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Man who transitioned to female sues expert for discrimination after being told breastfeeding was delusional

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IwantToRetire · 11/11/2025 18:58

A transgender mother who underwent medical treatment to breastfeed her newborn son is suing a breastfeeding expert who publicly dismissed her experience as a 'delusional queer theory take'.

Former Australian Breastfeeding Association volunteer counsellor Jasmine Sussex will face a Queensland tribunal next year over claims she discriminated against Brisbane transgender woman Jennifer Adrian Buckley.

The tribunal will decide if Ms Buckley was discriminated against under the Queensland Anti-Discrimination Act over a series of social media posts by Ms Sussex.

Article continues at https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-15274697/Jennifer-Buckley-Jasmine-Sussex-transgender-breastfeeding.html

NB Use of propouns at those in the article. So any complaints should go straight to the DM!

Mum in legal battle after expert's online comments about breastfeeding

'Mothers and babies deserve better than this', the breastfeeding expert said.

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-15274697/Jennifer-Buckley-Jasmine-Sussex-transgender-breastfeeding.html

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hholiday · 11/11/2025 20:53

I know this isn’t in the UK. But why the hell aren’t social services stepping in and removing babies from any man attempting this? (I mean, I know the answer, but it’s what should be happening).

localnotail · 11/11/2025 20:59

How can this be considered normal, the amount of hormones and quite strong chemicals this baby would have ingested - surely it cant be good for it???

localnotail · 11/11/2025 21:00

Also, this is a fetish, a sexual thing, so how can this be allowed?

Rightsraptor · 11/11/2025 21:21

The endocrinologist says there's no risk to the baby but how can she know?

I feel sorry for Jasmine Sussex who's a volunteer, giving her time to help other women and now she faces this. Nobody's going to be volunteering in Australia if that's where it lands them.

GnomeComforts · 11/11/2025 21:24

Australia seems very captured. I do hope some of our progress will have some effect over there.

Helleofabore · 11/11/2025 21:29

BundleBoogie · 11/11/2025 20:38

This is where I almost wish for a group of moderate trans people to get together and challenge these self indulgent individualists, and say not in my name.

Do we believe that they exist though? They’ve had plenty of years and opportunities to put their case forward.

There has been at least one male person with a transgender identity who has written about this and said, “this is wrong”! Dr Deutsch.

https://www.newscientist.com/article/2161151-transgender-woman-is-first-to-be-able-to-breastfeed-her-baby/?utm_source=rakuten&utm_medium=affiliate&utm_campaign=2116208:Skimlinks.com&utm_content=10&ranMID=47192&ranEAID=TnL5HPStwNw&ranSiteID=TnL5HPStwNw-uOWyW0a0EHFcOxL5MmCf5Q&utm_source=rakuten&utm_medium=affiliate&utm_campaign=2116208:Skimlinks.com&utm_content=10&ranMID=47192&ranEAID=TnL5HPStwNw&ranSiteID=TnL5HPStwNw-eFdm05QNJngWSRNMPW32yA#ixzz6f2Pil0Ik

“However, the woman’s breastmilk has not been assessed yet, so we don’t know if it has the same mix of components as in milk from new gestational mothers. This means the practice cannot yet be recommended, says Madeline Deutsch at the University of California, San Francisco. She says she can see the potential benefits of breastfeeding, but that the long-term impact of this milk on the baby – including on subtle measures like IQ – is unknown.”

“Deutsch herself is a transgender woman with a six-month-old baby who is currently being breastfed by Deutsch’s wife, who was the gestational mother. “I am very sad not to be able to breastfeed her and at the same time I did not consider doing this for the above reasons,” she says.”

I believe Dr Deutsch is a director of clinical services at the Center of Excellence for Transgender Health at the University of California San Francisco.

Transgender woman is first to be able to breastfeed her baby

A step closer for trans women A 30-year-old transgender woman has become the first officially recorded to breastfeed her baby . An experimental three-and-a-half-month treatment regimen, which included hormones, a nausea drug and breast stimulation, ena...

https://www.newscientist.com/article/2161151-transgender-woman-is-first-to-be-able-to-breastfeed-her-baby/?utm_source=rakuten&utm_medium=affiliate&utm_campaign=2116208:Skimlinks.com&utm_content=10&ranMID=47192&ranEAID=TnL5HPStwNw&ranSiteID=TnL5HPStwNw-uOWyW0a0EHFcOxL5MmCf5Q&utm_source=rakuten&utm_medium=affiliate&utm_campaign=2116208:Skimlinks.com&utm_content=10&ranMID=47192&ranEAID=TnL5HPStwNw&ranSiteID=TnL5HPStwNw-eFdm05QNJngWSRNMPW32yA#ixzz6f2Pil0Ik

OpheliaWitchoftheWoods · 11/11/2025 21:32

Jammington · 11/11/2025 19:22

'To know I could breastfeed my own child and have that experience, I wanted to be a part of that. I wanted to know what it was like to be a mum and breastfeed.'

I. I. I. Me. Me. Me.

The first hour of their child's life and the focus is on using that child for a validation experience.

centaury · 11/11/2025 21:33

Honestly the stuff about drugs and hormones and nutrition is just a side-argument, if not irrelevant.

First and foremost, even if this man was able to produce more than a drop of milk that was indistinguishable from the mother's, it would still be depraved.

Mothers nursing their children is good and wholesome and about the bond as much as it is about feeding. A man trying to do the same is sick. Imagine growing up and finding out your dad had used you like that? He took pictures of it in the hospital? Nauseating.

lostintranslation148 · 11/11/2025 21:37

male has described how 'breastfeeding' her baby an hour after her wife gave birth to the boy helped affirm her as a woman

This is all it boils down to isn't it. His affirmation. Grim.

Joeninety · 11/11/2025 21:38

Don't quite follow. Is he a woman or is she a man ?

Helleofabore · 11/11/2025 21:45

hholiday · 11/11/2025 20:53

I know this isn’t in the UK. But why the hell aren’t social services stepping in and removing babies from any man attempting this? (I mean, I know the answer, but it’s what should be happening).

Sadly the UK services wouldn’t either.

Remember this?

https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/womens_rights/5010993-trans-women-feeding-chemical-ridden-milk-to-babies-approved-by-nhs?page=1

And I believe that when reporting this, the BBC got a gender studies professor to come on as an ‘expert’ and affirm that the milk was just like the mother’s milk. That was the BBC’s idea of expertise and a balanced article.

Trans women feeding chemical ridden milk to babies - approved by NHS | Mumsnet

Are people aware of this? This has gone too far. Throwing women and children under a bus is one thing. Now babies. [[https://www.dailymail.co.uk/new...

https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/womens_rights/5010993-trans-women-feeding-chemical-ridden-milk-to-babies-approved-by-nhs?page=1

Helleofabore · 11/11/2025 21:48

https://x.com/amandavos7/status/1987621416003637473?s=12

The Australian understands that at least 20 transwomen are known to have breastfed in Australia, and others have undergone drug therapy to lactate

There is an archive link in this tweet.

Amanda Vos (@AmandaVos7) on X

The Australian understands that at least 20 transwomen are known to have breastfed in Australia, and others have undergone drug therapy to lactate. https://t.co/OL46RMtSP7

https://x.com/amandavos7/status/1987621416003637473?s=12

Tiredofwhataboutery · 11/11/2025 21:53

It’s completely grim, I dread to think of the chemical filled “discharge” that poor baby ingested.

Helleofabore · 11/11/2025 21:55

hholiday · 11/11/2025 20:53

I know this isn’t in the UK. But why the hell aren’t social services stepping in and removing babies from any man attempting this? (I mean, I know the answer, but it’s what should be happening).

The UK had this one hit the headlines too in 2023.

https://reduxx.info/uk-man-who-calls-himself-a-mother-admits-to-breastfeeding-his-child-dismisses-concerns-as-anti-trans-hate/

”A trans-identified male who was profiled as a struggling “mother” in a recent ITVNews video on soaring water bills in the UK is now defending himself amidst backlash for “breastfeeding” a baby. Mika Minio-Paluello, a man who identifies as a woman, is calling criticism of transgender breastfeeding “anti-trans hate.”

This is the one who also reported stopping only because he then needed cancer treatment.

UK: Man Who Calls Himself a “Mother” Admits to “Breastfeeding” His Child, Dismisses Concerns as “Anti-Trans Hate” - Reduxx

A trans-identified male who was profiled as a struggling “mother” in a recent ITV News video on soaring water bills in the UK is now defending himself amidst backlash for “breastfeeding” a baby. Mika Minio-Paluello, a man who identifies as a woman, is...

https://reduxx.info/uk-man-who-calls-himself-a-mother-admits-to-breastfeeding-his-child-dismisses-concerns-as-anti-trans-hate/

Teathecolourofcreosote · 11/11/2025 21:55

I'm assuming that in lesbian partnerships the birthing mother feeds the child because the drugs that would be needed to induce lactation in the other would be unwise?

Just wondering what happened to the non special class of (real) same sex partnerships.

I'll bet no one panders to this class of (ordinary) women with nonsense like this.

CatchHimDerry · 11/11/2025 21:56

No words for how depraved this is. Poor baby

Teathecolourofcreosote · 11/11/2025 21:58

lostintranslation148 · 11/11/2025 21:37

male has described how 'breastfeeding' her baby an hour after her wife gave birth to the boy helped affirm her as a woman

This is all it boils down to isn't it. His affirmation. Grim.

An hour after birth when the baby should be getting the colostrum and all the anti bodies and instead you prioritise your own feelings.

I don't understand how anyone can think this isn't utter madness.

BundleBoogie · 11/11/2025 22:05

Helleofabore · 11/11/2025 21:45

Sadly the UK services wouldn’t either.

Remember this?

https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/womens_rights/5010993-trans-women-feeding-chemical-ridden-milk-to-babies-approved-by-nhs?page=1

And I believe that when reporting this, the BBC got a gender studies professor to come on as an ‘expert’ and affirm that the milk was just like the mother’s milk. That was the BBC’s idea of expertise and a balanced article.

Yes that’s an interesting version of ‘balance’ by the BBC - a gender studies bod commenting on a medical issue affecting children.

TomatoSandwiches · 11/11/2025 22:14

There have been and still are cases of biological women giving birth, struggling to BF and are REFUSED any hormonal help to support lactating, yet this pervert is allowed to abuse this newborn to facilitate his percieved conformation on a hospital ward in front of everyone else.

Perverse.

Datun · 11/11/2025 22:16

Joeninety · 11/11/2025 21:38

Don't quite follow. Is he a woman or is she a man ?

He is a man

Datun · 11/11/2025 22:16

I hope this case gives a platform to expose lactation fetishists.

I'd love to see all the stories on Reddit read out in court

I take it this a different man to the one who said putting his nipple in his baby's mouth was more exciting than anything a lover had ever done to him?

BluntPlumHam · 11/11/2025 22:20

I am so confused how this is allowed? Has the product that came from the individual’s breast been treated? Do we know it’s safe for the baby or not?

Teathecolourofcreosote · 11/11/2025 22:24

BluntPlumHam · 11/11/2025 22:20

I am so confused how this is allowed? Has the product that came from the individual’s breast been treated? Do we know it’s safe for the baby or not?

You are not confused. You are sane.

The usual approach is that nothing is safe for pregnant or breastfeeding women because it cannot be adequately tested.

You can't use bonjella for a mouth ulcer or drink a glass of wine but this is fine.

You can't make it make sense because it doesn't.

Helleofabore · 11/11/2025 22:25

Teathecolourofcreosote · 11/11/2025 21:55

I'm assuming that in lesbian partnerships the birthing mother feeds the child because the drugs that would be needed to induce lactation in the other would be unwise?

Just wondering what happened to the non special class of (real) same sex partnerships.

I'll bet no one panders to this class of (ordinary) women with nonsense like this.

Another woman though at least doesn’t have male levels of hormones or suppressants and a range of other drugs that no one knows will cause issues for the infant.

orangewasp · 11/11/2025 22:25

There's a name for men who want children to suck their nipples and it's not 'breastfeeding mother'.

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