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The “women’s march” that’s all about the men.

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BackToLurk · 11/12/2024 13:24

I couldn’t see a thread about this, but I’m just here to share how annoying it is to see a so-called women’s march so concerned with placating men. This is the march in January.

As well as the highly predictable “this is for all women” (meaning including the ones who are men) and the ‘we don’t tolerate transphobia’ (meaning any concept of sex-based oppression), the Facebook group is full of posts reassuring men that of course they’re welcome and it’s not all men and obviously “not my Nigel”. It’s infuriating. Why do people do this?

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Ereshkigalangcleg · 14/01/2025 23:46

Sorry meant to quote you @SoOpenMindedBrainsFellOut

BettyBooper · 15/01/2025 00:16

Er what exactly do they think a DBS is for? You don't even need to get one for SJB... His offences are all over the news!

Thick as mince.

Livinginaclock · 15/01/2025 00:32

At this point they'd have welcomed Jimmy Saville if he'd put on a dress and dyed his hair blue.

Seriestwo · 15/01/2025 01:01

These women have been putting details of their travel plans, disabilities, children and actual fucking phone numbers on the chat for violent criminals to see.@ It would be funny if it wasn’t so scary.

ArabellaScott · 15/01/2025 07:23

SoOpenMindedBrainsFellOut · 14/01/2025 23:21

It honestly makes me feel unwell a lot of them also are in positions where they are the first point of contact for extremely vulnerable women. Like the one who works at Women's aid who linked with a bloke and another woman to bully & slander an older lady. Their conduct is unhinged- the thought of a woman who has plucked up the courage to ask for help fleeing asking a question like "is the refuge women only?" Fills me with dread. There is nothing to suggest they could behave impartially or would even try to. The women's aid lady proudly stated "I have to be nice here because of my job" whilst proceeding to mock and rip apart an individual with a young lads help... If that's her idea of nice 😬😬😬

Yes, that's crossed a line. Unacceptable.

My first thought is always to assume Hanlon's razor, but sometimes one has to remember that malicious people with personality disorders seek out positions of power for a reason.

SoOpenMindedBrainsFellOut · 15/01/2025 07:24

Some are slowly peaking. This woman has just written this. Along shall come a TRA any moment to tell her off not to worry!

The “women’s march” that’s all about the men.
ArabellaScott · 15/01/2025 07:26

Ereshkigalangcleg · 14/01/2025 23:45

It honestly makes me feel unwell a lot of them also are in positions where they are the first point of contact for extremely vulnerable women.

It doesn't surprise me. Bullies gravitate towards these roles.

As ever you said it first and more succinctly!

I really hope there is a robust police presence and that the police keep an eye on SJB. But I suppose the problems aren't just on the march itself, these people are setting up networks mixing the vulnerable with the dangerous.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 15/01/2025 10:31

I really hope there is a robust police presence and that the police keep an eye on SJB. But I suppose the problems aren't just on the march itself, these people are setting up networks mixing the vulnerable with the dangerous.

Definitely. Like the "trans kids" group.

ArabellaScott · 15/01/2025 11:11

A transwoman in the comments on this one calls for feminists to 'eradicate the terfs'. (He also says that he was punched and pushed out of the march, which seems odd as it's three days until the marches happen).

https://www.tiktok.com/@boowitchy/video/7459541929320058144

This is him.

His channel description: 'Amateur Model on PornHub | Gamer | Musician | Striving to break stigmas and create open minds.'

His 'dysphoria' appears to compel him to post a lot of pics of himself on Insta, in underwear, fetish gear, and maid outfits. And sometimes with knives. Which I'll not link to.

I hope women attending these marches understand what it is they're marching for.

The “women’s march” that’s all about the men.
UrsulasHerbBag · 15/01/2025 11:36

@ArabellaScott Why can’t they ever make their grubby beds before posting pictures of themselves?

Joking aside the whole thing is upsetting and worrying. To kick vulnerable women in the teeth just to grovel at the feet of a violent angry man? How can they not see what they are championing in the name of liberal inclusivity? How can they not see?

SoOpenMindedBrainsFellOut · 15/01/2025 12:09

ArabellaScott · 15/01/2025 11:11

A transwoman in the comments on this one calls for feminists to 'eradicate the terfs'. (He also says that he was punched and pushed out of the march, which seems odd as it's three days until the marches happen).

https://www.tiktok.com/@boowitchy/video/7459541929320058144

This is him.

His channel description: 'Amateur Model on PornHub | Gamer | Musician | Striving to break stigmas and create open minds.'

His 'dysphoria' appears to compel him to post a lot of pics of himself on Insta, in underwear, fetish gear, and maid outfits. And sometimes with knives. Which I'll not link to.

I hope women attending these marches understand what it is they're marching for.

Wow. He literally just told everyone he was anxious and scared to go out, and said he felt unsafe and that he would have to leave the group and not attend. Women were talking about being victims of abuse and he made it all about him.

A couple of women dared to stand up and say something and amazingly they haven't been kicked out yet. Nobody will answer the questions and one woman has called it transphobic. They have said the valid questions asked are "bickering". Admins are saying we can't stop who attends and to stop talking about it. A woman questioning the centering or men has been accused of racism for using the world lynch mob. Classic deflection.

That violent man above said the toilet sign was mentioned because if it wasn't mentioned it could push people away and it's important to clarify things. When someone said surely the same should be done for violent people it was called transphobic.

I feel sorry for some of the girls and women going I really do. This march has been picked up by Andy NGO and it's being ridiculed (not for this reason tho). I can only imagine watching women fawn over SJB will peak quite a few so hoping it does go ahead.

SoOpenMindedBrainsFellOut · 15/01/2025 12:14

@ArabellaScott ah sorry I mixed him up with the other one. They look so similar. Well their filters do.

Livinginaclock · 15/01/2025 12:37

Look who's popped up in the chat, they've obviously told him
What a seriously shitty thing to do.

The “women’s march” that’s all about the men.
SoOpenMindedBrainsFellOut · 15/01/2025 12:57

Livinginaclock · 15/01/2025 12:37

Look who's popped up in the chat, they've obviously told him
What a seriously shitty thing to do.

Wow!!!!

TigerLily40 · 15/01/2025 14:04

Livinginaclock · 15/01/2025 12:37

Look who's popped up in the chat, they've obviously told him
What a seriously shitty thing to do.

Unbelievable. What a joke.

SinnerBoy · 15/01/2025 14:21

Do the women saying he's lovely actually realise that he's a highly dangerous sex offender, with history of serious violence?

Ereshkigalangcleg · 15/01/2025 14:25

"Terfs" are worse, @SinnerBoy - we are the enemy to these idiotic women and people who stand up to us, like "Sarah" are the goodies, even if they sexually assault and torture people.

ArabellaScott · 15/01/2025 14:35

"If you're not careful, the newspapers will have you hating the people who are being oppressed, and loving the people who are doing the oppressing."

(for 'newspapers', substitute 'social media')

INeedAPensieve · 15/01/2025 14:42

I'm really shocked by this latest development. Bad enough they were trying to get that cabaret bloke who shouted abuse at women to take part in the Glasgow march (now cancelled), they've now invited into the chat and to the London march a convicted criminal who is a violent, torturing, sexual predator???? What is wrong with these people?!

Livinginaclock · 15/01/2025 14:59

The reply to SJB which has now been removed.

The “women’s march” that’s all about the men.
DerekFaker · 15/01/2025 15:10

I'm absolutely appalled by this.

BackToLurk · 15/01/2025 15:20

Livinginaclock · 15/01/2025 14:59

The reply to SJB which has now been removed.

The removal of this reply is shocking. It's unbelievable that are happy to deny women the information about who is on the march. If they are confident that women will support this, let them make their own minds up.

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ArabellaScott · 15/01/2025 15:33

The bullshit only works if you work hard to keep anyone from asking questions or talking.

Before I knew SJB was attending I thought they'd just be a bunch of people making feminists look a bit daft; I am now genuinely concerned that children/unsuspecting women/vulnerable people may be exposed to harm.

INeedAPensieve · 15/01/2025 15:44

ArabellaScott · 15/01/2025 15:33

The bullshit only works if you work hard to keep anyone from asking questions or talking.

Before I knew SJB was attending I thought they'd just be a bunch of people making feminists look a bit daft; I am now genuinely concerned that children/unsuspecting women/vulnerable people may be exposed to harm.

It's absolutely awful. Vulnerable women and children should not be exposed to this nor put anywhere near someone as violent as SJB.

ArabellaScott · 15/01/2025 16:25

They've removed/banned/blocked anyone who might have warned them about it, so they're leaving themselves open to it with no voices of dissent or caution allowed.

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