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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Something old, something new, something BlueStocking

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ErrolTheDragon · 27/08/2021 18:14

... no borrowed thread title this time, but a welcome to friends old and new.

The old pub was thataway

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/womens_rights/4280319-still-blue-still-stocking-the-bluestocking-remains-open-in-2021

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RufustheBadgeringReindeer · 16/09/2021 12:52
MonsignorMirth · 16/09/2021 13:02

Feel free to share my crisps, quentin

ErrolTheDragon · 16/09/2021 14:07
Gin
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QuentinBunbury · 16/09/2021 14:35

Thanks all. It was a training course where a man started on about wokeness in a really tone deaf/offensive way.
I hate that the likes of piers Morgan/Katy Hopkins etc have made it so these people feel like their views are totally acceptable to air in work.
Don't want to say more because it's work, company handled it well, but I'm just in despair at the world Sad

GrumpyMiddleAgedWoman · 16/09/2021 17:04

It's so hard to tread a middle path in anything at the moment (I was about to type 'these days' like a proper fogey, but I live in hope that sanity will return).

If the Left won't speak up for more moderate voices, then only the Right-wing ones get heard, so it makes it easy to paint anyone not into the woke 100% as a raging fascist. Plus it makes it harder to voice the more moderate position as you have to explain everything.

SelfPortraitWithEels · 16/09/2021 17:17

Gin to you all. It's early but I've done more than my fair share of parenting this week, sent in some work before a deadline and got through The Transgender Issue without banging my head against a wall (although my notes in the margin got more, ahem, irritable as I approached the end). Now for Julie Bindel as a palate cleanser...

Ah, crisps. Grin

QuentinBunbury · 16/09/2021 17:32

Ha! No it was the opposite- man basically saying we are all too woke and should have free rein for sexist/racist dog whistles at work
I was Shock Shock

QuentinBunbury · 16/09/2021 17:35

Reminded me of this
www.facebook.com/845933925525600/posts/4284228725029419/

GrumpyMiddleAgedWoman · 20/09/2021 22:30

Dusting off the bar to celebrate a belter of a Woman's Hour on R4 today. Emma Barnett really got stuck in.

Free doubles on me.

SpringCrocus · 20/09/2021 22:42

Wasn't it great!

GrumpyMiddleAgedWoman · 21/09/2021 06:03

Wasn't it just.

For anybody who hasn't heard it yet, get yourself onto BBC Sounds, R4, yesterday, between 10 and 10.15.

ErrolTheDragon · 21/09/2021 17:53

I'm on my hols so haven't been listening to anything. But I'll raise a Brew with you anyway.

I'm sitting outside our holiday cottage, next to an orchard with ripe apples and seven rather peaceful alpacas. It's very much as I've imagined the Bluestocking's paddock to look like, though that would of course have donkeys, goats and the camel too.

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GrumpyMiddleAgedWoman · 22/09/2021 20:12

You are on hols?
I am envious. I was up just after 6 today to walk the dogs before going to work...

Plus I am on the wagon till the Christmas parties start, or I get invited out, so I can't even drown my sorrows.

Watch out for the alpacas though. They are spitty little bastards

DetroitNeedsADog · 24/09/2021 15:07

(nods sagely) an alpaca tried to bite me at a farm once...

Hello. I have rather nice brand new donated furniture arriving today...I won't bore you with all of it...but here's the sofa...

www.article.com/product/1473/ceni-seagrass-green-loveseat

DetroitNeedsADog · 24/09/2021 15:10

...same company..also mara marble coffee table and a mystery side table from the same place that I said yes to because it's all nice...
Company donated furniture returned or not required ...

Furniture!!! Me!!!!

MrsOvertonsWindow · 24/09/2021 16:14

That is a great sofa Detroit. How's the settling in going?

DetroitNeedsADog · 24/09/2021 16:23

It's hard. I feel guilty about being inside. I'm missing people who should have made it through too. I had a bad bang round the head a couple of days ago. A delivery driver slammed door on my head and knocked me out

DetroitNeedsADog · 24/09/2021 16:24

It might not be green. But it will be that style. Not sure about marble coffee table but...heck it's free! I'll take photos if anyone wants to see them

CharlieParley · 24/09/2021 16:32

Lovely sofa, but is your head okay?

MrsOvertonsWindow · 24/09/2021 16:33

That's not good with the delivery driver Sad. I guess it must be hard readjusting after the last challenging years.

EmbarrassingAdmissions · 24/09/2021 16:47

I would like a photo if you can. I adore furniture.

I am not great company as I am tired and grumpy. I will isolate myself in the corner with an elderflower cordial until I am fit for man or beast and let myself be soothed by the ambience if that’s OK.

DetroitNeedsADog · 24/09/2021 17:10

Mmmm...I've had worse, but have a cracking headache, nauseous, and feel dazed. One eye is bruised worse than the other. Hit on top of the head. I bent down to pick up the parcel he out down, he slammed the door on my head. Parcel wasn't for me. He had thrown my masks and lap desk in the hallway. I'll be ok. Not going to hospital - delta plus no insurance. I know they have to give emergency treatment but I know they will just send me home..

DetroitNeedsADog · 24/09/2021 17:11

I'm very grateful and I love my home. I'm also terrified of losing it...

ErrolTheDragon · 24/09/2021 19:46

Sorry about your head, but glad you're getting some nice furniture.

My alpacas seem quite benign and calming.

Something old, something new, something BlueStocking
Something old, something new, something BlueStocking
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DetroitNeedsADog · 24/09/2021 20:19

To be fair, the alpaca in question had been snuggled by too many small children and had bad enough. Altacka's they were called for a while after that incident...your darlings look adorable.
Men smashing things over my head is about usual. It's ok. I've stopped puking and feel less dazed now.