Am catching up with this thread but thought you would appreciate an ironically timing event that happened to me this week! I posted earlier i couldn’t help with Knotty’s thread as I am in hospital (and also lack the brain power atm) and the other night a man attempted to enter my hospital room! I am in a side room and luckily he only got as far as just through the doorway before security staff dragged him out, another irony is that these were external security sitting outside my room who happened to be there with another patient! I got as far as a “WHAT THE FUCK” and then they had hold of him but it was scary. scary how inarticulate i was as it was an automatic involvuntory reaction rather than a reasonable response like screaming for help. I had a call button attached to me but didnt have the response speed quick enough to press it and was also wired up to a load of machines restricting my movement. it’s also hard to tell how much of my crap reaction was normal “shock” and how much was due to crap cognitive function and physical disabilities! the main “luck” was that the security guards happened to be there. it was an example of how vulnerable women are in hospital.
I don’t want to be outing about the type of I was on but it’s niche so mixed sex but bay rooms are single sex (well probably single “gender”
) and there may well have been no “ill intent” behind the man’s actions,and the way the security staff handled him indicated that there probably wasn’t - it’s hard to explain esp. not wanting to be outing, or speculate on others cognitive functions. if that makes sense. Anyway it’s just really relevant atm so I thought I’d post about it.it also really illustrates (right word?) the reasons why impact on others shld be part of risk assessments - not just women’s safety but disabled women who are even more vulnerable. It made me realise how much the type of ward really also has an huge impact on this risk. there are so many variables from a male doctor pretending he is a woman, to a male patient with lack of capacity to a male patient with ill intent etc etc. hope all this makes enough sense as I’m struggling a bit atm, I’ll also post this on Knottys thread.
I’ll decide what to do about my event as it definitely needs raising to the trust,DH will help me draft something when im up to it. just happens to be extremely timely.