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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Something old, something new, something BlueStocking

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ErrolTheDragon · 27/08/2021 18:14

... no borrowed thread title this time, but a welcome to friends old and new.

The old pub was thataway

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/womens_rights/4280319-still-blue-still-stocking-the-bluestocking-remains-open-in-2021

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DetroitNeedsADog · 18/01/2022 18:13

As soon as I make enough money to buy a round I'll be sure to donate a bottle to the bar.

So glad you are enjoying my blog, so nice to hear good feedback!

Slothtoes · 18/01/2022 19:19

Cheers to you Detroit and all in here. Been a long day. Can I have an aperol spritz and a packet of peanuts please because I can’t be arsed to cook anything.

ErrolTheDragon · 18/01/2022 19:38

Yes, but it's not a very balanced diet... sure you don't want to add some crisps and an orange juice?Grin

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Slothtoes · 18/01/2022 19:40

Well if you insist. Thank you. It will balance out the leftover mince pies Smile

ErrolTheDragon · 18/01/2022 19:48

How the heck have any mince pies survived this long?Confused still, a few of those will sort out one of your 5 a day.

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Grumpyosaurus · 18/01/2022 21:43

@Olderbadger1

I rather suspect the camel is an informer... do we know who introduced him/her? And hello Detroit and Goats! Happy 2022 to you. What'll it be?
The camel arrived crumpled in a pocket in an earlier thread, I think, identifying as a cigarette.

Anyone fancy some Christmas cake? Heavily brandied (to the point that DH complained that it was 'soggy', the ungrateful bastard).

I've missed coming in here for a swift half.

And @DetroitNeedsADog, can you pm me a blog link please?

Olderbadger1 · 18/01/2022 22:30

Hello Grumpy! Not convinced by your camel explanation... might you know more about this than you are letting on? But yes please to soggy Christmas cake - it's absolutely the best sort. And perfect with a small sherry...

ErrolTheDragon · 18/01/2022 22:37

I'd love some soggy Xmas cake too, please.

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DetroitNeedsADog · 19/01/2022 08:11

Oh in so upset .because we have no laundry in the building I pay once a month for it to be done via a service . It just came back every single item of clothing I own has been shrunk, and my kid's too. Everything. Not one item wearable. I'm devastated. I can't replace them. I now have two shirts, he has one, and I have no way of replacing them. I'm in tears.

DetroitNeedsADog · 19/01/2022 08:12

Can't cope. really can't cope.

DetroitNeedsADog · 19/01/2022 08:20

All our jeans unwearable. All our tee shirts.everything.

DetroitNeedsADog · 19/01/2022 08:22

He tries are skin tight and by his belly button. Everything. Mine are all tiny, my jeans are too short and too small. Can't get them past my knees. I'm devastated

ErrolTheDragon · 19/01/2022 08:55

Omg, that's awful. Can you get some compensation from the laundry service at least so you can get a few replacements?

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DetroitNeedsADog · 19/01/2022 09:16

I've sent them an email. I now have a collection of skin tight crop tops. I hope they do, but it's me, eh. I never get treated like a human being. I feel so bad, I've left him with hardly any clothes. I'm used to not having a change of clothes. I've built stuff up over a year. It's devastated.

DetroitNeedsADog · 19/01/2022 09:18

I'll call them when they open tomorrow.. I'll at least complain. Compensation and treated well is not for people like me.

DetroitNeedsADog · 19/01/2022 09:19

It's not just tight, everything is too short . Oh my fuck! How could they do that!

DetroitNeedsADog · 19/01/2022 09:25

I'll be ok. Sorry. Just upset. It's fine.

ErrolTheDragon · 19/01/2022 10:30

Don't apologise, of course you're upset, it's not fine by any stretch of the imagination. I'm sure you will be fine, because you're tough, but it's a significant problem that you really shouldn't be having to deal with.

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DetroitNeedsADog · 19/01/2022 10:56

Thank you for being kind,Errol. I have one pair of jeans, kiddo has two. He failed to put his cargo pants in the wash... hilariously I told him off for not putting them in. How could they take so little care? I've used them before. It was a luxury to have clean clothes. I hand washed everything in the shelter, it was not possible there to wash stuff. I felt like less of a shit human for having clean clothes and kiddo in clean clothes. Now I've fucked everything up. Again.

DetroitNeedsADog · 19/01/2022 10:59

We will be ok. I'll talk to the women's shelter at our Friday meeting. They should come up with some used stuff. It makes me upset because for the first time in forever I had tees and jeans that had never been used by someone else. Kiddo could hold his head up. But it's fine. Really. Sorry for complaining. Maybe the laundry will compensate, but to be frank, I doubt it. Maybe if I was someone different.

ThePrionOne · 19/01/2022 12:21

That’s rubbish Detroit. I hope you get compensation.

I would be interested in reading your blog if you were okay with sending me a link. We haven’t interacted a lot, but I’ve seen you around and would like to know more.

TofuDelights · 19/01/2022 14:10

I think (think!!) I have managed to sign up to your Patreon Detroit, so that's hopefully a bit more support for you. Highly recommend Detroit's blog everyone, loads of articles to read and incredibly powerful writing. As you would probably expect!!

Olderbadger1 · 19/01/2022 14:29

I second Tofu's recommendation. Detroit's blog is knockout. As are you Detroit. Really sorry about the clothes. Hope you can pop in here this evening (PJs are fine) and I can buy you a commiseration orange juice.

DetroitNeedsADog · 19/01/2022 16:19

I wonder if mumsnet would let me post a link to my blog?

Morning....thank you for the sympathy. I'm wondering if I can chop the picture off the front of my Dylan shirt and sew it onto a cheap plain tee....maybe fabric bond shit?

Thank you for the sympathy....it totally sucks. I've like two unshrunk shirts and one pair of jeans. They must have boiled everything and put on a fast hot dry. Even my undies are shrunk. It's ridiculous.
Just woke up. Not bastard crows waking me up nowadays, more trash collection and noisy street sounds.

Tripped over my little bed desk late last night and banged myself up. I'm going to be very careful today I think...

DetroitNeedsADog · 19/01/2022 16:20

Tofu...sent you a pm...thank you so very much!

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