we also have to accept that there are trans individuals who are afraid and that they genuinely feel under threat.
This, along with the comment that some are buying into the propaganda, frames it as a problem that GC women should take on the responsibility for solving.
That also frames GC women as the grown ups who not only can bu morally should put aside their own feelings and needs in order to meet the needs of the more vulnerable and less able trans people - am I the only one who finds this really quite condescending towards trans people as a group? I don't think sticker charts and love bombing is going to help much.
The cry of 'take care of me/us and take a higher share of responsibility because you're a woman' is not a healthy request when it comes from any adult, partners included, and not healthy for women to feel compelled to do.