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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

It will never happen - resource thread.

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MipMipMip · 27/08/2018 18:24

I'm hoping Rowantrees will be a contributor on here! This is basically a thread to keep together stories of all the things that we have been told will never happen. Please put what the item is about as well as a link for clarity.

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ScrimshawTheSecond · 05/11/2025 10:57

Note that when a transwoman exposes his penis, papers are sometimes denying his gender identity:

https://www.lancs.live/news/lancashire-news/dad-tracked-down-dangerous-pervert-32406386

'A serial sex offender, who has been sentenced to 28 months in jail, admitted "I was unable to control my urges" after flashing a ten-year-old girl near a children's play area.
Laura Ashleigh Mart, who was born male but now identifies as female, had been banned from loitering near play areas and schools under a sexual harm prevention order imposed for previous offences, Lancs Live reports.
But on July 18, 2025, a 10-year-old girl who was playing in Williamson Park, Lancaster, saw "a man with long hair and a green jumper" looking at her. The man exposed his penis and wiggled it at her, before putting it away, Preston Crown Court heard.'

And sometimes still describing 'her penis':

https://www.lancashiretelegraph.co.uk/news/25438325.great-harwoods-laura-mart-jailed-exposure-lancaster/

'A woman who exposed herself to a group of children in a Lancaster park has been jailed.
Laura Mart, 35, who is a transgender woman, appeared before Preston Sessions House, charged with one count of indecent exposure and breaching a sexual harm prevention order.
The incident occurred on July 18, when the defendant, of Game Street, Great Harwood, was walking in Williamson Park, in Wyresdale Road.
A child who was playing on the monkey bars in the park saw Mart holding her penis and wiggling it at her, and she immediately told her friends and father.'

YorkshirePuddingsGreatestFan · 05/11/2025 15:35

I noted how he confirms he has male genitals but he can't understand why women are uncomfortable with him being in the male changing room. He believes he's a woman so that's final.

Except he hasn't grown up as a woman. Like most women, he hasn't been the victim of unwanted male behaviour because of his sex. I'm not talking of the obvious rape and other such serious crimes. I mean the low level male violence that women are subjected to on a daily basis - being stared at, lewd comments, cat calling, unwanted advances, a man sat behind my daughter on the bus last week and stroked her hair. When you grow up with this sort of behaviour happening on a regular basis, you are naturally wary of all men due to the number of men who show disrespectful behaviour.

It doesn't matter how many hormones a man takes, how much surgery he has, how he wears feminine clothing and so on, he will never understand the lived in experience women have of dealing with men and why we are wary of men such as him. It's not transphobic, it's a natural female instinct as we see men as a potential predator and we still see him as a man, regardless of what he feels like.

lcakethereforeIam · 05/11/2025 16:12

I think California is full on gender woo. The gym probably has no choice. Even if they provide a mixed sex or private changing rooms they can't force him to use them or deny him membership for this behaviour. They probably kicked Tish out to stop a lawsuit from him.

If anyone knows better, I'd love to be wrong.

Lalgarh · 05/11/2025 17:55

More unthinkable ness.

Claims to own the place. Trigger ⚠️ etc

nitter.net/babybeginner/status/1985878088048394421#m

FranticFrankie · 09/11/2025 16:25

The guy interviewing Tish!!! Why should she have to justify herself? She was clearly getting upset. Disgusting behaviour from the gym

FranticFrankie · 09/11/2025 16:27

Drag queen nursery teacher? Words i never thought I'd see put together!
Indecent messages? Gross

Chersfrozenface · 21/11/2025 11:29

Another one. Samuel Wimbridge, self-styled Kizzy Lavender Lee-Wimbridge.

Formerly active with, and an office holder of, the local Pride organisation.

Here's the Reddux article:
https://reduxx.info/exclusive-scottish-trans-activist-in-court-on-child-sexual-abuse-charges/

A snippet
"Reduxx has discovered a disturbing digital footprint belonging to Wimbridge, including a social media profile within an online fetish community where he claimed to be a “trans lesbian” with a sexual interest in “age play.”

Wimbridge maintained a profile on the internet’s leading fetish community, FetLife, where he expressed a sexual interest in humiliation, BDSM, schoolgirl fetishes, redheads, polyamory, age play, and public sexual acts."

And the stories about hearings at Reading Crown Court in the local press:
https://www.newburytoday.co.uk/news/former-newbury-pride-committee-member-charged-with-child-sex-9435332/

https://www.newburytoday.co.uk/news/child-sex-allegations-against-gay-and-trans-rights-campaigne-9441283/

To complete the bingo card, he claims an ethnicity (Romani) which is evidently not his.

We'll see what happens at the Crown Court on 10 December.

Lalgarh · 24/11/2025 14:05

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Helleofabore · 04/12/2025 17:14

https://x.com/Serena_Partrick/status/1996153684019835296?s=20

Jonathan de Jesus Robaina Santana is serving 38 years in prison for bludgeoning his cousin with a hammer, asphyxiating her until she died, then defiling her corpse. After developing a case of Prison Onset Gender Dysphoria, the press now refer to him as a "young woman".

Serena (@Serena_Partrick) on X

Jonathan de Jesus Robaina Santana is serving 38 years in prison for bludgeoning his cousin with a hammer, asphyxiating her until she died, then defiling her corpse. After developing a case of Prison Onset Gender Dysphoria, the press now refer to him a...

https://x.com/Serena_Partrick/status/1996153684019835296?s=20

Helleofabore · 05/01/2026 15:56

This incident happened in May 2025 but really only was picked up 7 months later by Tish Hyman who reposted it.

The first post is of the woman discovering the male gym user masturbating in the changing room / toilet areas by seeing his shadow. She explains in the second link which is from January 2026 more about the incident.

It was in Planet Fitness and she was shocked by seeing that so left the changing room and went and talked to her boyfriend. Then she went back inside and the masturbater was still going so she FaceTimed her boyfriend to discuss what to do. She ended up going out to the front desk and the staff came back with her. They knocked on the door, the masturbating male gym user said he was a woman and that Planet Fitness allowed him to be in that space.

No one called the police. And there was no follow up.

https://x.com/libsoftiktok/status/2007990639397679375?s=20

https://x.com/libsoftiktok/status/2008060989414203890?s=20

Libs of TikTok (@libsoftiktok) on X

⚠️GRAPHIC⚠️ Man pretending to be a woman caught m*sturbating in the women’s bathroom with women present “I’m allowed to be in here… I’m a transgender.”

https://x.com/libsoftiktok/status/2007990639397679375?s=20

Helleofabore · 07/01/2026 09:38

https://archive.is/3ln4c

6 January

Transwoman Ella Potter accused of firebomb blackmail plot

Ella Potter, 28, is said to have demanded money with menaces in threats made against Norton Peskett solicitors, which has offices in Norwich and Great Yarmouth.

Norwich Magistrates’ Court was told the defendant is accused of having told a senior partner of the firm on July 17 last year that the arson threat would be carried out unless a six-figure cash demand was paid.

Potter, who is male but who identifies as a transgender female, appeared in court to face a single charge of blackmail.

Prosecutor Wendy Davidson said the charge was so serious that it could only be heard at the crown court” …

Note: No use of female pronouns at all in the article. Nice and clear language.

Lalgarh · 07/01/2026 09:50

Not strictly in line, but of note on the reporting that seems unexpected given editorial lines.

The Daily Mail respecting preferred gender pronouns for the alleged attacker of JD Vance's house

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-15436127/william-defoor-julia-transgender-jd-vance-home-attacker.html

Unlike the Guardian which goes with sex based

https://www.theguardian.com/us-news/2026/jan/05/jd-vance-cincinnati-ohio-home

Edited: Gah didn't notice @misscockerspaniel sorry

JD Vance 'home attacker' is transgender daughter of wealthy doctors

The Daily Mail has uncovered fascinating details about the suspect accused of attacking JD Vance's Ohio home.

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-15436127/william-defoor-julia-transgender-jd-vance-home-attacker.html

Bosky · 07/01/2026 23:17

Lalgarh · 07/01/2026 09:50

Not strictly in line, but of note on the reporting that seems unexpected given editorial lines.

The Daily Mail respecting preferred gender pronouns for the alleged attacker of JD Vance's house

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-15436127/william-defoor-julia-transgender-jd-vance-home-attacker.html

Unlike the Guardian which goes with sex based

https://www.theguardian.com/us-news/2026/jan/05/jd-vance-cincinnati-ohio-home

Edited: Gah didn't notice @misscockerspaniel sorry

Edited

The Guardian hides the truth in a different way, by not mentioning anywhere that the man identifies as trans or wants us to regard him as a woman. So, just some bloke - not a “trans crime”.

Helleofabore · 08/01/2026 07:35

https://archive.is/ldkYc

https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/womens_rights/5472282-famous-trans-chef-charged-with-domestic-violence?reply=149710912

Famous transgender 'chef of the year' turned up at girlfriend's Portland apartment while drunk then groped and throttled her, police say

famous transgender chef has been charged with domestic violence after she allegedly attacked her girlfriend while drunk, Oregon police say.

Luna Contreras, 45, was arrested on December 19 after she allegedly arrived 'intoxicated' at the Portland apartment of an 'intimate partner of two months,' according to a court document obtained the Daily Mail

Famous trans chef charged with domestic violence | Mumsnet

Just another 'it never happens, except it really does' incident. US based case which has also been picked up by the [[https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news...

https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/womens_rights/5472282-famous-trans-chef-charged-with-domestic-violence?reply=149710912

NotBadConsidering · 08/01/2026 09:07

https://nitter.poast.org/salltweets/status/2008016999960691144#m

Man caught masturbating in women’s changing room.

Helleofabore · 10/02/2026 07:46

This needs a warning. This is an accusation of child on child sexual assault.

An allegation about a male wrestler who claims to be a female wrestler sexually assaulting a female opponent with his fingers during a bout.

https://www.patreon.com/posts/teen-athlete-she-150338658

I suspect that this claim will go no further. Kellie Keeler has been brave speaking out about what has been done to her.

https://x.com/brandikruse/status/2020921228538806498?s=46