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Myalternate · 21/02/2024 09:51

canyouread · 21/02/2024 08:54

Wtf are you and your cronies on about??? I am not equipped to handle this level of paranoia and stupidity. I didn't feel the need to cater to this idiocy earlier, but: a woman born with a vagina who identifies as a woman, who can't lactate at all due to a condition. No matter what you and your cronies say, I think she would maintain she is a woman! And again if she's trans that makes you trans as well by the same random logic.

Your post has really confused me 😵‍💫

A Woman, the biological kind (as there really is no other type ) that has difficulty lactating can be offered drugs under medical supervision that will help.

A Man, the biological kind (as there really is no other type) that has difficulty lactating, should NOT be offered drugs under any circumstances.

A Baby should never, ever, be subjected to experimental trials to appease Men who feel they’re missing out…

Portakalkedi · 21/02/2024 09:54

But to whose babies? Clearly not their own unless a biblical type miracle occurred?

Fizbosshoes · 21/02/2024 10:27

Some women are unable to breast feed for various reasons, many of which can be upsetting. They have to use formula.
Why are TW special any different? Formula is widely available and safe for babies.

The reasons so many medications are not recommended for pregnant women is not because they are known to be harmful, but because its unethical to test on pregnant woman and their unborn baby....but this is ok to try because the baby has now been born... ? Confused

WitchyWitcherson · 21/02/2024 10:27

@canyouread you're spitting so much froth you seem to be unable to read your screen (somewhat ironically given your username).

A PP (and indeed a few of us now) are confused by this comment you made on 19th Feb at 13:16.

Can you clarify what you meant by a "trans man"?

Trans women feeding chemical ridden milk to babies - approved by NHS
ChatBFP · 21/02/2024 10:32

@Myalternate

The point is also that women who are struggling with BF are not generally offered drugs now by the NhS, as it is felt that formula is safer (as a women who was denied drugs). So why males should be given those drugs is baffling.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 21/02/2024 10:34

You're missing the point. You said 'had to take probably the same mass quantity of estrogen and progesterone a trans man would have to have'. A transman is a woman who wants to be a man, they don't take estrogen and progesterone they take testosterone.

This.

Helleofabore · 21/02/2024 10:34

canyouread · 21/02/2024 08:54

Wtf are you and your cronies on about??? I am not equipped to handle this level of paranoia and stupidity. I didn't feel the need to cater to this idiocy earlier, but: a woman born with a vagina who identifies as a woman, who can't lactate at all due to a condition. No matter what you and your cronies say, I think she would maintain she is a woman! And again if she's trans that makes you trans as well by the same random logic.

I suggest you reread your post, and reread Datun’s answer. Because you have just plopped a bonkers post to someone pointing out the error in your original post.

You seem to have some rather deep and entrenched prejudices in this reply about people discussing this issue. You simply now come across as dreadfully misinformed.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 21/02/2024 10:35

Plus these males take "testosterone blockers" and other drugs to make them lactate.

Helleofabore · 21/02/2024 10:35

ChatBFP · 21/02/2024 10:32

@Myalternate

The point is also that women who are struggling with BF are not generally offered drugs now by the NhS, as it is felt that formula is safer (as a women who was denied drugs). So why males should be given those drugs is baffling.

Yes. And at much higher doses than women take !

HootyMcBooby · 21/02/2024 10:40

Ah, I love how we become "cronies".

Women, stop talking you bunch of muppets!

Especially about things that affect you.

WitchyWitcherson · 21/02/2024 10:44

Love a good slice of ad hominem in the morning 😂

"Hello, I just wondered what you meant by this..."

"You're all stupid paranoid idiotic cronies!!! YOU'RE TRANS!!!" 😂

pronounsbundlebundle · 21/02/2024 10:47

ChatBFP · 21/02/2024 10:32

@Myalternate

The point is also that women who are struggling with BF are not generally offered drugs now by the NhS, as it is felt that formula is safer (as a women who was denied drugs). So why males should be given those drugs is baffling.

Wow - I didn't realise this.

How, if it's not safe for these drugs to be given in low quantities for limited periods of time to women who are already lactating is it safe to give them in much higher quantities (and higher concentration as the menz produce less secretions remember) for however long the man wants, presumably?

Ah yes, the evidence free zone of magic trans.

Child abuse, child abuse child abuse.

Who do we complain to about this NHS trust? There must be some kind of regulatory agency who is charged with ensuring medical experimentation isn't carried out on newborns?

ChatBFP · 21/02/2024 10:58

@pronounsbundlebundle @Helleofabore

Yes, I had an allergy baby who would refuse to Bf whilst uncomfortable and had a tongue tie. We never managed to get my supply up optimally and his weight gain wasn't great. After 3 months of cutting things out, high stress, little sleep, lots of pumping to try to boost supply I was on my knees.

My GP did not want to prescribe me domperidone to help me even temporarily with supply issues due to the heart issues that some vulnerable babies develop. She told me that formula, even new fangled allergy formula, had been well tested so that she knew it was safe and she wasn't prepared to take a risk on the drugs. She praised me on trying so hard for 3 months and encouraged me to move on with some supplementation. (My son outgrew his allergy / intolerance and is now a thriving 3 year old).

Mothering is firstly about protecting your child. Above all else. This is what we are trained and primed to do.

borntobequiet · 21/02/2024 11:11

canyouread · 21/02/2024 08:54

Wtf are you and your cronies on about??? I am not equipped to handle this level of paranoia and stupidity. I didn't feel the need to cater to this idiocy earlier, but: a woman born with a vagina who identifies as a woman, who can't lactate at all due to a condition. No matter what you and your cronies say, I think she would maintain she is a woman! And again if she's trans that makes you trans as well by the same random logic.

Do you understand the terms “transman” and “transwoman”? Because it’s not clear that you do.

Helleofabore · 21/02/2024 11:16

borntobequiet · 21/02/2024 11:11

Do you understand the terms “transman” and “transwoman”? Because it’s not clear that you do.

It could be profound embarrassment in getting that very basic fact wrong that made this poster lash out irrationally.

Floisme · 21/02/2024 11:17

Not wanting to kick off another round of the pronoun wars but, on top of everything else, I think this episode shows why clear, unambiguous language and sex based pronouns are so important, especially in journalism.

Datun · 21/02/2024 11:24

canyouread · 21/02/2024 08:54

Wtf are you and your cronies on about??? I am not equipped to handle this level of paranoia and stupidity. I didn't feel the need to cater to this idiocy earlier, but: a woman born with a vagina who identifies as a woman, who can't lactate at all due to a condition. No matter what you and your cronies say, I think she would maintain she is a woman! And again if she's trans that makes you trans as well by the same random logic.

The point is, canyouread, and in fact, it's the entire point, is that we're not talking about women in any way shape or form.

We're talking about men. Born male, with XY chromosomes and a penis.

Men. Not women. Actual, one hundred percent, unequivocally, no doubt about it, male.

It is they who are attempting produce breastmilk.

We're not discussing women attempting to produce it, however they identify.

And if you have misunderstood me, or if I have misunderstood you, then that is the entire fault of the ideology, deliberately obscuring both sex and language.

Unnecessarily calling people hysterical, paranoid and stupid, on the other hand, is entirely down to you.

Datun · 21/02/2024 11:26

RufustheFactualReindeer · 21/02/2024 08:49

And then women are given a hard time if they want something a bit stronger than paracetamol for their massive abdominal surgery after having a c-section

this was me…and i had a root canal with no anesthetic cos i was pregnant

(i wasn’t given a hard time cos i just took what i was given and didn’t question it)

God, that would give me nightmares. And I'm quite stoic in the dentists.

ADoggyDogWorld · 21/02/2024 11:34

Datun.

I remember clearly the moment the penny dropped:
TW are men and TM are women.
I genuinely thought that a TW was a woman who wished she were a man and that a TM was a man who wished he were a woman.

Dittany explained it to me.

whatsitcalledwhen · 21/02/2024 11:34

Wouldn't it be refreshing if @canyouread came back and said oh sorry I see now that I used the phrase trans man when I meant trans woman? Everything becomes an argument in here rather than someone acknowledging they just got something wrong 🤷🏻‍♀️

ADoggyDogWorld · 21/02/2024 11:38

I did feel very foolish, but all the wims here were really kind and patient - after all, they had also had to come to the realisation that the language obfuscation was deliberate.

OneMorePlant · 21/02/2024 11:39

ChatBFP · 21/02/2024 10:58

@pronounsbundlebundle @Helleofabore

Yes, I had an allergy baby who would refuse to Bf whilst uncomfortable and had a tongue tie. We never managed to get my supply up optimally and his weight gain wasn't great. After 3 months of cutting things out, high stress, little sleep, lots of pumping to try to boost supply I was on my knees.

My GP did not want to prescribe me domperidone to help me even temporarily with supply issues due to the heart issues that some vulnerable babies develop. She told me that formula, even new fangled allergy formula, had been well tested so that she knew it was safe and she wasn't prepared to take a risk on the drugs. She praised me on trying so hard for 3 months and encouraged me to move on with some supplementation. (My son outgrew his allergy / intolerance and is now a thriving 3 year old).

Mothering is firstly about protecting your child. Above all else. This is what we are trained and primed to do.

That sounds like a difficult time for you but I'm so glad your child is doing great now :)

Stories like yours are what need to be highlighted every time this nonsense pops up.

The TRA claim they are a marginalized group but they are so powerful even new born infant aren't safe from their insane demands

DontWasteMyTime · 21/02/2024 11:41

lonelywater · 19/02/2024 01:13

every time I think gender woo has reached peak bonkers, I am always, but always, disabused of that notion. The asteroid cannot come soon enough.

The whole world had apparently gone mad. It's not progress, it's encouraging what it actually mental illness.

Heylo · 21/02/2024 11:56

ATerrorofLeftovers · 19/02/2024 17:03

Loving the faux naivety! 👌

Either that, or you’ve been living under a rock for the last six years and are, consequently, oblivious to the vile, bullying tactics of the TRAs and their misogynistic efforts to systematically strip women and children of their rights and safeguards.

Well said. Anyone who isnt aware of the horrendous affect trans women are having on children and women (people withheld male genitalia in jails, social pressure on lesbians to take on these men as sexual partners, the robbery and decimation of women’s sport) is being disingenuous. Thank you for pointing this out @ATerrorofLeftovers

TRAs are terrifying. Stonewall is a Japanese knotweed designed to shut down any opinions to the dogmatic, religious - like chant of TWAW (rubbish and we all know it).

I’ve had enough! It’s vulnerable, working class women who will suffer the most for this.

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Helleofabore · 21/02/2024 12:12

ADoggyDogWorld · 21/02/2024 11:38

I did feel very foolish, but all the wims here were really kind and patient - after all, they had also had to come to the realisation that the language obfuscation was deliberate.

But also Doggy, I can probably guess that you didn't call them hysterical, stupid or paranoid on that thread.