I think you could be onto something.
There is absolutely no doubt that some people are so ideologically driven, they genuinely fail to see how they appear to others.
Look at those awful women happy to call that baby a bigot. Willoughby telling women he'll go out of his way to avoid the gender neutral toilets just so he can barge into the women's. Sending rapists to women's prisoners. Lia Thomas.
All of them absolutely certain of their righteousness, and all of them hopeless misogynists who appear mad to most people.
I think one of the reasons there's been a tipping point, and it's been coming for a while, is just critical mass.
There have definitely been people who disagree profoundly with this ideology, but were too afraid to say anything. They've built up a head of steam that is now erupting.
There are obviously many more who are still afraid. Almost all the nurses, I should imagine. but as posters keep saying, the boy is yelling the emperor is naked, and people are, tentatively, after checking left and right, starting to agree out loud.
I bet it's one hell of a shock to those who still don't get it.