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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Edinburgh Fringe comic spat on and shunned by colleagues as a 'transphobe' for show about women

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JanieAllen · 17/08/2022 13:33

www.scottishdailyexpress.co.uk/news/politics/edinburgh-fringe-comic-spat-shunned-27762754

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Calyx72 · 21/08/2022 11:39

Hugs to you Elaine xxx I had tears of anger for you watching that xxx

PSKeyboardwarrior · 21/08/2022 12:18

The more I'm thinking about it the angrier I'm getting. She works in the bloody NHS as an Applied Psychologist and is threatening me online for saying sex over gender.

An Applied Psychologist who comes out with blanket statements such as 'transwomen aren't harmful', because being trans automatically makes them so. How is that allowed?!

FactsAreNotMean · 21/08/2022 12:33

I think that post shows why many "normal" (by which I mean not already engaged on either side of the debate) women just don't speak. You've got


  • people being called hate groups

  • folk speaking with absolute certainty about the validity of their views

  • complex and intentionally obscuring language

  • phrasing which people don't understand - cis/AFAB etc


Is it any wonder that many people don't engage?

Really making me angry, you should be absolutely furious

EmbarrassingHadrosaurus · 21/08/2022 12:50

The more I'm thinking about it the angrier I'm getting. She works in the bloody NHS as an Applied Psychologist and is threatening me online for saying sex over gender.

Unfortunately, despite Forstater and Bailey, I have no confidence that the NHS would have your back if this were raised as a complaint to HR or as a concern for her patients/clients.

The clash of ideology and [X] rarely ends well if the latter is to be trumped by a sacred caste that can not be challenged in a way that is accepted as normal for all other groups.

PSKeyboardwarrior · 21/08/2022 12:54

It was her naivety and lack of critical thinking that got me and continued 'transphobia' responses to legitimate questions and scenarios. Worrying for a so called Applied Psychologist.

Waitwhat23 · 21/08/2022 12:58

I'm not on EGG but have been told by other sources that the posters holding the line for sanity and reality did excellent work in the face of really determined unpleasantness from a couple of very vocal TRA's. Well done

FrustratedEgg · 21/08/2022 13:05

@PSKeyboardwarrior I don't blame you, I honestly don't understand how anyone in the NHS can believe all this stuff.

EmbarrassingHadrosaurus · 21/08/2022 13:13

FrustratedEgg · 21/08/2022 13:05

@PSKeyboardwarrior I don't blame you, I honestly don't understand how anyone in the NHS can believe all this stuff.

Abusive power structures and asymmetries exist at every level of the NHS.

This is just an easy source of additional bullying, abuse, and the ability to do it while acting as a virtuous Witchfinder General.

TheLassWiADelicateAir · 21/08/2022 13:55

www.spectator.co.uk/article/elaine-miller-is-right-about-women-s-health-

Debbie Hayton article supporting Miller.

museumum · 21/08/2022 16:16

Elaine’s cause is so so so important for anyone born with a vulva, however they identify. I’m furious that it is being derailed by a group of people who are so blinkered and vehement. It makes me want to cry with frustration.

PSKeyboardwarrior · 21/08/2022 16:24

Comments off on both EGG threads now.

endofthelinefinally · 21/08/2022 16:31

One of the biggest complaints currently is that trans health care is so poor. We should be talking about the health needs of young women who go on puberty blockers and cross sex hormones, even before we get to any kind of surgery. These young women will need exactly the kind of care and support that Elaine is talking about. Vaginal atrophy and osteoporosis are both miserable, painful conditions and this needs to be addressed.
I just can't understand why a trained, experienced HCP raising these issues deserves to be vilified and silenced. It must be the case that none of the detractors have actually listened to her talk.

PSKeyboardwarrior · 21/08/2022 16:35

The poster arguing with me hadn't seen the show!

RhannionKPSS · 21/08/2022 16:36

None of them have seen the show, the one who spat on Elanie hasn’t seen it, he probably only heard what he wanted to hear from others, possibly including one of the other “ comedians “ at the Fringe.
They are a shower of bawbags & Aunt Lydias.

WanOvaryKenobi · 21/08/2022 17:17

I went to see the show last night and a Gilded Balloon staff member was harassing the audience as we went in. I've put in a formal complaint and it is currently being looked into.

EmbarrassingHadrosaurus · 21/08/2022 17:28

WanOvaryKenobi · 21/08/2022 17:17

I went to see the show last night and a Gilded Balloon staff member was harassing the audience as we went in. I've put in a formal complaint and it is currently being looked into.

In what way? Telling you off for attending?

WanOvaryKenobi · 21/08/2022 18:04

EmbarrassingHadrosaurus · 21/08/2022 17:28

In what way? Telling you off for attending?

The complaint is still being handled.

Essentially he was going up to middle-aged women (particularly gender non conforming women), asking them if they were seeing the show, then rolling his eyes if they confirmed. So directly going for anyone he thought was attending based on their sex, age, and gender presentation in an attempt to publicly shame them.

Then he said the show was transphobic because anyone can buy a vagina, and then implied all a vagina needs to do is be capable of taking a dick.

applesandpears33 · 21/08/2022 18:14

That is awful. I hope your complaint is handled quickly and they don't wait until the Festival has ended.

WeeTorag · 21/08/2022 18:23

I've got tickets for next Sunday 28th!! Travelling up from London, Elaine is worth it! And if any snivelling TRAs get in my way, they'll be getting a "Glesga Kiss"!

WanOvaryKenobi · 21/08/2022 18:24

applesandpears33 · 21/08/2022 18:14

That is awful. I hope your complaint is handled quickly and they don't wait until the Festival has ended.

I will hear back within 24 hours, the complaint has been escalated to senior staff.

I will update when I hear back.

RhannionKPSS · 21/08/2022 18:26

Please do update us.

WanOvaryKenobi · 21/08/2022 18:38

I'm in touch with Elaine too now.

What an incredible woman.

Will let you know as soon as I do.

Bindayagain · 21/08/2022 19:49

That's just crazy. I didn't see that staff member last night thankfully. I was worried a couple of times when people walked out of the show, but they both came back - a toilet break rather than a walk out, I assume! No venue should take your money and then have their own staff telling you off for the show you are seeing Angry

WanOvaryKenobi · 21/08/2022 19:57

Bindayagain · 21/08/2022 19:49

That's just crazy. I didn't see that staff member last night thankfully. I was worried a couple of times when people walked out of the show, but they both came back - a toilet break rather than a walk out, I assume! No venue should take your money and then have their own staff telling you off for the show you are seeing Angry

I wonder if we chatted after!

TheLassWiADelicateAir · 21/08/2022 20:47

That's appalling behaviour from the member of staff and Gilded Balloon management should support the performers who have paid for performance space.

I won't be going to see this show. I don't like stand up in general and this is particularly not my thing. The title is dreadful.

Viva Your Vulva: The Hole Story