder · 19/02/2026 19:57

I will be working to support trans people regain their rights.

Trans people have not lost any rights. If they had, you'd be able to name one. Just one. None of you can when asked. You never can answer that.

What's the deal guys?
RedToothBrush · 19/02/2026 20:02

FuzzyPuffling · 19/02/2026 19:58

Oh, do give over with your "This is your belief" nonsense.
It adds nothing.

Oh it does add something. It's a great demonstration of my point.

He could say "I can't think of an argument to refute your point cos I know I'm talking bollocks and you've caught me out again".

Thats how I translate it from Man English to Woman English.

It's funny. Both sexes have their own version of the English language. You can tell the difference.

Igneococcus · 19/02/2026 20:02

onepostwonder · 19/02/2026 19:57

I will be working to support trans people regain their rights.

How do you think that is going for you? Do you think you are convincing anybody?

onepostwonder · 19/02/2026 20:04

callmeLoretta1 · 19/02/2026 19:57

Until a few years ago, people weren't awake to the male infiltration of womens spaces and sports.

Trans militants are their own worst enemy.

Maybe, but having shared women's services and spaces for my entire adulthood and played sports through my 30s and seeing the machinations of the conservative right, I think there's more culture war at play here than personal dignity.

AnSolas · 19/02/2026 20:04

onepostwonder · 19/02/2026 19:46

Until a few years ago sex realist concerns weren't raised to this national emergency level in the US and UK.

Biological classifications have been accepted as science for quite a while.

Even before that from Hunter-gatherer groups to Agri communities to current times humans have understood how sexual reproduction works.

Until a few years ago the elected were not trying to telling the voters they were bigots if they understood how babies were made.

When they laws began to change to force a lie the wider community began to say NO

Igneococcus · 19/02/2026 20:05

Just a little word of warning: someone,possibly onepostwonder, is reporting posts and MNetters are getting warnings.

onepostwonder · 19/02/2026 20:09

Helleofabore · 19/02/2026 18:07

I have said this on another thread recently. There is little chance that a girl with a parent who states they are female when they are male people, will grow up with healthy protective boundaries for their own privacy.

Their privacy has been violated from the start if they have not been told the truth about their parent’s sex category.

Ah, I thought I'd saved this link... You'll be happy to note the large well-funded christian conservative groups that have had so much success supporting the war against the trans marauders in the UK and US are now pivoting back to 'saving the children.'

https://greaterthancampaign.com/

Join the Movement to Protect Kids | Greater Than Campaign

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Mmmnotsure · 19/02/2026 20:12

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Myalternate · 19/02/2026 20:12

Onepostwonder…

Did you tell your husband that you were trans?

TwinklyWrinkly · 19/02/2026 20:13

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Greyskybluesky · 19/02/2026 20:13

Someone's been on a reporting spree...

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