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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Something old, something new, something BlueStocking

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ErrolTheDragon · 27/08/2021 18:14

... no borrowed thread title this time, but a welcome to friends old and new.

The old pub was thataway

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/womens_rights/4280319-still-blue-still-stocking-the-bluestocking-remains-open-in-2021

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DetroitNeedsADog · 03/09/2021 02:38

Nowhere for the tension rod to go - Glass is almost flush to the wall, if that makes sense? Ancient building - well ancient for the USA. Early 1900s.

ablutiions · 03/09/2021 09:33

Can you try stick on Velcro?

catzwhiskas · 03/09/2021 13:47

Hello all, can someone tell me if a thread about mixed sex toilets in schools has gone? I’m sure I saw it yesterday...

DetroitNeedsADog · 03/09/2021 18:03

Gel clings from the dollar shop, I am going to pave it in hummingbirds or something. Or that sticky plastic which makes it opaque.
Mixed sex toilets in schools! Furious.

catzwhiskas · 03/09/2021 19:01

Thanks mirth yes I couldn’t remember the title! So hard to keep up. Yes detroit furious indeed

ErrolTheDragon · 03/09/2021 19:21

A translucent obscuring film and then the hummingbirds (if they'll stick to it) and/or pot plants houseplants in front to break it up visually (if there's a window sill inside) maybe?

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DetroitNeedsADog · 03/09/2021 22:30

There is no window sill in the kitchen. I don't want to bore you with my window dressing troubles. What lovely problems to have! The kitchen looks out onto the fire escape, with a sheer drop. No one can see in unless they are in the building and on the fire escape. Gel clings and some film will do. There is no kitchen door - it is open plan into the living room, so you can see into my living room. Might get some of those Japanese hanging curtains and a tension pole over that doorway so my living room isn't visible from the kitchen window.

On the plus side, I can get some used curtains in the right length, a lamp and bedframe from the permanent flea market. Very nice woman there is going to put them aside until I can get up there.

DetroitNeedsADog · 03/09/2021 22:31

Anyone have any clue how to fix venetian blinds? My bathroom ones are sagging at the top iykwim. I have a bathroom!

ErrolTheDragon · 03/09/2021 23:16

After your many trials and tribulations I'm bloody loving the normality of discussing windows etc.

The venitian blind diagnosis would probably require diagrams and experiments pulling different bits of its strings.

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DetroitNeedsADog · 04/09/2021 00:06

I can manage photos and experiments...but really really...terribly boring for bluestocking pub talk! The saggage is worsening. I have almost scrubbed the black dirt out of the crevices of the textured glass...but please promise not to judge on the state of that glass! I spent an hour trying to get what looks like paint off the inside of the window!

Aparallaxia · 04/09/2021 00:50

Quentin '
Feminism caused me and DP to have a lively chat about philosophy today, off the back of the "Right to sex" thread. He has a philosophy degree and I'm a scientist. Apparently philosophers are just driven to publish their ideas but don't expect people to read or understand them.'

There are only two departments in any university: the Department of Philosophy, and the Department of Unwarranted Assertions. Wink

Hello Detroit! Wonderful you are finally home (and dry). Congratulations. Never mind exploding lampshades or broken blinds. Such things are normal. We have broken doors that ought to hide the washing machine and tumble dryer but don't because they have been broken since, er, 2015. The door to DH's bathroom doesn't close properly. The loo paper holder fell out of the wall in the upstairs bathroom shortly after said holder was installed in 2009 and it is still lying on the floor. And so on. These things are all part of life's rich tapestry.

Well, maybe not the exploding lampshade... I draw the line at exploding lampshades.

Do you have your dog yet?

Aparallaxia · 04/09/2021 00:55

Detroit
'Im wearing my new sushi socks in honor of the occasion...'

What about fish-net stockings as well? >>groan

DetroitNeedsADog · 04/09/2021 17:44

I will have to get some fishnets to wear over the sushi socks! Lol! I am wearing my giraffe socks today. I am very fond of cool socks nowadays. It is like my luxury.
No dog yet! I have to find a day when I can get up to the shelter and meet some. I also have to get 'emotional support animal' certificate for the landlord. It might be out of my reach, but I am going to try.

I am enjoying living in an apartment ..its just ...lovely

Turned · 04/09/2021 21:21

I am so happy for you, Detroit. Enjoy your new home. Thank you for the tips on the song. I found two versions on ultimate guitar and am working with the Phoebe Bridgers one, with capo on the first fret. I might have to set up a playlist.
Meanwhile, back at the Bluestocking, I'd like a beer please. Maybe something snacklike involving pastry or bread. Hmmm. Camping in the garden tonight so I'll be in early in the morning with coffee and toast.

TofuDelights · 04/09/2021 21:30

It's Saturday night in the pub, so what better to do than pop in with some salty snacks and some funky socks? These are for Detroit, just for fun!

TofuDelights · 04/09/2021 21:31

Cosy socks

Something old, something new, something BlueStocking
TofuDelights · 04/09/2021 21:32

Budgie socks

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TofuDelights · 04/09/2021 21:32

Freaky socks

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DetroitNeedsADog · 04/09/2021 21:40

I just got told off! A friend sent the housing worker some flowers. I had nothing to do with it. Just received very snotty email informing me she is not allowed gifts from clients. ..urg...

I like socks...digging the budgie ones. I've got my camping koala memoi ones one. Very cute.

Have you got SoundCloud, Turned? Dare I record it and post it?

Turned · 05/09/2021 08:04

I have sourdough and whole meal breads for toasting, tea and coffee on, butter, spreads and jams. Any requests?

Detroit, If there’s a way you can safely upload that would be great. I’m going to set up soundcloud right now.

What a shame for your friend. Why can’t people just say “thank you”? Perhaps you should offer to take the flowers 😀

Turned · 05/09/2021 08:26

Just got into my long idle Soundcloud and discovered a whole bunch of songs from my dd when she was preschool age. 😍 Grin

GrumpyMiddleAgedWoman · 05/09/2021 19:46

If anyone fancies any Tanqueray Sevilla there is a big bottle on the bar.

It is amazing with grapefruit tonic.

DetroitNeedsADog · 05/09/2021 21:43

Cute, turned! ..You are one heck of a sax player!

mmmm...gin...

GrumpyMiddleAgedWoman · 06/09/2021 11:56

YCAWS.
It's my new acronym. I'm honestly amazed that it's not in common currency.

Free slice of cake for the first person to work it out.