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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Trans woman gym goer caught masturbating in women’s changing room

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LesbianNana · 10/01/2026 12:39

I’ve included the NY Post article, the original TikTok video and an American police officer YouTuber video (Officer Tatum). This was in California (naturally) at a Planet Fitness gym.

In the beginning of the YouTube video you can see him clearly masturbating (along with his huge gross feet all splayed out), and if you want to avoid YouTube commentary jump to 4:30 for the confrontation.

I’ll transcribe some of the confrontation. It’s a few gym employees, the woman and her boyfriend.

BF: Bro do you go to the Taco Bell restroom and jack off? (Probably.) What the fuck is wrong with you bro? (AGP.)

Woman: Minors walking through here…(Probably the point.)

Trans: You guys, I was IN the stall. (Tip of the hat for not jacking off while at the bench press.)

BF: It does NOT FUCKING MATTER bro.

Trans: I’m not harassing anyone in the stall…I’m allowed to be in here.

Woman: You’re IN THE WOMAN’S BATHROOM.

BF: It doesn’t matter, you’re not allowed to jerk off in here! That is so fucking weird! We have video fucking proof!

Trans: Um are you allowed to video in here? (Attention women: Never video the actions of a man committing a lewd act in public lest it make a man look bad.)

BF: It doesn’t matter, you’re in the women’s bathroom jerking your fucking penis bro!

Trans: I’m transgender! (Here we go! The magic word. All take the knee and beg for forgiveness for your blasphemous ways at the shrine of Transgender!) I was drying off…(HAHAHA.)

Woman: That was you in the shower, too. (Feck’s sake.)

Trans: Right…

At this rate, we’re probably a mere 5 years away from the normalization of public masturbation.

Masturbation Story Hour coming to a library near you! Bring the whole family!

https://nypost.com/2026/01/05/us-news/trans-gymgoer-caught-masturbating-in-womens-bathroom-at-california-planet-fitness/

https://www.tiktok.com/@borderlinebimbo_/video/7591708460211866910

Trans gymgoer caught ‘masturbating’ in women’s bathroom at California Planet Fitness

Disturbing viral video shows the moment a transgender gymgoer appears to be masturbating in a stall inside the women’s bathroom at a Planet Fitness in California.

https://nypost.com/2026/01/05/us-news/trans-gymgoer-caught-masturbating-in-womens-bathroom-at-california-planet-fitness/

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Namelessnelly · 14/01/2026 05:50

Kimura · 14/01/2026 05:44

Well the thing is...that's not what I'm saying at all. I haven't said it once in fact. I didn't say it in my original post (which was a question about whether you'd consider someone who threatened to rape you over a difference of opinion a 'serious person' representative of their community) and I've lost track of the number of times I've reiterated it, and clarified that at no point have I claimed violent threats shouldn't be taken seriously.

Yet despite all that, it seems that some people are desperate for me to have said it, so they just keep claiming that I have said it.

What's really tickled me is that the person you're suggesting thinks women should ignore violent threats has spent about 15 years of their adult life in a second career teaching women how to fight and defend themselves. Couldn't make it up.

But you are. You’re suggesting that women “don’t give the time of day” to these men threatening us because they’re “obviously not serious”. These men are threatening women with rape, violence and death, but according to you they’re just “nutters” we should ignore. These are the same men demanding all spaces are mixed sex. So at what point should women take these threats seriously? What is the number of women who have to be harmed before women should take these threats seriously?

Ereshkigalangcleg · 14/01/2026 05:58

Kimura · 14/01/2026 05:16

All I know about them I've read on Wikipedia and a couple of online articles about this arrest today, but I'm pretty confident that they're going very high on the Scumbag Not Worth Listening To end of the scale, with a little sticker saying 'Nutter' next to their name for good measure.

I certainly wouldn't give anything they've got to say the time of day. Clearly fucking dim for saying something like that while on license for a start.

He’s not just a “nutter”, he’s an ultraviolent, dangerous man.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 14/01/2026 05:58

Kimura · 14/01/2026 05:16

All I know about them I've read on Wikipedia and a couple of online articles about this arrest today, but I'm pretty confident that they're going very high on the Scumbag Not Worth Listening To end of the scale, with a little sticker saying 'Nutter' next to their name for good measure.

I certainly wouldn't give anything they've got to say the time of day. Clearly fucking dim for saying something like that while on license for a start.

He’s not just a “nutter”, he’s an ultraviolent, dangerous man.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 14/01/2026 05:58

Kimura · 14/01/2026 05:16

All I know about them I've read on Wikipedia and a couple of online articles about this arrest today, but I'm pretty confident that they're going very high on the Scumbag Not Worth Listening To end of the scale, with a little sticker saying 'Nutter' next to their name for good measure.

I certainly wouldn't give anything they've got to say the time of day. Clearly fucking dim for saying something like that while on license for a start.

He’s not just a “nutter”, he’s an ultraviolent, dangerous man.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 14/01/2026 05:58

Kimura · 14/01/2026 05:16

All I know about them I've read on Wikipedia and a couple of online articles about this arrest today, but I'm pretty confident that they're going very high on the Scumbag Not Worth Listening To end of the scale, with a little sticker saying 'Nutter' next to their name for good measure.

I certainly wouldn't give anything they've got to say the time of day. Clearly fucking dim for saying something like that while on license for a start.

He’s not just a “nutter”, he’s an ultraviolent, dangerous man.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 14/01/2026 05:59

Apologies for the duplicate posts, it’s a bit glitchy and I don’t have great coverage where I am.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 14/01/2026 06:01

Kimura · 14/01/2026 04:47

Quite the character it seems!

I won't be fretting about someone I'd never heard of until today, I just find it funny when people feel the need to bend the truth to justify something.

Rallies would mean it was done more than once (or was still being done), which as far as I can see it wasn't, but happy to be corrected.

I'd argue it wasn't even done once, given that nobody was 'rallied' to go looking for people to punch in the face, nobody got punched in the face and a court found that it was unlikely they'd expected anyone to act on their words when clearing them of incitement to violence.

“Quite the character”. Fuck me. I’m not going to bother engaging with such ridiculous, goady posts.

Kimura · 14/01/2026 06:02

Ereshkigalangcleg · 14/01/2026 05:58

He’s not just a “nutter”, he’s an ultraviolent, dangerous man.

I don't think that'd look as neat on a sticker.

Kimura · 14/01/2026 06:11

Ereshkigalangcleg · 14/01/2026 06:01

“Quite the character”. Fuck me. I’m not going to bother engaging with such ridiculous, goady posts.

I was being deliberately facecous. Which I think I've every right to be given that I've had to put up with people on this thread insulting my intelligence, claiming I've said things I've categorically not said, and when I've explained and clarified that multiple times, been told that no, I definitely meant something else.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 14/01/2026 06:13

are you normally facetious about torturers and rapists? I find only a certain type of person is, but maybe I’m too closed minded. It’s not really something I can have a jolly little lol over, personally.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 14/01/2026 06:13

are you normally facetious about torturers and rapists? I find only a certain type of person is, but maybe I’m too closed minded. It’s not really something I can have a jolly little lol over, personally.

EmmyFr · 14/01/2026 06:14

Just popping in to confirm that to lurkers on this thread such as myself @Kimura stinks of poshy entitlement, arrogance and narcissism. Not everything is about yourself and whatever sticker you want to wear, and a thread about women abused, raped and insulted is not necessarily the place to be facetious when it can be interpreted as supporting abusers and rapists.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 14/01/2026 06:14

But yes, of course you have the “right” to make all the crass, callous comments you want to.

Namelessnelly · 14/01/2026 06:31

Kimura · 14/01/2026 06:11

I was being deliberately facecous. Which I think I've every right to be given that I've had to put up with people on this thread insulting my intelligence, claiming I've said things I've categorically not said, and when I've explained and clarified that multiple times, been told that no, I definitely meant something else.

But I quoted words from your own posts? So are you saying you didn’t say those things?

Kimura · 14/01/2026 06:54

Namelessnelly · 14/01/2026 05:50

But you are. You’re suggesting that women “don’t give the time of day” to these men threatening us because they’re “obviously not serious”. These men are threatening women with rape, violence and death, but according to you they’re just “nutters” we should ignore. These are the same men demanding all spaces are mixed sex. So at what point should women take these threats seriously? What is the number of women who have to be harmed before women should take these threats seriously?

For the millionth time, no, I am not. I've told you repeatedly that I am not.

I've reminded you in the very post you're quoting that the term 'serious people' was used in relation to taking them seriously as a person, a good faith representative of their community, as opposed to someone who's actually the the complete opposite of that.

I've told you repeatedly that I think threats of rape or violence should be taken seriously.

I did not say, or suggest, that "women“ don’t give the time of day” to these men threatening us".

What I said, quite clearly, is that "I certainly wouldn't give anything they've got to say the time of day". This, again, was replying to someone referencing a previous conversation about whether you would think someone who threatened you with rape would have views worth listening to.

I think I've been quite patient with you (and others), but how dare you after all that to tell me I don't actually mean any of what I've said after all?

I'm asking - with kindness - one last time, that you please stop claiming that I've said, meant, suggested, implied, whatever, that women shouldn't take threats of rape and violence seriously. I can't be any clearer about it, and I can only assume that you're doing it maliciously at this point.

Kimura · 14/01/2026 06:55

Namelessnelly · 14/01/2026 06:31

But I quoted words from your own posts? So are you saying you didn’t say those things?

I didn't say that you had done it.

Kimura · 14/01/2026 07:10

EmmyFr · 14/01/2026 06:14

Just popping in to confirm that to lurkers on this thread such as myself @Kimura stinks of poshy entitlement, arrogance and narcissism. Not everything is about yourself and whatever sticker you want to wear, and a thread about women abused, raped and insulted is not necessarily the place to be facetious when it can be interpreted as supporting abusers and rapists.

Kimura stinks of poshy entitlement, arrogance and narcissism

A thread about women abused, raped and insulted is not necessarily the place to be facetious

Thanks for keeping the theme running by popping in purely to insult me.

When it can be interpreted as supporting abusers and rapists.

Only an absolute idiot would interpret it as "supporting abusers and rapists' and I don't particularly care what anyone that stupid thinks.

I've put up with pages of stick, patronising comments, insults and what I can only assume are attempts to wind me up on this thread without biting back, but the second I make a couple of wry remarks I'm the inappropriate one?

Ereshkigalangcleg · 14/01/2026 07:12

Yes, you are. HTH

Ereshkigalangcleg · 14/01/2026 07:14

Why did you “pop in” then? You’re clearly not interested in women’s rights not to be threatened with violence by male trans rights activists?

Namelessnelly · 14/01/2026 07:18

Kimura · 14/01/2026 06:54

For the millionth time, no, I am not. I've told you repeatedly that I am not.

I've reminded you in the very post you're quoting that the term 'serious people' was used in relation to taking them seriously as a person, a good faith representative of their community, as opposed to someone who's actually the the complete opposite of that.

I've told you repeatedly that I think threats of rape or violence should be taken seriously.

I did not say, or suggest, that "women“ don’t give the time of day” to these men threatening us".

What I said, quite clearly, is that "I certainly wouldn't give anything they've got to say the time of day". This, again, was replying to someone referencing a previous conversation about whether you would think someone who threatened you with rape would have views worth listening to.

I think I've been quite patient with you (and others), but how dare you after all that to tell me I don't actually mean any of what I've said after all?

I'm asking - with kindness - one last time, that you please stop claiming that I've said, meant, suggested, implied, whatever, that women shouldn't take threats of rape and violence seriously. I can't be any clearer about it, and I can only assume that you're doing it maliciously at this point.

So men making rape and death threats to women are not “ serious people”? What exactly is a serious person? But if we’re not giving what he says the time of day and ignoring him, surely that would mean ignoring the threats also? So you are telling women to ignore threats aren’t you?

Ereshkigalangcleg · 14/01/2026 07:19

Seriously, who comes on a thread about men masturbating in women’s spaces and handwaves away violent threats from similar men?

Kimura · 14/01/2026 07:25

Ereshkigalangcleg · 14/01/2026 07:14

Why did you “pop in” then? You’re clearly not interested in women’s rights not to be threatened with violence by male trans rights activists?

I popped in to take part in a discussion, and maybe learn something on a topic that I've not had a massive amount of real world experience with.

Is that OK?

I've certainly learned a few things.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 14/01/2026 07:32

Kimura · 11/01/2026 13:43

Insisting that men should have the right to access women's single sex spaces, in the full knowledge that this kind of thing is going on and nothing is being done to stop it, is pretty problematic, no?

Broadly, yes. But while I disagree with them having this particular right, I don't like to start from a position of assuming that everyone fighting for it is primarily driven by a disregard for women's rights/safety, or an active desire to trample upon them.

And I certainly don't believe that when something like this happens, the majority of the community simply shrug it off.

But yes, telling a woman who genuinely fears for her safety in that situation that her rights don't matter is problematic.

I appreciate this is not what you support, but many in the TRA community do. It doesn't say anything positive about their consideration for women, does it?

If they're approaching it from a point of selfishness or with bad intentions, no. But again I don't believe it's fair to assume that's the default. I think it's possible that many do consider the impact on women, but come to a different conclusion.

”telling a woman who genuinely fears for her safety in such a situation that her rights don’t matter is problematic”. Why wouldn’t we “genuinely fear for our safety” when many male members of the “trans community” threaten us with sexual and other violence?

Ereshkigalangcleg · 14/01/2026 07:32

Kimura · 14/01/2026 07:25

I popped in to take part in a discussion, and maybe learn something on a topic that I've not had a massive amount of real world experience with.

Is that OK?

I've certainly learned a few things.

Haven’t we all.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 14/01/2026 07:35

Shall I tell you why else we are “genuinely fearing” for our safety? Most men don’t go around violently threatening women on social media. The ones that do, red flag 🚩 they’re at best antisocial and a bit deranged/unhinged, aren’t they?

as an expert on violence, surely you consider these things @kimura? Have you read “The Gift of Fear”?