Elaine, I'm sure you're not seeing this thread as you've got other things going on, but just adding another mumsnetter's support here, for what it's worth.
You are a champion for women's pelvic floors and the hidden and often unspoken issues that many women experience throughout their lives at different stages.
You've put yourself out there, both on other platforms and in with humour face-to-face at the fringe.
It's so evident from your previous work how much you care and are concerned for all women, including those young women, who will experience specific gynae issues due to identifying as trans, through both medication and surgery.
And from that article: "Going above and beyond the call of comic duty, Ms Miller said she invites audience members to chat with her at the bar after the show if they have any issues with the performance."
So many of us wish to have these conversations too. We're all open minded, empathetic, caring and willing to listen.
"On only two occasions have festival goers taken her up on the offer and she says both times they have found more common ground than disagreement. However, more and more comedians are being de-platformed in mainstream events."
What a phenomenal woman you are.